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Life Without Cheating

footetickle said:
:ranty:I just needed to do this so that i could vent. I seen another member do this once and it made since. No need to leave commit!

:rant:I pride myself on being a dying breed, and that would be a gentlemen. I always love to sweep a beautiful woman off her feet and doing romantic gestures. The downside to this would be that i tend to attach/commit to her a little to fast. My first love cheated on me and caught the "clap".:ignite: In all my years of dating woman i have never cheated on any of them and i like to keep that stat in my corner. I know im a great man, but I just cant seem to find the right one. I just want someone who is into everything that i am. I just love the simple things in life. I always live life to the fullest doing the things that make me happy: Riding my motorcycle, dancing, playing the piano, and tickling.:woot:
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I feel for you.I am truely up front with women about everything.I tell them if I want serious or play or whatever.I hate the games so I don't play them.That cheating crap is for the birds.I too have never cheated on anyone,but have been cheated on by quite a few.I guess I expect to be cheated on anymore.I just enjoy myself while I can ya know.I am single alot so as not to get hurt.It is very hard to let your guard down these days.Hope you feel better soon.
 
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And you know why? Because nice guys finish last so us assholes reproduce more. Since we quit the arranged marriages bit we have been scoring all the time while the friendly nice guys stood by and waited for the women to run crying into their open arms. However, they don't, they just go for another asshole to break their heart.



You say that like it's something to be proud of!
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It's nothing to be proud of, but, sadly enough, a fact!!

A nice decent guy all too often is sent right into friend-zone! Once a woman uses the killer sentence 'You are such a good friend' - there goes evey chance the guy had!

I know the game from myself and just about every single one of my female friends: There's the real gentleman, getting us the stars from the sky - and we think he is cute, but that's it. He's such a good friend!

But once the asshole comes who acts like he doesn't need or want us (and he probably really doesn't!), now that's the one we really want. The harder it is to get, the more it is valued!!
 
Yeah,it seems if you try to be polite and are the one trying to get the girl you can't,but if you pay little or no attention to them they throw themselves at you,interesting.Then,some jerk screws her around and everyone is surprised.:illogical
 
Some of you guys are young; wait'll you get past 30 and see how things change. Women will be looking for husband and father material, not just someone to roll around the bed with (well at least some women anyway).

But for those of you who think it's okay to play with women's hearts just to get yourselves off then thump your chest about it, I have this to say to you:

Karma's a b*tch!!! And as my mother and grandmother used to say:

What goes around comes around!
 
kis123 said:
Some of you guys are young; wait'll you get past 30 and see how things change. Women will be looking for husband and father material, not just someone to roll around the bed with (well at least some women anyway).

But for those of you who think it's okay to play with women's hearts just to get yourselves off then thump your chest about it, I have this to say to you:

Karma's a b*tch!!! And as my mother and grandmother used to say:

What goes around comes around!
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Karma is a bitch, but she is so good in bed.
 
Knot Amewzed said:
Karma is a bitch, but she is so good in bed.
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Yeah, but you can come up burned too.....and not in a good way.

Sometimes you have to leave certain folks alone; in the end it's just not going to be worth it.

I'd rather have a nice guy with average sex then a complete ass who treats me badly except in bed. I can work with average sex to make it better. I can't work with an idiot no matter how great the sex is.
 
It's not about men or women really.It's about human beings.Some are considerate of others and some are not.Both have the power to break hearts.Everyone either has or will be hurt by another at some point in life.I think what is important is how you as an individual handle and react to your disappointment,and what you take away from it.
 
Ledega said:
It's not about men or women really.It's about human beings.Some are considerate of others and some are not.Both have the power to break hearts.Everyone either has or will be hurt by another at some point in life.I think what is important is how you as an individual handle and react to your disappointment,and what you take away from it.
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I only refer to the guys a lot because I'm female. I'm no means delusional as to how skank-ified some women can act. This is not a man-bashing thread, at least it isn't to me. But being female and hetero, I only have one perspective to comment on.
 
kis123 said:
I only refer to the guys a lot because I'm female. I'm no means delusional as to how skank-ified some women can act. This is not a man-bashing thread, at least it isn't to me. But being female and hetero, I only have one perspective to comment on.
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Oh no problem.I am a straight male and like only women.My comment was'nt towards yours.I was just letting people know that I am against cheating from anyone,and will not take the guys side just because i am a guy or the girls side just to get brownie points or something ya know.If I am asked to comfort someone who has just been heartbroke I would'nt make excuses for the guy or the girl because there is no excuse.Again,I was not aiming at your comment or anything.I was just giving my own feelings I truely meant no offense to anyone.Well,except maybe the cheaters ; )
 
Acknowledgment

VeganTickle: Thank you. I not sure why some people get offended by this post.

Kis123:I am in a few different groups. I know that i will have some haters, but they do not define me. :woot:

TicklishMikey:Im glad that there is another man how has been were i have. Thanks for the words of wisdom :yourock:

Skipadeedoodah: Thanks! :ty:

Mammers09::yowzer: Never! I guess your right, but i hope you never have to go through this.

Knot Amewzed::roflmao: I appreciate that. Yeah, your right its not.

Haribish!::iagree:

CrystalLight:I know that there are some really bad men out there, but for the most part most of them are at least OK(at least the people i surround myself with).

Bohemianne :I understand what your saying. Its just that im not the best writer on the forum. LOL

Ledega:Single seems like the way to go. :boogie: Thanks for posting.
 
footetickle said:
VeganTickle: Thank you. I not sure why some people get offended by this post.

Kis123:I am in a few different groups. I know that i will have some haters, but they do not define me. :woot:

TicklishMikey:Im glad that there is another man how has been were i have. Thanks for the words of wisdom :yourock:

Skipadeedoodah: Thanks! :ty:

Mammers09::yowzer: Never! I guess your right, but i hope you never have to go through this.

Knot Amewzed::roflmao: I appreciate that. Yeah, your right its not.

Haribish!::iagree:

CrystalLight:I know that there are some really bad men out there, but for the most part most of them are at least OK(at least the people i surround myself with).

Bohemianne :I understand what your saying. Its just that im not the best writer on the forum. LOL

Ledega:Single seems like the way to go. :boogie: Thanks for posting.
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I just want to say,don't ever give up on love brother.I truely believe there is someone for everyone.You just have to get through the bad obstacles while reaching them ; )
 
:iagree: I completely understand were your coming from. You know how it is after your hurt by your significant other. It will just take some time before im looking like that again. Now im just trying to have fun.:excited:
 
footetickle said:
:iagree: I completely understand were your coming from. You know how it is after your hurt by your significant other. It will just take some time before im looking like that again. Now im just trying to have fun.:excited:
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Hell yeah,gotta have fun.:toast:
 
kis123 said:
I'd rather have a nice guy with average sex then a complete ass who treats me badly except in bed. I can work with average sex to make it better. I can't work with an idiot no matter how great the sex is.
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I am so fortunate to be a great guy that has superb sex. :typerhappy:
 
kis123 said:
And who's modesty and humility knows no bounds!:woot2:

Well I guess if you don't toot your own horn, no one will do it for you
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If I could toot my own horn, it would save me thousands of dollars. Drug induced drinks at the nightclub are costing me a fortune.

:doublethrust:
 
Knot Amewzed said:
I am so fortunate to be a great guy that has superb sex. :typerhappy:
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Well...I used to have superb sex...So I guess you've got me beat there. Damn you.

But I digress, looking for a way to blame yourself for a girl cheating on you is just what 'they' want you to do. 'They', being the majority of women, exploit "The Unfair Sex", and try to make you believe it's your fault regardless. Of course, this is all a conspiracy you know? The truth is that real women are rare, as back in the 60s they were mostly killed and replaced by...FEMBOTS! SPREAD THE TRUTH! KILL THE LIES!
 
footetickle said:
I just want someone who is into everything that i am.
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Just a thought.It's quite possible,i would say normal to have a fulling relationship or even a marriage with someone who does not share all your interests.🙂
 
I think the important thing to understand is that there isn't just the two extremes of nice guy and asshole. There ARE guys who have achieved the happy medium of being nice to the ladies while still exhibiting the confidence to assert oneself and not be a doormat for women to walk on. I wouldn't exactly say that it's a fine line between the two extremes, but every woman is different, and will respond best to different degrees of assertiveness.

Also, one should remember to not harbor expectations about the other person. Maintain enough of your individuality to not become dependent and clingy when she wants to go off and do her own thing. Don't just give in to be "nice" when she wants you to skip out on watching UFC, something you do every week, because she wants to watch HGTV, or whatever hypothetical scenario fits. When you compromise your own integrity, you can grow resentment when your partner doesn't reciprocate your sacrifices. Also, too much compromise and you become a doormat, and they wouldn't even see it that they were doing anything wrong, because you're habitually saying "Yeah, it's okay. We can do |insert random thing you don't want to do|! It doesn't bother me at all!"
 
I don't know why "nice guy" translates to "milk toast!" When someone says "nice girl" or "woman" it doesn't equate to doormat does it? Why can't a nice guy just be a good strong loving man who treats his woman well and commits to the relationship? Why does nice turn into weak??
 
footetickle said:
:ranty:I just needed to do this so that i could vent. I seen another member do this once and it made since. No need to leave commit!

:rant:I pride myself on being a dying breed, and that would be a gentlemen. I always love to sweep a beautiful woman off her feet and doing romantic gestures. The downside to this would be that i tend to attach/commit to her a little to fast. My first love cheated on me and caught the "clap".:ignite: In all my years of dating woman i have never cheated on any of them and i like to keep that stat in my corner. I know im a great man, but I just cant seem to find the right one. I just want someone who is into everything that i am. I just love the simple things in life. I always live life to the fullest doing the things that make me happy: Riding my motorcycle, dancing, playing the piano, and tickling.:woot:
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Shouldn't this be in the personals section?

-Xionking
 
kis123 said:
I'd rather have a nice guy with average sex then a complete ass who treats me badly except in bed. I can work with average sex to make it better. I can't work with an idiot no matter how great the sex is.
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Ya know, at this point in time....I kinda think I'd take the amazing sex...
 
kis123 said:
I don't know why "nice guy" translates to "milk toast!" When someone says "nice girl" or "woman" it doesn't equate to doormat does it? Why can't a nice guy just be a good strong loving man who treats his woman well and commits to the relationship? Why does nice turn into weak??
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What I was trying to convey is that there IS a difference between a nice, confident guy who treats women respectfully, and a guy who lets women walk on him by forgetting to protect his personal interests; doing everything he can to fulfill her wants. I also feel that there are women who fall victim to this behavior, as well.
 
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