Another unfortunate female meeting.

[Leo tickles]

Excuse me while I go to my suv for my boots and shovel to scoop up the heap of **** you just spoke.

Better yet, I'll go rent a plow!

Excused. Careful out there, it's slippery.

 

[kis123]

Excused. Careful out there, it's slippery.

Leo this banter has been quite interesting, but it's time to get serious!

You might think it's okay to take an arrogant attitude towards women or people in general, but you are out of line when calling ANYONE worthless pieces of trash. There's nothing cute about it at all, and it only points to some serious issues within YOU!! You have to stand in that mirror and ask yourself why are these things happening to you on a consistent basis. Until you're truly ready to deal with your demons continue to remain on the track you've been running.

It's not just them with the problem Leo..........

 

[Leo tickles]

Leo this banter has been quite interesting, but it's time to get serious!

You might think it's okay to take an arrogant attitude towards women or people in general, but you are out of line when calling ANYONE worthless pieces of trash. There's nothing cute about it at all, and it only points to some serious issues within YOU!! You have to stand in that mirror and ask yourself why are these things happening to you on a consistent basis. Until you're truly ready to deal with your demons continue to remain on the track you've been running.

It's not just them with the problem Leo..........

Okay, but the banter was fun.


I learned a while back that getting rid of demons is hard enough, but mastering them to the point where you merge is even more difficult. And once mastered, you have the ability to create, and to destroy. The people I have been meeting only get destroyed because that's what they deserve, not because I can't stop. The whole point in my search is to find somebody I can show the other side to.

 

[kis123]

Okay, but the banter was fun.


I learned a while back that getting rid of demons is hard enough, but mastering them to the point where you merge is even more difficult. And once mastered, you have the ability to create, and to destroy. The people I have been meeting only get destroyed because that's what they deserve, not because I can't stop. The whole point in my search is to find somebody I can show the other side to.

You don't get to determine what someone else deserves. That's for God, karma, or whatever else---certainly not you! The sooner you learn that, the better off you'll be.

Personally, I think you have become accustomed to the position you're in. You hate it, yet you're not willing to make changes to it. That's not healthy in a man your age;I hope you figure out better for yourself soon.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

You don't get to determine what someone else deserves. That's for God, karma, or whatever else---certainly not you! The sooner you learn that, the better off you'll be.

Personally, I think you have become accustomed to the position you're in. You hate it, yet you're not willing to make changes to it. That's not healthy in a man your age;I hope you figure out better for yourself soon.

kis, i don't know if the kid is either stubborn or stupid. personally, i vote for the former.

listen, Leo...no matter how hard you try, you aren't as wise as you want to be. you have intelligence, sure, but no real common sense. hell, your reality is so skewed, your delusions have delusions. face facts, man. you have lots of growing up to do. the day you know better than a 40 year old is the day you turn 80. you haven't lived yet. your experiences in life are little compared to what many of the members that have posted on this thread have dealt with.

you wanna know demons, kid? compared to what i have seen in the times you have been active on this forum, you haven't got a clue. grow up some more, get out on your own, and see what demons really are. they are the street scum that will kill you for the $2 in your pocket to buy meth with. they are the punks that will cave your chest in for looking at them wrong. and it gets worse than that. the wars, the petty disputes and dramas at work, the asshat boss that won't give you a day off because someone in your family passed away, and it goes on.

people don't deserve to be treated the way you do. until they commit a true wrong against you, you really have no right. there are a few members here that have tried to offer you advice...and for what? you take what is given to you, and you make people feel like crap for trying to help, or you piss them off.

deal with life. you can make it your own, but you still have a lot to do beforehand.

 

[chicago]

She wishes (not).

Yeah, I'm too busy to be dating anyone else.

Congrats, though. I noticed you've been being less of a dick the past few days. Hopefully it's not just a phase.

 

[Leo tickles]

So let me get this straight, you give me advice, I don't take all of it, now your pussies are hurting? And I'm the one with issues. Uh oh.

 

[WorkInProgress]

I just hope for both your sakes, but especially hers (because she's far and away the more vulnerable one), that this is it for contact between you.

Further note: People aren't asking you to take all their advice, and they're not castigating you for failing to. It's your generally superior and non-empathic attitude toward women that is bothering people. Your use of the word "pussies," by the way, seems pretty misogynistic to me.

 

[alf]

Just one advice : be respectful to girls you date & people in general.
It often pays 🙂

 

[minerva]

First of all, Leo, I bluntly have to tell you, that I don't believe half of the stories you've been telling us here lately. I simply can't see those things happening and certainly not on a weekly, not even monthly basis.

From reading your posts you seem to me like someone who's terribly scared. Scared that people might hurt you and therefore you try hurting them before they get a chance to come close enough to you to be able to do so.
That might seem like a cool attitude to you, but it's actually sad, specially for an 18 year old.

I can only hope for you and those around you, that you'll find a way to solve your issues asap.
Good luck!

 

[chicago]

First of all, Leo, I bluntly have to tell you, that I don't believe half of the stories you've been telling us here lately. I simply can't see those things happening and certainly not on a weekly, not even monthly basis.

I can see it.

I mean, it wouldn't ever happen to me, because I've luckily grown out of adolescence and also don't post my phone number on the internet, but for some people any attention feels good, even if it comes with a heaping serving of crazy drama.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

So let me get this straight, you give me advice, I don't take all of it, now your pussies are hurting? And I'm the one with issues. Uh oh.

i'm not quite sure what you mean, but i have yet to see you take ANY advice.

 

[Lttg]

Thread delivers. I forgot how entertaining this place can be.

First off leo, kudos on the e-dating site pickup. I think there's been a time when we've all of us considered signing up for one, before the morphine wore off and we realised it would just be that easy. But you're living the dream man, I respect that. This is one of MANY did you say? Slow down there champ! Or it won't be plentyoffish.com for the rest of us much longer eh?

You seem like a standup guy always looking for a fresh viewpoint, so this one is on the house: young girls you met on a dating site that are willing to come to your house based on the strength of a phone call are probably not the most together girls in the world. I know, bitches be crazy right? But it makes sense. I mean any halfway decent 21 year old would probably out having a good time and getting a girlfriend/boyfriend the traditional way. I totally get that you're just having a laugh and everything, and you could go out and have fun and score a lass if you wanted though. No glaringly obvious personality defects for you!

Also, good plan with the whole finding the scent she wore and asking the next girl to wear it. Brilliant way to break the ice on your first "date". That's not fucking creepy or anything...

 

[Jester_777]

Okay...

Who here believes this little scenario actually happened, and who believes someone likes posting this little "Uh...I met this chick..she dug me--'cause I'm so cool....but I was too cool, and I called her names, 'cause I'm a bad guy, you know? And I'm cool." 'cause it makes himself feel better, is cheaper than therapy, and far less frightening than talking to a real girl?

Isn't this just an online rendition of "Yeah, Yeah...I got a girlfriend...uhm...she lives in....uh....Canada" ?



I be jumpin on da couch!

 

[alf]

It's the 5 th thread about it. Might be all invented or he's just bored 🙂

 

[Jester_777]

You're right, of course...

If this actually happend, I can see it. I've known people who have done this.... screwed over a guy/girl and boasted about it online~~~~not kidding.

I don't doubt that it's happened. I just seriously doubt that it's ever happened to him.





still be jumpin' on da couch!

 

[WorkInProgress]

I believe he's telling the truth. I've met loads of compulsive liars, and usually...well...compulsive liars generally...let me see, now, how can I say this politely...tend to want to make themselves come off in at least a reasonably favorable light to the people they're lying to.

 

[luv2tikl]

The definition of insanity is the do something repeatedly expecting a different result.

Awww, I was just about to say that! So, what she said!

 

[ShadowTklr]

I believe he's telling the truth. I've met loads of compulsive liars, and usually...well...compulsive liars generally...let me see, now, how can I say this politely...tend to want to make themselves come off in at least a reasonably favorable light to the people they're lying to.

I disagree. Personally, I don't see him having the tact to even get to the first stage of meeting a girl, unless SHE is perhaps 13-15 years old. I think this is merely fodder for his amusement because it generates the attention, albeit negative, that he doesn't get in real life.

But, as I've said earlier, I think it's going to take some time and a lot of maturity. He'll grow up eventually, but he's working his way backwards right now.

 

[locker669]

Oh yeah, The emperor isn't wearing clothes!

But if he is telling the truth, who is worse? I vote the girl who is so down she will put up with something like this at least once.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

No better for you IMO!

I would've been done with you after your "worthless piece of trash" comment (after I slapped your head in a circle)! Who are you to determine another person's worth or value? That's not your call to make and if you would've treated her with some empathy and respect, maybe she would've treated you better!

You don't need to be dating; you need some serious manhood lessons because a real man wouldn't insult or humilate a woman in the way you do to your dates.

Until you can offer better, you don't deserve any better than what you're getting right now!

I totally agree with what kis said. You go girl!

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

No. If you want to see complaining, go read one of Jen's threads.


I'm a trash magnet because worthless trash is attracted to greatness in hopes of becoming at least 1% of that.

Okay Leo this is it NOT an appropriate thread to badmouth me on . Just leave me alone already. I am a MUCH FRIENDLIER person than you are anyway.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

I believe he's telling the truth. I've met loads of compulsive liars, and usually...well...compulsive liars generally...let me see, now, how can I say this politely...tend to want to make themselves come off in at least a reasonably favorable light to the people they're lying to.

I will basically agree with what Work said, I think that's probably true most of the time.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Oh, the irony.... 🙄

I have to respond to what tcklft said. When I give advice, at least I try to say it in nice way. It's not just what you say, it's HOW you say it. I realize that's had to do sometimes but if you do, you get more bees with honey if you know what I mean. Tcklft, I think that if you and Leo had never learned that before then you should both learn it now. I think it seems like the two of you have about the same mentality.

 

[Morpheus72]

I'm saying troll....

Who here believes this little scenario actually happened, and who believes someone likes posting this little "Uh...I met this chick..she dug me--'cause I'm so cool....but I was too cool, and I called her names, 'cause I'm a bad guy, you know? And I'm cool." 'cause it makes himself feel better, is cheaper than therapy, and far less frightening than talking to a real girl?

Isn't this just an online rendition of "Yeah, Yeah...I got a girlfriend...uhm...she lives in....uh....Canada" ?



I be jumpin on da couch!

I have to agree here. The implausibility of Leo's exploits, the attention-seeking behavior, the lashing out, the false bravado, and even the angry-boy-as-sig-pic all tell me that this person is a straight-up attention ***** of the (presumably) male persuasion. I'd bet that the stories are all made up, with the intention of getting just the kind of responses that have been coming.

By venting, you present exactly the kind of response this person desires. Don't feed the troll, and the troll goes away. It's simple.

Peace,

Morph