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A Death in the Community

josie

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I received the following information today and thought I should share it.

Josie
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In Memory of J.R. Pinder
who passed away
November 7th, 2004

_
Hello! My name Is E. Pinder! I'm Totally2J.R.'s younger Brother! I'm here at [email protected].
I have some bad news! Totally2J.R. died on November 7th, 2004! He died of a Heart Attack at his home here in
New York! If any of you ever met J.R. or have known him for some time your asking your self the same
thing we are How. He spend the last 3 years in the New York Sports Club with a Personal trainers, Nutritionist, the
works! He lost over 150lbs over the past 3 years so it was no crash diet. Even as we try to gather and organize his
things all we find are wheat english muffins, health food bars, protein drinks.etc,etc!

Totally2J.R. was born January 26th 1971. There will be a Wake on Sunday November 21th from 12:30pm to
6:30pm. There will be a Funeral on Monday November 22nd at 1:00pm. The services will be held at Unity Funeral
Chapels Inc. On 126th Street and 8th avenue, New York, N.Y. 10027! 1-212-666-8300! If you're at all like me
you're wondering why a Funeral Home has the first 3 numbers of their phone number 666. I just thought it was kind
of strange, ya Know! The whole 666 thing and all!

In any event I'm not closing this account! I will continue to read and respond to J.R.'s E-mail as best I can. As
people and companies contact J.R. I will inform them of his demise and will answer all other mail with a simple
letter like this one to inform them of the situation!

As I read the E-mail of my Brother I realize that there was an entire life that my brother was into that I knew
about, but that I really didn't know that he was really so into! No Judgements we are all as different as a drop of
water in the Ocean! And I Love My Brother Too Much to let anything I find HERE in this perception of reality and
that's all this is, I constantly had to remind J.R. that the people here might not be who and what they say they are!
But he was so trusting he never saw that side of people. He always said " I start everyone off with a hundred
points in my book and they work their way down!" He was always a the Glass is Half Full kind of Guy! Watch the
Movie "Finding Nemo" The second or third main character is a Blue fish with the voice of Ellen Degeneres named
"Dori" That was J.R. to a certain extent, Minus the short term Memory! But if he considered you a friend and or
if you were in trouble he was there!!!!!!

You can respond directly as [email protected]! Thanks for your time and your friendship to J.R.!

***

I was shocked to hear this news about J.R. I remember when he attended one of my gatherings in August 2000. It was the first gathering he ever attended and he was SO nervous that he hung out on the porch the whole time ! He came to gathering after gathering and soon became a fixture around here. J.R. was a sweet guy... always a positive thinker. He will be greatly missed in the community and the world as well.

- Josie
(11/21/04)
 
I'm shocked and saddened that this happened...

Kwil and I met JR at one of Josie's gatherings; he was friendly and fun, and we thoroughly enjoyed meeting him.

Thank you for letting us know, josie. :sadcry:
 
This is very sad news, my condolences to J R's family. What a terrible shame to lose him so young.

Mitch
 
RIP

My condolences to his entire family. Had I known about the wake in time I would have actually gone, but it's the 22nd already. Sigh.

Thanks for letting us know, Josie
 
My condolences to JR's family. He was one of the first people I met at my first gathering. I remember him as such a nice young man and so excited about tickling. What a tragic loss. Rest in peace JR.
Karen
 
My heartfelt condolences to his family. Having survived a heart-attack at a young age, I've realized how precious and unpredictable mortality can be. It's sad to lose someone this way.
 
That was really wonderful for his brother to pass along the news.

Rest in Peace JR!
 
I didn't know him but if this many people I know in real life thought this highly of him, he must have been very special~I hope your family will find peace...

XOXO
 
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