Anybody here from London UK?

[BigJim]

Am just about to add you to my yahoo messenger...

Hope to catch up with you soon!

I got the message about 60 seconds ago. Thanks very much JMF, let's hope this catches on and there ends up being quite a few of us to get something organised for.

 

[ticklemad]

Not in London now but........ and apologies Big Jim

I was born and bred there, still come down occasionally to visit an ageing aunt, am female and as Jim knows if anything gets off the ground on a general social gathering would do my best to get there (money and health permitting).

Apologies Big Jim (you handsome hulk you ) for not being around lately - certain health and personal probs have knocked me back a bit lately - blah blah - you know how it is. I mailed you a while back too with a piccy but dont know if you ever got it as pc probs wiped out my addy book too and my connection to your site. I cant get on yahoo same as you cant get on MSN for some reason, but I keep getting messages from Mercy (does that mean anything to you?) saying you and her wanna meet up with me in Scotland!!!!!!.
Am planing a trip to London towards Easter next year - so maybe there will be the chance for lunch and a few bevvies then if you're around - in the meantime keep up the good work 😛 Oh yeah and have a cool yule

 

[toneus79]

Hi Big Jim and others. I certainly wouldn't want to discourage anyone. However as I run a Social Club myself (based on the most mainstream of mainstream social interests) I know how difficult it is to get people to do anything.

I think however it is a little niave to say that it doesn't have to be all about tickling, instead it is a munch and it is just enougth to know we are all into it. Well how long do you think the conversation is going to remain on Congestion Charging ?

As for the bit about 'if anything else develops, thats a bonus'; Methinks nothing will. Not only that but the whole dynamic of such a gathering, if one or two ladies do turn up, will be based around a dozen or so guys zeroing in on them. This on the one hand will either be intimidating for said female/s or alternatively a massive power trip to play one frustrated guy off another.

Anyway why a group thing, for something that is a personal and intimate activity. Surely it is better to try and introduce it into a normal relationship. This may take a long time and a lot of patience, yet if you base your approach on what is pleasurable for your lady rather than yourself, in the long run this will pay dividends.

However if you want to indulge in a mass Tickling orgy, I think my idea where you actually pay females to participate would work. I don't think it would be hard to find girls up for a laugh and some extra dosh to participate; what would be hard is getting anyone to part with their money.

Anyway good luck whatever you do, and I hope it works out.

 

[miskiduk]

just spotted this thread.......

I'm a norfolk boy so not too far away.
I'm interested in a gathering just to prove to myself that I'm not the only weirdo out there. After lurking here for over a year I finally plucked up the courage to register. I've spent the last 28 years thinking I must be some sort of evil pervert so it's nice to see so many people all thinking as I do and that I'm not a loony after all. I've never told anyone about it and felt pretty isolated really, now my wife has recently left me I decided to 'come out'. Hopefully there are girls in the UK who are into tickling too.

 

[Count-tickula]

I live in London.
I think that what BigJim is doing to get everybody together is a great idea but I can think of a slight problem. We're nearly all blokes. It's not that we're not interested. We just all want our own female ticklees to ourselves. What we need is some sort of campaign to drive British females to tickling sites and eventually the TMF. Get your thinking hats on chaps.😕 😕 😕 😕 😕 😕 😀

 

[justmyfeet]

"I've never told anyone about it and felt pretty isolated really, now my wife has recently left me I decided to 'come out'."

Funny that...I 'came out' when me and my husband split a few months ago.

I'm in Bedfordshire, so not that far away either.

 

[SmashTV]

Isn't This Cosy!?

All Englanders together!!

By the way, ticklemad, good to hear from you again (notice how I don't reveal our true identities!!), hope all is well. As for this thread being nearly all blokes, that's sod's law, I guess. However, thwe fact that there's any women on here alone is a good thing, I think. Not to mention miraculous...

How about any gatherings, should they happen, take place regionally, or neutral turf? This way, at least, everyone will have to travel, or, should people not wish to travel, or be unable to, then we can visit them at at a later date, should all go well.

Is this helpful? I'm trying my best, people!!

Cheers, everybody,
SmashTV

 

[del]

Heh ! You guys need to start living ! 😀

Well it looks like I am a bit different apparently.
We go out to nice bars and clubs, buy drinks and get chatting.
Everything is done in the context of fun.
There are lots of women/girls who don't mind experimenting with tickling for fun in a bar or club. It's much safer and not so intimidating for them. We book a table and chat, drink, tickle, dance, tickle, drink, massage, tickle, dance, chat, drink, dance, tickle etc.

The best is a private room in a club. You just reserve the room get all the drinks and invite random girls in for drinks and tickles. Sometimes you get so many you get overwhelmed. I've had 4 at once. On nights like that tickling is plentiful and is just part of the fun.
Private rooms are the best because sometimes you get idiots who don't understand what is going on or how to treat the girls properly and they try to get involved.

COME ON YOU LOT 🙄

YOUR LIFE IS ENDING 1 MINUTE AT A TIME 😱

 

[BigJim]

Re: Not in London now but........ and apologies Big Jim

I was born and bred there, still come down occasionally to visit an ageing aunt, am female and as Jim knows if anything gets off the ground on a general social gathering would do my best to get there (money and health permitting).

Apologies Big Jim (you handsome hulk you ) for not being around lately - certain health and personal probs have knocked me back a bit lately - blah blah - you know how it is. I mailed you a while back too with a piccy but dont know if you ever got it as pc probs wiped out my addy book too and my connection to your site.


but I keep getting messages from Mercy (does that mean anything to you?) saying you and her wanna meet up with me in Scotland!!!!!!.
Am planing a trip to London towards Easter next year - so maybe there will be the chance for lunch and a few bevvies then if you're around -

np TM, we all have probs from time to time. I didn't get the pic, so presume it ended up getting scrambled by some server.

Yep I do know about Mercy, I talk to her to or three times a week on Yahoo in fact. I'd love to have a mini-gathering sometime, either up her end of the country or in yours. 🙂

Looking forwards to next Easter time then. Mercy keeps telling me about how merciless you are and how you'll not be giving either of us with any slack. Well The Rock says...........

JUST BRING IT!!!!! 😀

 

[BigJim]

Hi Big Jim and others. I certainly wouldn't want to discourage anyone. However as I run a Social Club myself (based on the most mainstream of mainstream social interests) I know how difficult it is to get people to do anything.

I think however it is a little niave to say that it doesn't have to be all about tickling, instead it is a munch and it is just enougth to know we are all into it. Well how long do you think the conversation is going to remain on Congestion Charging ?

It might be naive to believe that, but I didn't suggest we avoid tickling altogether. I just suggested that tickling not dominate every waking moment. Obviously we won't be able to meet and never mention it.

As for the bit about 'if anything else develops, thats a bonus'; Methinks nothing will. Not only that but the whole dynamic of such a gathering, if one or two ladies do turn up, will be based around a dozen or so guys zeroing in on them. This on the one hand will either be intimidating for said female/s or alternatively a massive power trip to play one frustrated guy off another.

Maybe nothing will devlop, true. But DEFINETLEY nothing will develop if we just sit on our collective arses and do nothing.

Anyway why a group thing, for something that is a personal and intimate activity. Surely it is better to try and introduce it into a normal relationship. This may take a long time and a lot of patience, yet if you base your approach on what is pleasurable for your lady rather than yourself, in the long run this will pay dividends.

I think every one of us would like to incorperate tickling into a normal relationship. However, as I said on the Group's homepage the point is not just about organising gatherings but promoting interation between single lees and lers as well. I know for a fact that the club has helped people meet each other on a 1-1 basis. However, I don't think that abandoning gatherings altogether is the way to go though. A lot of UK people have a genuine desire to attend one; even though that desire is quite vague sometimes. Just because you don't want to go to a gathering doesn't mean the rest of us shuold knock it on the head.

However if you want to indulge in a mass Tickling orgy, I think my idea where you actually pay females to participate would work. I don't think it would be hard to find girls up for a laugh and some extra dosh to participate; what would be hard is getting anyone to part with their money.

Anyway good luck whatever you do, and I hope it works out.

It might work indeed. However some of us (me especially because of my job) have quite a lot to lose by going down that road. It doesn't constitute being criminal, but it would leave me wide open to get my arse kicked clean out of my job. As for money, well any group endeavor will stand or fall by what the members of the group put into it. If no more than four or five of us make the effort, then only 4 or 5 of us will reap the rewards. That may be small by American standards, but tough shit to all those who could'nt be arsed.

thanks fr the good wishes mate. The same goes to you. Good luck finding your ideal tickle partner. 😉

 

[BigJim]

Re: just spotted this thread.......

I'm a norfolk boy so not too far away.
I'm interested in a gathering just to prove to myself that I'm not the only weirdo out there. After lurking here for over a year I finally plucked up the courage to register. I've spent the last 28 years thinking I must be some sort of evil pervert so it's nice to see so many people all thinking as I do and that I'm not a loony after all. I've never told anyone about it and felt pretty isolated really, now my wife has recently left me I decided to 'come out'. Hopefully there are girls in the UK who are into tickling too.

Good to have you here with us mate. As you will find if you stick at it long enough, there are plenty of grl in the UK who are into tikling. Only now after just over 2 years, is it finally beginning to pay off for me.

 

[BigJim]

I live in London.
I think that what BigJim is doing to get everybody together is a great idea but I can think of a slight problem. We're nearly all blokes. It's not that we're not interested. We just all want our own female ticklees to ourselves. What we need is some sort of campaign to drive British females to tickling sites and eventually the TMF. Get your thinking hats on chaps.😕 😕 😕 😕 😕 😕 😀

There's certainly a high percentage of bloke samong us, but you might be interested to know that about 50 UK ladies are members of my Yahoo Group. They're there, just more reserved than us. It's taken me about 2 years to make any kind of breakthrough with the UK scene, but things are starting to come good now.

There might also be those who think the girls will be swamped by the blokes at a UK gathering. Well for a start the attendence will be limited and although there will almost certainly be more of us than them, it won't be too dis-proportionate. Given that there is only a certain number of people who are willing to put their hands in their pockets and make the arrangements to go wherever the gathering is, the list of guys won't be huge anyway.

As for getting the girls to come here, well .....................


"If you build it, they will come!"

 

[BigJim]

Heh ! You guys need to start living ! 😀

Well it looks like I am a bit different apparently.
We go out to nice bars and clubs, buy drinks and get chatting.
Everything is done in the context of fun.
There are lots of women/girls who don't mind experimenting with tickling for fun in a bar or club. It's much safer and not so intimidating for them. We book a table and chat, drink, tickle, dance, tickle, drink, massage, tickle, dance, chat, drink, dance, tickle etc.

The best is a private room in a club. You just reserve the room get all the drinks and invite random girls in for drinks and tickles. Sometimes you get so many you get overwhelmed. I've had 4 at once. On nights like that tickling is plentiful and is just part of the fun.
Private rooms are the best because sometimes you get idiots who don't understand what is going on or how to treat the girls properly and they try to get involved.

COME ON YOU LOT 🙄

YOUR LIFE IS ENDING 1 MINUTE AT A TIME 😱

Interesting thoughts Del. Sorry I havn't replied to your e-mail yet, but NTL jammed up on me for 72 hours or so.

Just out of interest, are you the only party involved in booking the room? Sounds like a good way to go for a good night out, but would'nt a gang of blokes be a bit intimidating for that? Or did you only ever intend to do it one at a time?

I certainly agree with the idea of hiring a private room, but must admit I never thought of inviting the girls in the main club in for random tickles. Sounds like a good way to go though. Let me know more when you get the chance.

 

[dvnc]

Del, BigJim, glad to see you two are connecting and have one another for organizin'. Given the way you boys are goin', you've got it well in hand.

Jim, props t'ya for your response to toneus79. Y'said what I would've, and you've yet to organize an event. Would that I was clued so well before 5 years of such. Very astute, sir. Double bonus for not insultin' the man's opinions. What toneus79 writes is an opinion held by many, BEFORE attending. Happily, it ain't one held thereafter.

The fact that you end up wit' some killer friends after such events is a definite bonus. There ain't many spots in the world I would visit and NOT know someone there. That's 'cause o' these events.

Say, Del, does this make me the Yoda of such events, if you're the Obi Del Kenobi? I'm wonderin' if Dave2112 caught the other UK thread. Too funny. SmashTV is a kick!

Mighty pleased to see it beginning there!

dvnc

 

[BigJim]

Thanks dave. 🙂 Your good opinion means a lot to me.

 

[SmashTV]

Erm...thanks?

dvnc, I'm a kick?

That's a good thing, right? (*GRIN*!)

By the way, Jim, it is good to have you back, and to find out that not only are you a big britcom fan, but also WWF/E (I'm a fan of 88 - 96), but also a comic fan as well. While the latter ain't my speciality, seeing the pic of The Hulk reminded me of a marvel comic I read way back called Ruins, where everything's f*cked up. Jean Grey is a hooker, Qiucksilver had his limbs amputated, and as for The Hulk, well....it ain't pretty! oh, and Rick was an alcoholic hillbilly.

By the way, ticklemad's doing okay, but I'm curoius about her picture as well. She told me she put it up there, but obviously it wasn't to be. DAMN!! I've been tlaking to her for 18 months, and only have he description to go on. Ah, well....

Cheers, everybody,
SmashTV

 

[BigJim]

Try clicking on the link in my sig Smashy. It takes you to my Yahoo Group and there a photo of TickleMad there. Join up and then look in the photos section.

 

[SmashTV]

Cheers, Jim!!

I'm there, signed in, and ready to talk!

Many thanks, James (or is that too formal?)

Cheers, everybody,
SmashTV

 

[del]

Just out of interest, are you the only party involved in booking the room? Sounds like a good way to go for a good night out, but would'nt a gang of blokes be a bit intimidating for that? Or did you only ever intend to do it one at a time?

Yeah, I have memberships to some of the top lounge/cocktail bars in London.
The top bars are full of beautiful women out for a night of fun and all looking their best (Fantastic ! Manicures, Pedicures you name it they got it). They came from all over the country and some come from abroad.

There is no way I will bring a large group of male strangers with me incase there is an idiot who will cause me to lose my membership.
These clubs regulate the number and type of men they let in. Even the women have to look smart.

BUT. . . . . .

Beautiful are nice but ticklish women are much much better 😉


I will meet everybody one by one then book a VIP room sometime in the future.

I know all the best clubs but there are still a few I haven't managed to get membership to as they are so exclusive and expensive.