Am I allowed to ask this....

[Mona]

Hi everyone...

Just something I've been wondering about since I've read on this forum that some people say tickling isn't sexual for them...

If tickling isn't sexual for you (makes you want to have sex/masturbate) why do you do it? What do you get out of it?

 

[Mike3355]

its fun?

 

[brannyle1981]

Personally for me, in the past because tickling was such a rarity, I would get aroused by seeing it but never to the point of wanting to have sex or to masturbate. But as time went on and I saw it more and more, it just became a everyday type thing for me and I didn't think too much of it.

 

[texastickler]

I enjoy the fun of it. Great stress relief.

 

[Jerzeys23]

excellent question

 

[Desparting297]

Tickling doesn't always have to be something of a sexual nature. I for one do not find it to be sexual as it doesn't turn me on but I've always enjoyed the fun out of it more than usual compared to those I've grown up with, e.g. friends, family etc. It's fun and enjoyable and a great way to bring a good connection with the other person.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

It's primarily about the interaction for me. It doesn't have to be sexual to establish a deep and meaningful connection with another person. It doesn't even have to do that. But, it can. That and the physical sensation being so invigorating is why I enjoy it so much. Plus, it's just plain fun!

 

[youmu]

* You get to touch a warm, sexy body.
* You get the pleasure of seeing a girl try not to laugh.
* You get to hear giggles/laughing when she can resist no longer.

 

[obama666]

It is not always sexual for me, depends if I just ate clams of not.

 

[Unimaginable]

For me it's sexy.. fot those who don't have this fetish i don't know..

 

[Em Es]

Welcome to the T.M.F., Mona

Why are all the coolest girls in Europe?!

 

[marmite]

I just enjoy tickling and it's not alway's a sexual thing, just depends on who I'm with at the time!

 

[00feather]

As almost everyone here. Just for fun.

Check the sig ^^

 

[Knox The Hatter]

This subject has been talked about often. There was a time when you had a colony of people on here who sanctimoniously declared that, for them, it wasn't sexual. They also claimed that it shouldn't BE sexual. As you can guess, the arguments that ensued were pretty colorful affairs...

 

[Maestro1874]

This subject has been talked about often. There was a time when you had a colony of people on here who sanctimoniously declared that, for them, it wasn't sexual. They also claimed that it shouldn't BE sexual. As you can guess, the arguments that ensued were pretty colorful affairs...

Indeed this has been the case. I haven't really figured it out and I don't really care. It's sexual for me, ergo, fetish. Easy.

 

[Fat Bastard]

Yes Mona, you are certainly allowed to ask that, and we’re all quite happy that you did.

I think it’s a fair question, since tickling has been sexual to me as long as I’ve been sexual, there’s no other way for me to regard it.

I think we would also be very interested to find out exactly what you get out of it.

 

[Backstep]

I personally find tickling to be arousing sexually, like many here. But I also can see why someone would find it flirty and sensuous without it leading imminently to sexual gratification. I'm friends with a married couple where the guy is like that; flirting often in all sorts of ways with his wife when they're at home. She likes to tease him about it when he threatens to tickle her, saying it's because he can't tell jokes well enough to make her laugh.

 

[Mona]

This subject has been talked about often. There was a time when you had a colony of people on here who sanctimoniously declared that, for them, it wasn't sexual. They also claimed that it shouldn't BE sexual. As you can guess, the arguments that ensued were pretty colorful affairs...

I don't want to cause any arguments. I'm just trying to understand. What was the conclusion? Tickling is only sexual to weirdos?

 

[JBgood]

It's not that those who are aroused by tickling are weirdos, but more about does tickling have to be a sexual thing all the time Mona. For many, it is always a sexual experience while others find it just more of a fun thing and way to relieve stress. In my case it leans more to the sexual side, though I can also tickle someone who enjoys it as a friend and just find it fun to do.

 

[Angel77]

It's both for me but it's mostly sexual, hence the whole "fetish" aspect. 🙂

 

[TheTickleMonster]

It depends on who I'm tickling.. i can tickle people just because it's fun with no sexual aspect. I can tickle because I feel the need to punish them for being a brat, or I must admit sometimes I tickle people because of boredom.. lol..

Even though I only tickle girls, it's not sexual. It's kind of like a hug. I don't hug other guys but hugs aren't sexual it's just guys are raised not to hug other guys, which is why we invented the bro-hug. Same thing goes for tickling...

but anyways

tickling is also a way to show affection towards someone that's not sexual. Like maybe someone you love like a family member, tickling them to show you love them. it's also something you do to someone that you find loveable and adorable and cute, but not always for some sexual reason.

 

[Morning Lorie]

It's fun, and it's positive interaction between two people. It's a great way to express playful affection.