About my Remarks and other such Meanness towards members here

[shylittleme]

since Venray Pm'ed me about this. i felt that i should bring it up. i may be saying Bitchy comments and Remarks to you members on here. But that does not mean i'm serious about them at all not in the least because i'm not. But most of you Mods seem to think i'm making ''naughty'' remarks or no called for remarks on here at Times. well yeah maybe i am maybe i'm not. But whatever happend to laughing about things and brushing them off? it's not like i'm telling certain members to go Die and Kill themselfs or telling certain members on here to F*** off etc....


so i don't see what the big deal is. and why as Venray put it why some of you Mods on this website want me gone and banned from this website? or at the very least not being able to post here anymore?



Feel free to Discuss this amongst yourselfs

 

[red indian]

Well said flatfoot..........

......god spare us these sarcastic types, always taking the piss and spoiling peoples threads with clever wise cracks and heavy ironic replies to genuine heart felt posts. Its just so unAmerican, i think they are all commies or muslims myself.

 

[Mimi]

Are you looking for approval from someone? I am just curious as to why you took what could have been a very private and discreet matter between you and a few TMF moderators and turned it into a public issue upon the forum.

Flat made the most important statement in his reply. The TMF is a "Flame Free Forum". We ask that everyone respect everyone else, and allow them the same rights to equal opinion and views they expect to receive themselves. It takes a lot of guts for some members to creep out of their tickling interest closets, and join the public forum. When someone belittles their interests or views and makes wise-cracks in reply when they muster the nerve to post on a topic important to them, it's enough to shut them right back up in the closet they just came out of. Not cool. We want the TMF to be a warm and friendly atmosphere where anyone who has an interest in tickling can feel comfortable and accepted. The vanilla world outside of the forum is not very open-minded to our fetish, so the TMF acts as a beacon in the storm to those who share our love of the topic of tickling. When people are greeted with the same closed-minded sarcastic tones they face in the outside world, it totally defeats the purpose of this place.

Whether you are joking or not, making others feel like less of a person simply because they may not look through the same spectrum you do is not acceptable, and in short, will not be tolerated. The TMF is here to give people like you an outlet. Allow the same courtesy to our other members. If you want others to respect you, you must respect them as well. Try to be a little friendlier, and a little less sarcastic and closed-minded in your posts. Tact is a wonderful thing.

Mimi

 

[Deleted member 2452]

let's put it this way...

you're too new to be so smart assed!

you're too green, wet behind the ears, not in the clique, etc.
take the expression the suits you. but the point is that you haven't paid your dues yet to be so nasty.

steve

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Re: let's put it this way...

but the point is that you haven't paid your dues yet to be so nasty.

steve

LOL Not that "paying your dues" gives anyone the right to be nasty either. As others have said, Shy, people don't know you well enough to know that your intent is to just clown around. The advice that's been given, both in the PM your received from Venray and the posts above, is good. Think about what you're going to say from the other person's perspective. Then, if you must make a crack, follow it by a "j/k" so that folks are told up front that you're only clowning. But, even with that, there are going to be some peeople for whom it's not accepted.

I personally love to clown with and tease others...all in good humor. But, there are people for whom this is a negative thing and can't be accepted as otherwise. Once you've been around a while, you'll see that there are folks here for whom that's the case. It's best to respect that and let those people be. Other people eat it right up and return the favor by making their own cracks. The trick is in getting to know which are which. (ie - Most people would be sorely offended to be told that they're full of shit. My dad happens to take it as a compliment. You just have to know your audience.) In the meantime, it's probably a good idea to simple take it easy and not get too carried away with things. That's all we ask of you and everyone here.

Ann

 

[steph]

Re: let's put it this way...

Hi Shy~
No one really knows the real you yet.

Many of the mods and other people on this board have been around a long, long time and are like family to each other. There's another group that's semi new, but because we're nutcases in a good way like me and Brad (Baron, who's a good friend off the board as well) kind of made a name from the start by being friendly and kooky, because that's who we are in real life too, and we've met people from here who can back that up. Then there's the last group, the lurkers and super-newbies. It's like joining any other new scene, ya gotta kind of open up a little, let people get used to you awhile first before you start cracking wise...You're a visitor on THEIR territory to begin with after all, see?

Hope this makes sense and I haven't offended you in any way. Lots of us here have made mistakes, said things that weren't received the way we intended, ticked someone off a little. I wouldn't sweat it too much. They are a fantastic, forgiving bunch and I'm sure once everyone knows you a little better, things will be fine...

XOXO

you're too new to be so smart assed!

you're too green, wet behind the ears, not in the clique, etc.
take the expression the suits you. but the point is that you haven't paid your dues yet to be so nasty.

steve

 

[red indian]

In Support of the Mods..........

........and its not a piss take. Is that the smell of burning plastic in my nostrills as pc,s all over the states go in to melt down at the prospect of such a conraversial post from me???!!!


I have been pulled up by the mods a few times in the past. Sometimes they have been right to tick me off, sometimes I have not agreed with them, but we all have to accept their judgements. This IS a very flame free site, and its down to the mods to keep it that way.

Sometimes the mods are VERY inconsistent, and i have told them so, but taking a broader veiw (outside my own deleted posts!!!) I like the environment that the mods have created and they do a good job.


Ok, thats quite enough of that. ALL AMERICAN SPORTS SUCK !!!!!


Normal service will now be resumed.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

Re: In Support of the Mods..........

........and its not a piss take. Is that the smell of burning plastic in my nostrills as pc,s all over the states go in to melt down at the prospect of such a conraversial post from me???!!!


I have been pulled up by the mods a few times in the past. Sometimes they have been right to tick me off, sometimes I have not agreed with them, but we all have to accept their judgements. This IS a very flame free site, and its down to the mods to keep it that way.

Sometimes the mods are VERY inconsistent, and i have told them so, but taking a broader veiw (outside my own deleted posts!!!) I like the environment that the mods have created and they do a good job.


Ok, thats quite enough of that. ALL AMERICAN SPORTS SUCK !!!!!


Normal service will now be resumed.

here now ya git! when was the last time you atlantic islanders won a hockey game?😛
see even we old timers can get a little wanky, lol.

steve

 

[TKpervert]

Damn, I've never read anything controversial from Shy, but then again I'm not one of the brighter colored crayolas in the box.

Only time I've been slapped down by the mods here was when I was posting after a 12-pack of Budweiser at 4AM PST, and trust me I deserved getting slapped, I was posting pure shit.

All TMF boards are well moderated.

And red indian, you're not too far off, but I WILL be watching the Lakers-Pistons playoff starting Sun. night.

 

[Psycho]

Re: Re: let's put it this way...

Many of the mods and other people on this board have been around a long, long time and are like family to each other.

And I am the black sheep of that family.

I have been here around 3 years, and I have gotten into trouble many times. Debating the mods judgements will NOT help the situation. It only makes things worse, and after being banned from the chat room and nearly off the forum all together I finally learned my lesson. The administration is very forgiving. What I am saying is stop arguing over a couple of deleted posts. It isn't worth it. Don't get on their bad side becuase the more you pop off at them the less understanding they are. knowattamean.

Anyways to help with the sarcasim thing use smily faces. 😀 😉 😛 BUT DO NOT USE THIS ONE>🙄 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Psycho

 

[steph]

I haven't had any trouble with Shy either, I just thought I'd explain a little for the new folks.
I cannot conceive of what a huge headache moderating this board must be, with all of us psychos running round...

XOXO

Damn, I've never read anything controversial from Shy, but then again I'm not one of the brighter colored crayolas in the box.

Only time I've been slapped down by the mods here was when I was posting after a 12-pack of Budweiser at 4AM PST, and trust me I deserved getting slapped, I was posting pure shit.

All TMF boards are well moderated.

And red indian, you're not too far off, but I WILL be watching the Lakers-Pistons playoff starting Sun. night.

 

[TicklishSinner]

just cool your wheels, I have to when I post on this forum because in real life i am extremely sarcastic but thats with people who know me for a long persiod of time and it is hard to come across sarcastic without using the tone of voice, the smilies do help but the mods got a job to do and WHOA i dont envy it i mean at least they gave you a warning talk, when easily they could have banned you since this isnt a pay site..(But the mods are too nice for that) 😀

 

[theshire]

What's with the Capital Letters at random Points?

 

[Deleted member 2452]

What's with the Capital Letters at random Points?

using capital lettering at random points in sentences, usually means the writer is emphasizing that word, or thought. kind of an exclamation point.

steve

 

[Psycho]

I cannot conceive of what a huge headache moderating this board must be, with all of us psychos running round...

I take offense to that!😀

p.s.(ycho): I wasn't going to use the smily but all this talk about people taking sarcasim the wrong way got me scared.

Psycho

 

[steph]

LMAO Psycho!

(and proud to count myself as one of 'em!)
😀

XOXO,

 

[Psycho]

Anyways bake to sarcasim. I have said it a hundred times (ok I haven't but I thought about saying it a hundred times and didn't) sarcasim and playing and such in real life is easy to seperate from bitching and moaning and offending. However on the World Hive Mind (a.k.a. the internet) you can't hear someones tone or see their expression. Anyways I think this makes sense and I was going to put it in last nights post but I was a little tipsy and couldnt spell anything wright.

yes I spelled wright incorrectly on porpouse.

I was going to say spelled wright wrong lol.

Anyways ill stop babbling.

Psycho