Any Other Trans* People Here?

[heroforhalos]

I'm not sure if this should go here or in the personals section-- but I'm not really looking for one person; I'm looking for a bunch of people, and maybe it has a better chance of being read here.

I'm a trans*man, I'm 20, I've been a ticklephile since forever, similar to most people on the site it seems. I'm primarily a 'lee-- though I've never actually had a real session; I've always wanted to-- but being trans makes me feel so self-conscious in any sexual situation generally speaking (and tickling is very sexual for me) that it's hard to even imagine approaching anybody.

I have all these pestering fetish-related thoughts that I can't really discuss on a trans* forum.

Like I keep hearing that bio-guys are more ticklish than girls-- I always get kind of angsty about this because I was assigned female at birth (despite other complications that don't end up being very important) and now I'm transitioning to be a male full time. Will transitioning (with hormones-- Testosterone) make me more ticklish? I don't know! xD (I hope so?)

Genital tickling tends to be the main focus of a lot of the fantasies that go on inside my head-- but of course I hate my genitals, so I wouldn't know how to go about anything even related to that in real life.

And yes, I'm a conflicted mess about almost everything.

Basically, I just want to see if there's anyone like me out there. :3

(No haters, please-- but that goes without saying. If anybody has any questions, that's a different story-- that's fine. Just be respectful of everyone here (including me and yourself!))

 

[kurchatovium]

Hi Welcome to the forum. I think there are few Trans people on the forum. Not sure how many though.

 

[Myriads]

We've had a few Trans members in the past. I'm not sure how active they are though. Hopefully some of them will be able to help with your questions.

Myriads

 

[ArchNemesis]

Welcome, I'm new too. I've heard of men becoming more ticklish after transitioning to women. It has to do with women's increased sensitivity. I don't think that means you'll be less ticklish as a man however. I'm sure there are plenty of female 'lers on here who will tell you just how ticklish some men can be! It's a very individual thing.

 

[stockytickler]

Two points you raise interested me. One is whether one gender is more ticklish than another. I think ticklish people are ticklish and that it's likely more of an individual thing, like ArchNemesis said, along with the mood you're in for the tickling and the talent of your ler.

The other is how locked in to arousal tickling is for you. While you'll be experiencing structural changes physiologically, arousal always strikes me more as more neurochemical in nature. What limited experiments I've managed involve jacking to release vs. jacking to some engaging fantasy. Basic stress relief isn't nearly as exciting or satisfying as engaging the brain with some fantasy or another.

So regardless of configuration, if the source of arousal is seated in the brain itself rather than just the nerve endings, tickling will probably continue to turn you on. And apart from actual parts, there's also that great long BODY of yours to play with, so you'll present with plenty of tickle spots in any play.

Good luck! 🙂