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Another unfortunate female meeting.

If you want to make the world a better place take a look at yourself and make a change.
 
ticklegothgirls said:
Dude, didn't you do a post exactly like this one a few months ago, about the same exact thing with women?

If you keep having the same exact problem with totally different women, what should that be telling you?
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That all women are the same? :cat:
 
You know, I just suddenly realized as I read this that I could have spent the five minutes it took to read this doing ANYTHING else! Why read about someone else's Psychosis when there is so much pretty paint to watch dry.

-Maestro

P.S. Please change the title of this thread "Another female unfortunate enough to meet Leo."
 
I'm suddenly reminded of my very own posts back on the EZ board TMF, when I was 15...
 
Leo tickles said:
And we have an update. She called ME, and apologized. (For what I'm not sure, but she said sorry), and wanted to come see me tomorrow.


I said yes, so we'll see how it all goes. Apparently, girl thinks it's her fault, go figure that one out. I'll update after we hang out.
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Well, I have some suggestions to offer. Unfortunately, at this point she's the one I'd like to offer them to, so I guess I won't have anything to contribute at this stage.

At this point, Leo, I simply regard you as a predator, because you don't have the slightest trace of respect and empathy for her, and the more she puts up with abuse from you, the more contempt you feel for her. She's unfortunately making the mistake of thinking she can win your respect by emptying herself to you. This is really sad, and as I say, I wish I could talk to her about all this.
 
WorkInProgress, your post interests me with your predator remarks. So, then I pose this question to you. How CAN she win my respect, or do I simply prey on the innocent for no good cause or reason?
 
Oh, and as a side note, I don't think any of you are dicks, assholes, or otherwise. Treat people as you want to be treated? Yeah, I give them my worst every timer they deserve it, and that's what I want back.


So, thanks all for being honest. As far as right, debatable, honest yes.
 
Since your latest post appears to be a serious question, Leo, I will give it a serious answer.

The question is not how she can win your respect, and if I were addressing her, that would not be what I'd be talking about. When it comes to your own actions, though, here's what you need to do:

(1.) Treat her with respect, regardless. You don't owe her an intimate relationship, but you owe her empathy as a fellow human being, unconditionally.

(2.) Choose whether you are interested in having an intimate relationship with her based on mutual respect; be realistic with yourself about whether she has what you need for that.

(3.) If you are not interested in having any such relationship, if she does not have what you need, express it to her as a statement about yourself and your own needs, in a way that does not insult her or put her down, and in a way that wishes her well and encourages her to think well of herself.

(4.) In any event, you owe her a very remorseful apology for what you did to her yesterday. You did a terrible thing to her, and even after you apologize, it should haunt you for some time that you were capable of being that kind of person.

(5.) If you do not feel respect for her, then you have no business carrying on a relationship with her, even if she desires one. She doesn't need another contempt relationship in her life, and if you engage in one with her, that's what will make you a predator.
 
wow. i mean, that was totally douchebag of you to just do that. i mean, people need someone to lean against from time to time. you're wanting a relationship, bud, you better believe that a woman will want a guy that can give her a shoulder to cry on. if you can't do that, you're up a creek without a paddle.

and, i find it very strange that you post here, with the intention of soliciting feedback/advice, only to reply with "you people crack me up", "that older than me shit doesn't fly", and so on. want the advice? take it. many people here, including myself, have seen a lot in their years. heed some words of wisdom, kid. they may very well help you in the future.
 
Leo tickles said:
Welcome one and all to my seemingly monthly edition of meeting females, and then dumping them.

This one is, again, from Plentyoffish.com, which is free, so that explains most of the troubles I'm having.

Anyways, started out like the rest, phone call, got along, she came over. We cuddled and talked, and she was 'in it all the way because I'm the best', it was then that I decided she was either smart, or wishing. The answer to that I'm still not sure, but be that as it may.


Next day I call her (she agreed to meet up and hang out), and she starts bitching to me about family life and how they control her. (Car is in her name, she's 21). I point out that I'm not here to be an escape. She points out that's what she's looking for. I point out that she is a worthless piece of trash who takes abuse from family and then runs to somebody before they can dish it back. She broke down crying, I hung up the phone.


Afterthoughts: I didn't learn anything new from this girl, other than the fact that I'm never washing this shirt, that spray stuff she was using smells amazing. I want to know what it is, so I can tell the next girl to wear it.

Seriously though... no, actually, the above was serious.




And so another one concludes in a worthless person crying because they know truth when they hear it, and try their best to escape.



Next.
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well with an attitude like that your gonna end up 80 alone and very hungry

personally i think you came off as a total dickhead for that , the girl opens up to you and you call her a peice of trash ? did it ever occur to you that maybe she didnt have anyone tot alk to and when she met you she finally had someone to talk too ? so truthfully your the worthless peice of human trash for being so cruel for no reason and i hope you have plenty of handlotion your gonna need it
 
Well, she came over today like she said she would and we talked. Long story short, I was wrong in calling her a piece of trash, and she said she was sorry for wording things wrong.


All in all, a night of tickle action and raspberries made up for all the exchange of words, and all is well in the world.




Afterthoughts: Not everybody I meet is worthless garbage, just most of them.
 
Leo tickles said:
Well, she came over today like she said she would and we talked. Long story short, I was wrong in calling her a piece of trash, and she said she was sorry for wording things wrong.


All in all, a night of tickle action and raspberries made up for all the exchange of words, and all is well in the world.




Afterthoughts: Not everybody I meet is worthless garbage, just most of them.
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My thoughts:

1. I salute you for apologizing.
2. Congratulations on the night of tickling and raspberries.
3. If you find yourself needing to break things off later on, for God's sake do it humanely, expressing it as a decision about yourself rather than about her.
4. Nobody is worthless garbage, not even you, so be careful not to ever act like it when you're meeting a prospective intimate.
 
Personally I find most females to be a pain also...but that's why I don't deal with many. I try to find a select few to be friends with, and possibly have a g/f. If you are dealing with girls in their 20s especially then you really are asking for trouble...most of them are beyond stupid. But u should never call anyone a piece of trash...everyone is a human being. That's just going too far.
 
ticklejen said:
Oh yeah like that's real nice, :disgust:. I think that if SOME men took the time to understand women, they wouldn't be as much trouble. Also, men can be troublesome as well you know.
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I can not believe that for one single second....LOL>...:cool2::cool2::wowzer:
 
Masturbation overrated?

It may not be a bad idea to dress one of your hands up as the woman of your dreams, thus ensuring compatability. But, I must say, based on your misogynistic attitude, even "she" might not want to touch you.
 
Well, she pulled the whole I'll come see you by 5, and it's about 7 as of this writing and I got nothing from her, no calls or otherwise. 😱 OY. Time for "fuck you part 2" to take place. Oh, I live for these moments.


*rolls eyes* :xlime:
 
Leo tickles said:
Well, she pulled the whole I'll come see you by 5, and it's about 7 as of this writing and I got nothing from her, no calls or otherwise. 😱 OY. Time for "fuck you part 2" to take place. Oh, I live for these moments.
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Or, you could be patient and understanding, or even indifferent and let it wash over you and carry on.

Believe it or not, there's a whole other world out there that doesn't involve you. It's full of complications, delays, infinite variables, and yes, things more interesting and engaging than you. Odds are one of these things has intervened. Suck it up. Life is full of complications.

I once waited on a woman who was 4.5 hours late as she was delayed with poor directions and cold feet (though I expect more the latter than the former). I wasn't about to let that ruin my time or hers, and greeted her as warmly when she arrived as I would have had she been early. We had a lovely time, and she'll not be so late again, because she knows she has something to look forward to with me.

If you're overt in your anger, or even if there's an undercurrent of hostility within you, she'll sense that, and she'll be tentative, unsure, concerned, and much more likely to ditch you or or put you off again. People don't wanna hang with angry people.

You have to decide what you want. You seem to want to push people away. That's what your actions tell me. If that's your gig, you're doing a fine job.
 
Update again.


She called, told me she was in the hospital for "getting in the driveway to come see you, and coughing up blood". And no doubt, there were about 60 noises in the backround, 59 of thoe coming from giggling friends. I told her, "Oh really? Well, I hope you start spitting blood after guzzling the guy's behind you cock."



Afterthoughts: I need a Micheel Myers mask and a big ass knife.

Lesson learned: Don't get into a relationship without a Micheal Myers mask and a big ass knife.


The future: Get a Michael Myers mask and a big ass knife.

Do with it: Justice.


Next ex girl friend, please. :woot:
 
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