dalekfire
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Gads. A half-hour post gone down the tubes. *sigh* Then again, most of that time was spent fiddling with a microwave, so... :lol
In any case, I'll just concisely repeat what I said in the other thread. If it's gotten to the point of childish antics - rather it be ignoring each other for whatever reason or hacking into accounts and stirring up trouble, perhaps it's time to give the relationship some serious thought, and ask yourselves what you wished to gain by all of this. As everyone else are saying, this clearly was not the way to go about with it. What does that mean, when someone you love goes behind your back and attempts to create a negative image of yourself? What did you think we all would have said, and did say? I personally hope for the best of the situation, whatever that will be, but I can't help but wonder if this example you're setting is hinting at the maturity of the relationship, and if that needs a fair bit of work before anything positive can come out of it, in the long-term. This usually is a sign that it's time to put a break on things, rather it be until you can gain your bearings again, or permanently.
I'm sorry if that seemed harsh and intrusive, but since you made a private issue public, there's my personal opinion.
Anyways, glad you're not banned, but let's hope we don't see something like this again.
In any case, I'll just concisely repeat what I said in the other thread. If it's gotten to the point of childish antics - rather it be ignoring each other for whatever reason or hacking into accounts and stirring up trouble, perhaps it's time to give the relationship some serious thought, and ask yourselves what you wished to gain by all of this. As everyone else are saying, this clearly was not the way to go about with it. What does that mean, when someone you love goes behind your back and attempts to create a negative image of yourself? What did you think we all would have said, and did say? I personally hope for the best of the situation, whatever that will be, but I can't help but wonder if this example you're setting is hinting at the maturity of the relationship, and if that needs a fair bit of work before anything positive can come out of it, in the long-term. This usually is a sign that it's time to put a break on things, rather it be until you can gain your bearings again, or permanently.
I'm sorry if that seemed harsh and intrusive, but since you made a private issue public, there's my personal opinion.
Anyways, glad you're not banned, but let's hope we don't see something like this again.
