aquilas42 (or whoever's using the account), it's perfectly appropriate for you to be here if you're 18 or older, regardless of whether you're looking for creative material or just want to talk with people. Generally, people here understand that even showing up online using a pseudonym takes courage, especially if you've hardly ever talked with anyone about sexuality. I would definitely recommend creating your own account to avoid confusion and complications with your friend -- you don't need to identify yourself beyond a user name even when registering.