A Buddy System?

[TklshDiva]

your not at all wrong in asking for someone to scope out the situation at all and to make sure things are cool before being tickled i tickled a woman once where her hubby wanted to see the whole setup and when he was satisfied he left the room and felt cool with what would happen to his wife.

I wasn't expecting the person who I asked to come as a "buddy" to stay the whole time just long enough to show his face in some way. I agree with you!

 

[TklshDiva]

Let me rephrase something ...

Haha, there's no way that the email the thread starter complains about was nearly as rude as her own replies in this very thread.

I wasn't rude at all. In life we have choices and in my life and career I choose who I want to be friends with the same goes for you. You may not like my responses that is your choice and you are entitled to them.

With the amount of emails that I recieved it was wonderful to know that others felt the same, understood what I said which was great. When you're harsh about a reply to an email your harsh and that is what he was harsh, nasty and pathetic period. I can't and won't reveal or explain anymore of this. What's done is done.

The fact that others didn't get it that's okay. People get things at different times, or understand or process things differently that's the way of the world. I shouldn't have said I don't care about what other people think because it's hurtful to them and that's not right nor is that who I am as a person! So I do apologize for making that statement. When others hurt I do hurt.

Back to you and your comment - you're entitled to your opinion! 🙂

 

[DLazarus]

I don't have a problem with anything you've said sweetie. I sent you my IM and e-mail address if you want to talk.
Take care and I hope to hear from you soon.

 

[TklshDiva]

Wow. Here's where you're wrong, in three parts:

1)You were wrong for assuming that someone who doesn't even know you would accompany you to a private session as your escort. And you obviously did assume it, because his simple, direct 'no' was so offensive to you.

If you met a random guy in a bar and decided to take him home for some casual sex, would you ask the bartender to come along with you because he's 'respected' in the bar? It's just not how things are done.

2) You were wrong for even agreeing to have a tickle session with someone you don't know or feel comfortable enough to be in a room with alone. A minor point, since it's your life...except you knew this wasn't smart, since you weren't comfortable enough to even meet him in private...so yeah...

3) You're wrong for criticizing everyone who isn't ready to jump on your hate-bandwagon. They're not criticizing you for expressing an opinion, they're criticizing the opinion you expressed. Because it's wrong.

Where do you get off telling me I assume. Were you apart of the conversation in the beginning when I asked this “guy” to just be there? I do know him thank you very much! I don’t just ask random people. He wouldn’t be my “escort”. His simple direct no and you want to be a mod? Now that’s a joke! LOL
First of all I don’t do casual sex and secondly I wouldn’t meet a random guy in a bar so this section means nothing to me. I’m not wrong for agreeing to meet someone I’m wrong to think that a guy who’s a so called producer on this website who has asked ME a few times to be in his videos would have an issue meeting with me and this so called tickler and I'm wrong?

I never once criticized anyone in here. I just in the beginning said I didn’t care what other people said. I should have been more clear on that statement that I made. It really had nothing to do with them persay. Hate? What are you talking about? I never once asked a soul to respond. It was my headline and my thoughts on an email that I was questioning but let’s get one thing straight here I never asked someone or anyone to HATE someone for expressing themselves! Those are clearly your thoughts your issues and YOUR OPINION!

"3) You're wrong for criticizing everyone who isn't ready to jump on your hate-bandwagon. They're not criticizing you for expressing an opinion, they're criticizing the opinion you expressed. Because it's wrong.[/QUOTE]"

That’s wrong! Your expressing YOUR OPINION THAT Mine IS WRONG? We both seem to disagree in OUR OPINION! Because I think your wrong we both have 2 different opinions and that’s OKAY!

As my Grandmother once said - Shane!

 

[TropicThunder]

Where do you get off telling me I assume. Were you apart of the conversation in the beginning when I asked this “guy” to just be there? I do know him you moron. I don’t just ask random people. He wouldn’t be my “escort”. You are pathetic. His simple direct no and you want to be a mod? Now that’s a joke! LOL
First of all I don’t do casual sex and secondly I wouldn’t meet a random guy in a bar so this section means nothing to me. I’m not wrong for agreeing to meet someone I’m wrong to think that a guy who’s a so called producer on this website who has asked me a few times to be in a video wouldn’t have an issue meeting and showing his so called face at my initial meet young man.
If you met a random guy in a bar and decided to take him home for some casual sex, would you ask the bartender to come along with you because he's 'respected' in the bar? It's just not how things are done. I never once criticized anyone in here. I don’t label people or call them names ever. Never hav e in my life and never will sweetness. I just in the beginning said I didn’t care what other people said. I should have been more clear on that statement that I made. It really had nothing to do with them. Hate? What are you talking about? I never once asked a soul to respond. It was my headline and my thoughts on an email that I was questioning but let’s get one things straight young man I never asked someone or anyone HATE someone for expressing themselves!

That’s wrong! Your expressing YOUR OPINION THAT MY OPINION IS WRONG. We both seem to disagree in OUR OPINION! Because I think your wrong we both have 2 different opinions and that’s OKAY!

As my Grandmother once said - Shane!

The things I've highlighted in bold are a perfect example of how rude you are being, and how you so blantantly contradict yourself. You don't call people names ever?

 

[herts tickler]

and thats the end of that chapter....isnt it? please say yes.

yep. quoted myself. thats how much this thread needs to end.

 

[TklshDiva]

The things I've highlighted in bold are a perfect example of how rude you are being, and how you so blantantly contradict yourself. You don't call people names ever?

Yes you're right and if you scroll back you will clearly see when you just posted and when I edited my thoughts and took those out! Go figure there is a thing called EDIT!

 

[TropicThunder]

Yes you're right and if you scroll back you will clearly see when you just posted and when I edited my thoughts and took those out! Go figure there is a thing called EDIT!

Yes. you edited them.

That doesn't mean it still didn't happen. You edited your post only after I pointed these things out.

You're being very rude. And its not nessecary.

 

[TklshDiva]

Yes. you edited them.

That doesn't mean it still didn't happen. You edited your post only after I pointed these things out.

You're being very rude. And its not nessecary.

I'm not being "very rude". Look how you continue to aggravate (to make worse or more severe; intensify) look who's calling the kettle black here? LOL

I took responsibility and mentioned how I edited my initial response now why don't you do the same and move on!

 

[rhiannon]

I do think before I speak sweetie unlike yourself!

Yes you're right and if you scroll back you will clearly see when you just posted and when I edited my thoughts and took those out! Go figure there is a thing called EDIT!

If you think before you type (takes way longer than thinking!), there is no need for editing!

 

[TklshDiva]

If you think before you type (takes way longer than thinking!), there is no need for editing!

wow and how long did it take you to come up with this one? LOL

Please I will say this! After posting this topic and the responses besides tklduo ann and a few others ... I will now take myself off this site! You wonder why people kill themselves? I posted other responses to the other ones. If you didn't like my response just walk away.

So that's what I'm going to do. I will keep my mouth shut in this final post and snot ay what is really on my mind no I actually I won't. I've never been quiet before why should I start now?! If you see something say something has always been my strong point! " You ppl have way too much time on your hands" The only reason why I'm here the same way you are is the love for tickling.

I will now shut myself off from the tickling world completely! I did it before for years now I will do it for good but before I go here's a food for thought rhiannon Instead of taking little bits and pieces of what I've said take the whole content. Those comments were apart of a whole response I didn't just say that one thing. Give me a break! Talk about being unfair. I've also come to the realization that you people love to kiss a**. When one person makes a comment the other will follow with a "yeah".

If you have a voice speak up, use it. Do you honestly think they are going to be there for you when you need it?! That's a joke and that should have been there for the original topic. I know who my friends are on here and they are just wonderful people ... I look at half of you and think especially with the ones that have responded I wouldn't even look at you twice let alone the first time. Now you can say oh man she's a b**** and I will say if that's the best you can do?! 🙂

Life is way too short especially for bullshit like this and childish behavior. Say what you will after this response, whine all you want. Take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror if you like what you see then so be it if not then change it!

Have Fun!
I know I will

 

[herts tickler]

...i told you this thread should have ended ages ago. talk about out of proportion...

 

[ILuvShoes]

Wow

I'm really shocked at how this whole topic has gone and I'm really disappointed. I need to rethink this whole thing myself. I feel like after reading some of YOUR posts that I've been put through the ringer and I didn't do anything I just made 1 comment.

Sad as to how some of you behave It truly is. Thank god I run my own company, have the people I have working for me, and I'm very successful. 🙂

I don't know what else to say I'm still in complete disgust & shock!

 

[myth77]

What a great show this thread was! Full of drama and...🙄

 

[ILuvShoes]

...i told you this thread should have ended ages ago. talk about out of proportion...

Well from where I was sitting obviously she was expressing herself the best way she knew how and I'm a dear friend of hers! I have a different opinion about the others and again it is MY OPINION! So be it.

I'd love to see someone talk smack about me!?

 

[myth77]

I'd love to see someone talk smack about me!?

Why? I think there's been enough bad vibes, don't you?

 

[ILuvShoes]

Why? I think there's been enough bad vibes, don't you?

After reading this whole topic/post I just know how some of you are there isn't anything in between.

and as to your comment ::: saying with compassionate voice ::: Yes I DO!

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Sorry to see that this got so out of hand here! Diva, I wish you well and hope that you do find some way to have a safe and fun experience!

 

[The Last Laugh]

Am I the only one who thinks "TklshDIVA" is the perfect choice for a username? So appropriate.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Let's face it, gang. NONE of us has been entirely charitable in this. Let's just let it rest. Huh!

 

[Gadilici]

Is this thread really worth all the energy spent spewing venom on it?

If a woman wants a buddy present to feel comfortable being tickled, it's her call. Same for a guy. If he wants a friend present, it's his call.

As far as all the personal vitriol....is it really worth it?

Christopher

 

[Speedbump]

Funny how Diva turned this thread into a major trolling attempt and people continue to argue with her. Everyone move along, this thread is over!

 

[ILuvShoes]

Am I the only one who thinks "TklshDIVA" is the perfect choice for a username? So appropriate.

Do me a favor "JagOff" watch your mouth!

 

[ILuvShoes]

Funny how Diva turned this thread into a major trolling attempt and people continue to argue with her. Everyone move along, this thread is over!

Miss TklshDiva posted a thread just like all of you post whatever bothers you, ails you, qsts that you might have etc it's her CHOICE Mr. Speedbump okay good. As far as she turning this thread as YOU claim into a major trolling attempt you're so far from the truth it's not even funny.

It's kids like you who need to shut your mouth and STOP this pathetic behavior. You don't have the right to make a call like that and then say oh let's move on.

As to Gadilici - You are 100% correct! This should have been said earlier. 🙂

I have spoken to atleast 50 people today on this type of crap/behavior that happened in her thread and I'm so ready to pull out!