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A question to women about tickling and guilt

tickleteasing

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Before I begin and PLEASE do not take any of this the wrong way ok, its just something I have noticed. I know that women in general, at least the women I know have been taught by there parents or the people around them that not only sex is bad but your not supposed to ask for it. Also, if something satisfies you sexually your not supposed to say it. There is a lot of causes for this I am sure so I will not go in to all of them here. But in my entire time online I have noticed something especially true about the women who are in there 20's who are in to tickling, or at least quite a few of them. They have a hard time talking about it, they blush when even mentioning the subject. Its almost like its so taboo they have to run in the other room when they see tickling on tv.
I have noticed this less with women in there late 30's to early 40's although they have shown this a time or to as well. Again this is not a put down but rather an attempt to understand what causes the shyness, its a real shame because a lot of people misunderstand what a man who cares about you from the bottom of your heart wants from you. If tickling brings you to orgasm or you think it will I see nothing wrong with doing it to you.
In all my years of being online and eventually talking to women on the phone I have talked to a few women who had the fetish because I like to hear the voice to link it to the person. What is interesting is if I have talked to quite a few women in there 40's who had the fetish on the phone, some 30plus women. But I think I can say I have never ever talked to a woman who was in her early 20's and had a tickle fetish on the phone. They shake, they blush, and nothing is really wrong with talking about something like this. In fact its kind of liberating, imagine having to spend your whole life in a monastary never being able to talk about something and then being let out and put in a situation where you can talk about it, you would feel so much better. I guess what I am trying to say is I wish they would feel more comfortable with talking about it with someone who cares.
 
You always post some interesting questions...
Well, having been in my 20s, am now my 30s (and almost 40) my answer applies to this and everything else in general~tickling, sex, attitudes and behavior, etc.

One of the neat things about getting older I've found is you become much more secure with yourself, asking for what you need, what you want and how to get it, saying what you WON'T tolerate, etc...You THINK you've got it down in your 20s but I find that rarely is the case (and that's not meant as a slam in particular at anyone in their 20s, it's just my opinion.) A 20-something just hasn't been around long enough to have had the kind of experiences that say, someone in their 50s has had.

Hope that helps shed some light, it's just one gal's theory.
XOXO
 
Hey there, tickleteasing,
I don't have any answers, but I do think it's a good idea to be open about what a person wants and expects from her partner, and that is in any age group. Could it be that the shyness stems from fear of having the idea rejected?
 
I thought a little more about this on the drive home. Basically, we're all always changing, growing, evolving, hopefully improving. It makes sense that becoming a better communicator goes with the territory, yes?
Heck, you're better at EVERYTHING as you get older right? Except for staying out late and getting up early maybe~Hee!

You also learn that feelings and words like "guilt" and "shame" serve no purpose except to make you feel like crap~I keep them out of my thoughts and vocabulary as much as possible.
XOXO
 
Hell I am a man, I would have a hard time talking on the phone about tickling...

However, I see where you are coming from and I completely agree with Steph here...

Ladies in their 20's don't know what they want yet or haven't gotten frustrated enough to ask, as ladies in their 30's and 40's.
Ladies who might feel they don't have the time to be shy...plus that is 10-20 years past their parents telling you that anything pleasurable sexually is evil.
 
Well, I'm a lady in her 20s and I have NO problem talking about what I want sexually, but maybe I"m a bit more secure than the rest. I know that I'm not a normal girl... not by any stretch of the word. I think that life is a lot happier if I just accept who I am... if a guy doesn't like what I do, I'll move on. It's one of the reasons I've accepted the fact that I need to end up with a tickler in my life.
 
I have always been very open about it with everyone I meet and everyone I know! Always have been from childhood to the present.
If not by my words then certainly by my actions :devil2: if you know what I mean! :devil2:

M1
 
I don't know why....

You know.....I guess becaue...*for me anyway...* people always see tickling as a punishment. When people on tv were being tickled, most of the time it was to get information and "bad" people were doing it. Plus the people seemed to hate it so much, and if you see something that someone hates and you like it you are afraid something is wrong with you. I think that is the reason for me....why I am so shy about it is that I am afraid that people will think I am weird for it.

Plus I don't think it has anything with me being young (22), I mean I was born in the early 80s and grew up in the 90s when the world was getting more in tune with sex. My parents didn't even have to tell me about it. I learned about sex from books and tv.

Anyway.....

I don't know if anyone else will agree with that thought....but I thought I would throw in my two cents.
 
i agree...im also 22 and for a young guy i think all of my friends would prolly think i was weird if i told them...not that im super shy about it...i just don't like telling people about it...somtimes it will come up in coversations and i will take total advantage of trying to keep the conversation going when it happens...but i would never just blurt out the fact that i had a tickling fetish

Although i must say i have only told one person in my life...and it turned out better than i had ever expected...not only did she accept it...she totally jokes around with me about it now...so i kinda see both sides here and i feel like im stuck in the middle 😕
-marlin-
 
BTW...im a guy and just realized that this was a girls only thread...haha...sorry
:yowzer:
-marlin-
 
Fetishes make ya different... I would attribute discomfort more from the fear of ridicule than yer parents teaching sex is bad. We almost all had it growing up, fear that if our peers found out we would be ousted and made fun of and stuff... in your 20's you're not quite so far from that. People aren't always welcoming of other people's fetishes either, you don't know what kind of reaction you're going to get.
 
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