Advice Please

[J_Himowitz]

Hello,

So i have an interesting story... I am twenty five years old and haven't tickled a thing in years and it has gotten to the point where the number is only growing larger. Not to sure what to do bout it. I alsohave trouble talking to ladies. I guess i am feeling totally alone and it blows. i have been like this for years. I need advice on what to do. My parent whom which with i still live and are very understand people know about my fetish at least one. The foot fetish they know about. Not to sure how to explain to them the whole tickling thing. Was wondering if anyone has a way to do it and clear the awkward air that I have. I think I wanta come out to my parents. Holy shit. That's nuts. Sorry for the rant. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Jay Himowitz III

 

[rhiannon]

You need to work on your self-esteem. If you're not happy with yourself, you will not be able to get rid of the "awkward air". Usually it's not the fetish itself that people find weird, it's the way people go about it.

I think I wanta come out to my parents

Don't. You don't want to know what floats their boat, do you?

 

[Libertine]

Ignore your fetish for a bit. Don't tell your parents. Work on overcoming whatever personality defect is stopping you from sleeping with women. I say personality defect because looks are secondary. A woman can be seduced through her ears if you are not initially appealing to her eyes. Then, with the means of having actual sex at hand, you can add some spice to the mix by introducing variations.

 

[robmic]

Hello,

So i have an interesting story... I am twenty five years old and haven't tickled a thing in years and it has gotten to the point where the number is only growing larger. Not to sure what to do bout it. I alsohave trouble talking to ladies. I guess i am feeling totally alone and it blows. i have been like this for years. I need advice on what to do. My parent whom which with i still live and are very understand people know about my fetish at least one. The foot fetish they know about. Not to sure how to explain to them the whole tickling thing. Was wondering if anyone has a way to do it and clear the awkward air that I have. I think I wanta come out to my parents. Holy shit. That's nuts. Sorry for the rant. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Jay Himowitz III

I'm saying this in the most subtle and meaningful way I can. I think you have separation anxiety and need some professional counseling.

 

[Phineas]

You need to work on your self-esteem. If you're not happy with yourself, you will not be able to get rid of the "awkward air". Usually it's not the fetish itself that people find weird, it's the way people go about it.

Bingo.

And, nix on the parents thing. People always pick the wrong person to come out to and then it blows up in their face... so they just reinforce their own shame and withdraw even deeper.

You have trouble talking to women. This is a bigger problem than your fetish, because once you stop having trouble talking to women, you'll stop having trouble talking to them about your fetish. Most of the time, anyway.

I'd not put the cart before the horse and work on your self-esteem before working through your fetish. One is the foundation for the other.

 

[ticklechambers]

I concur that you DO NOT TELL YOUR PARENTS. Simply in that nothing will really come of telling them except that it will be weird for everyone to have that conversation. But ey, lots of people have shyness, or trouble talking to the opposite sex, and feelings of loneliness. However, if you feel that your particular case of shyness with women and loneliness is worse than that of other people around you... or you feel that it's at a point where you are living an unhappy life... then maybe go talk to someone? Talk to your GP, talk to a therapist... i mean, it might just be a very general emotional disorder that you need to work on. I personally have an anxiety disorder and see a psychologist, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. Everyone has issues, and the better people are those who step up and face them. 🙂