A Question for the forum.....

[crydun]

I'm thinking of becoming a professional Tickle Mistress. There are no dungeons in this area. I wonder what would be the best context to go about this that is the most cost-effective. Neutron's thread about Allison's personal ad and some of the replies to it made me wonder. As an aside, I will charge for tickling but I would never make a guy pay for a hotel room unless he wanted to. And, my rates are going to be much less than 200. Any feedback on this is appreciated.

 

[chrisheaven]

good luck with the venture, Crydun!😀

 

[Coffee]

I would recommend that you get advice from the other members who are Professional Dommes. I'm sure like any business venture there are tons of hidden fees, insurances, advertisement cost etc. Also you might want to hire a lawyer to see if there are any state, city or local laws that may get you in trouble. Best of Luck

 

[stan327]

Roles reversed?

I'm not too ticklish but I would pay to tickle you!
🙂

 

[crydun]

that's fine stan.

I do charge 20 more to be lee because more trust is involved. But, still, the rates are much cheaper.

 

[Mitchell]

Good Luck with your new business, Crydun. Iam always supportive of those who want to be in their own business, having chosen that road myself. I do agree with Coffee's post. I would check out all the angles and such before actually opening for business, to make sure everything is in order and such. All the best to you, I hope things turn out really well.

Mitch

 

[Jason_F/M]

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Can we get a partial refund if you can't make us laugh? 😉

 

[Neutron]

Just Make Sure It's What You Want..

Charge whatever you like. It depends on what you want out of it. I had no problem with paying for a room, I just considered Allisons rate out of the normal and wanted to know if anyone would actually pay that.

If nudity and bondage is allowed and I happen to be paying I've never had a problem with over 100 an hour. DEpending on the woman I've paid about 200. JUst remember though. at those rates I got a lot more (usually a Bodyslide afterwards.) MOst likely you'll have to put up with some nudity (I'd be happy to help ya in that regard!LOL)

In Ontario Lady Cassandra Heyward would sometimes send out her submissives on outcalls, basically to your room in a hotel. The rate was 125 an hour US. I found that extremely fair.

Tron

 

[TickledToDeath]

Good luck Crydun. Shygirl and I were thinking of doing the same thing. However I think she will have more clients than me since I doubt women would pay to tickle torture a guy or visa versa.
She will have most of the action so to speak I will be her manager for the most part and guard.
I think you will do quite well Crydun in your neck of the woods. Be careful though and again, the best of luck.
One suggestion, have a friend with you for protection and make your sessions, OUT calls. I wouldn't let folks come to your home.

TTD

 

[steph]

Dearest Crystal~

Although we're new friends, I can tell by your poetry, stories, posts, etc that you are a thoughtful, sweet soul~I bet you'd be hard pressed to find anyone here who wouldn't come out in support of your business venture! Your popularity here and reasonable prices should serve as a cool incentive~no one likes to feel like they were taken advantage of...😉

You might see if some of the long-time pros, Mistress Diva, etc. might have some helpful advice for you. I'd start with your menu~decide what you will do, what you won't etc. You might also poll some of the dungeon regular guys~find out what makes a great Mistress AND what makes a lousy one. I know you've talked with Dtrell, who's a good friend of mine too. Part of the reason he became disillusioned with the pro scene was the obscene prices and a lot of really bad experiences. Milagros and a few other guys who've spent a lot of time with pros can probably clue you in as well. Good luck hon!
XOXO

I'm thinking of becoming a professional Tickle Mistress. There are no dungeons in this area. I wonder what would be the best context to go about this that is the most cost-effective. Neutron's thread about Allison's personal ad and some of the replies to it made me wonder. As an aside, I will charge for tickling but I would never make a guy pay for a hotel room unless he wanted to. And, my rates are going to be much less than 200. Any feedback on this is appreciated.

 

[TicklishSinner]

Godd luck with whatever you decide to do, just be careful.....I think it would be pretty interesting doing thast for cash

 

[Knox The Hatter]

All sound advice...

Here's some really sound advice...after you've followed the rest of the wise things you've seen here, I emphasize the need to have a male chaperone present at any and all activities. A fairly large one. A Defensive End wouldn't hurt.

I went to a bachelor party many years ago, for the brother of a guy I worked with. He hired a stripper for the party, and the stripper came with a chaperone. All went well. Having seen the kind of crowd it was, it would've gone very bad within the first five minutes if he wasn't there.

There are a lot of real, genuine five star assholes out there, Crydun, and there have been female members here who've gotten the bad side of an experience. Do this the right way.

We'll talk.

 

[chode]

Well i dont beleive i have ever seen you, but i do know , or think you live in columbus. But i hypothetically would only PAY for tickling if the girl was smoking hot, So why dont you use your pic to advertise on here? I know that would help a ton since there are so many dudes hard up in ohio for tickling.

 

[stan327]

I do charge 20 more to be lee because more trust is involved. But, still, the rates are much cheaper.

Sounds like you've started you businesss already. 🙂
How ticklish are your feet on a 1 to 10 scale? 😀

 

[crydun]

Sounds like you've started you businesss already. 🙂
How ticklish are your feet on a 1 to 10 scale? 😀

most of my foot- 7 to 9, depending on the day.

Toes and in-between- 12 at least!

Heels-10

 

[crydun]

All sound advice...

Here's some really sound advice...after you've followed the rest of the wise things you've seen here, I emphasize the need to have a male chaperone present at any and all activities. A fairly large one. A Defensive End wouldn't hurt.

I went to a bachelor party many years ago, for the brother of a guy I worked with. He hired a stripper for the party, and the stripper came with a chaperone. All went well. Having seen the kind of crowd it was, it would've gone very bad within the first five minutes if he wasn't there.

There are a lot of real, genuine five star assholes out there, Crydun, and there have been female members here who've gotten the bad side of an experience. Do this the right way.

We'll talk.

Tron!!!! Will you be my chaperone? 😛

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Well i dont beleive i have ever seen you, but i do know , or think you live in columbus. But i hypothetically would only PAY for tickling if the girl was smoking hot, So why dont you use your pic to advertise on here? I know that would help a ton since there are so many dudes hard up in ohio for tickling.

If I wuz a goil, and I entertained thoughts of doing what Crydun is thinking of doing, this post right here would've been enough to give me serious second thoughts.

 

[chode]

Who would PAY an unattractive girl to tickle them? I dont know crydun and its not directed at her. But its just a point. Honestly. WHO WOULD? Tell me knox, how many girls that you find unatractive do you pay for tickling purposes? If looks had nothing to do with it then no guys on this forum would be complaining about lack of tickling.

 

[crydun]

If I wuz a goil, and I entertained thoughts of doing what Crydun is thinking of doing, this post right here would've been enough to give me serious second thoughts.

Amen Knoxxie!!!

 

[Thanatos]

Each time I have started a professional relationship with a female tickler (including the most recent, MsDiva), she has always arranged the location for our first session. In most cases, that location was a dungeon where at least one other woman was in an adjacent room. Once a level of trust was established, then it was possible to move to other locales.

Since there may not be dungeon space available in your area, you may just have to bite the bullet for an first meeting and get two adjacent rooms at the local "No-tell Motel" and have a friend next door. Still, check http://www.maxfisch.com/us.php#ohio or other online directories - there may be locations you can use.

Lastly, how are you going to advertise? Website? Personal ad? Something to think about?

 

[featherfingers]

Crydun, I'm happy for you and hope your new venture is a success, but please heed Knox's advice and find a chaperone. The males of the species can be real bastards at times.

Also, be very careful about how you advertise. I told Allison this and I'll tell you; the cops are always on the lookout for anything that even resembles prostitution. A lady friend of mine who did erotic massage quit advertising in the weekly paper because undercover cops would call pretending to be customers, then they'd bust the ladies and toss 'em in jail or fine them. She had the smarts to figure out a guy's motives from the phone conversation. Talk to true professionals like MsDiva and get her advice.

 

[WorkInProgress]

This is a general philosophical note on attractiveness.

I really wish I could sell people on the view that there's no such thing as an attractive or unattractive man or woman, there's only such a thing as someone whom you personally find attractive or unattractive. Sure, some people score more consistently high than others on the attractiveness scales in the eyes of their beholders, but I still hate these labels. And they get their worst expression on reality shows like "Average Joe," where they get a European supermodel and a bunch of guys who are not conventional Hollywood leading-man types, and start out with the implicit assumption that every one of the guys is going to want her. I don't see why not one of those guys could have stood up and said, "She's not my type, I prefer women with a little more weight and heft on them." The whole culture of uniformity of attractiveness is something I wish more people would rebel against.

(Note: Anybody who interprets this post as saying "looks don't matter" has misunderstood it completely. Looks do matter. But they differ from one person's tastes to another. Or at least they would if more people allowed themselves to think and feel for themselves.)

 

[chode]

Absolutly. Eye of the beholder. And if you dont know what your "beholding" then how can you decide whether or not your going to actually give someonemoney for what you can get for free if you know what your doing, or how to treat a lady. Anew found friend in this forum knows what im talking about. And it really does boil down to there not really being a need to pay for what you want.

 

[crydun]

Crydun, I'm happy for you and hope your new venture is a success, but please heed Knox's advice and find a chaperone. The males of the species can be real bastards at times.

Also, be very careful about how you advertise. I told Allison this and I'll tell you; the cops are always on the lookout for anything that even resembles prostitution. A lady friend of mine who did erotic massage quit advertising in the weekly paper because undercover cops would call pretending to be customers, then they'd bust the ladies and toss 'em in jail or fine them. She had the smarts to figure out a guy's motives from the phone conversation. Talk to true professionals like MsDiva and get her advice.

oh no need to worry. I'm only advertising on here and by word of mouth. there will be no weekly ads in the paper or signs hanging out saying "Mistress TickleManTess at your service" Those who are into our kink will know how to find me. I'm even thinking of having a separate Identity(name wise) for my business. you will still be tickling or being tickled by crydun, she will just be under a different more tempting name.

 

[crydun]

Absolutly. Eye of the beholder. And if you dont know what your "beholding" then how can you decide whether or not your going to actually give someonemoney for what you can get for free if you know what your doing, or how to treat a lady. Anew found friend in this forum knows what im talking about. And it really does boil down to there not really being a need to pay for what you want.

ok. I've let this slide long enough. Yjgfn, I am a great person. I don't claim to be beautiful or even pretty. That's not what I'm advertising. For those who tickle and are tickled, they are more concerned with "Can she tickle me?" Can she tickle good?" "How ticklish is she?" Can I tickle her?" "Will I enjoy the experience?" For a true ticklephile, these are the true questions. Now, when I get some sessions under my belt and get enough money saved up, I do plan on creating a professional website under my prof name. There will prof. photos on there. Until then, I encourage you to look at the forum pic. That's me. I'm just bigger and have longer hair. I wear specs but not for photos. How's that?