Asexual Ticklers

[tklr18]

Asexual tickler here. You're definitely not alone. I wondered for a long time if I was, but then a couple of threads have popped up recently. Feels good to know there are others out there!

 

[ArchNemesis]

I'm 41 and I've never even had sex. I still consider myself solosexual rather than asexual. I masturbate, a LOT. To pictures of women being tickled though, or pictures of women's feet. Never to pictures of ass or tits or vagina. I'd much rather a woman get me off with her feet than her vagina. I realize that I'm the only one who gets any pleasure that way, but I fail to see the problem in that LOL

 

[Alwaysticklish]

I completely relate and agree with TeamTickleGuy's statement!! Its so relieving to see that I'm not such a rare card (even for a tickle fetish type). The awesome sensation of being tickled by any one who is passionate about it turns me on...could happen with guys or girls (depending on variances) and ive had to hide those immediate erections on many many an occasion. I just cant helped being turned on by it....especially if some one is trying to remove my shoes and socks to get at my feet, thats an overwhelming sexual sensation and I know from four different experiences that I actually get off from intense tickling (happens with the long duration tickles). When I have sex, as always, ive had to imagine tickling scenarios or recount past moments in my head....just to stay into libido....ive tried but im only attracted to tickling and girls feet. Talk about tough times while dating....shes trying to show me her breasts and I just keep checking out her feet. If the girl didnt like tickling and hated having her feet touched (or had ugly feet)...then I wouldn't waste too much time with the girl. But yeah, im not the only one who just wants the tickling...yay! I should mention that ive been turned on being tickled by guys and girls...yet im not terribly attracted to either gender (other than female feet) in a sexual way...so I suppose im a asexual bi-ticklish. A rare breed perhaps, but how will we ever know how many of us have this same body chemistry since its something even I only just admitted NOW on a public forum.

 

[Alwaysticklish]

I'm 41 and I've never even had sex. I still consider myself solosexual rather than asexual. I masturbate, a LOT. To pictures of women being tickled though, or pictures of women's feet. Never to pictures of ass or tits or vagina. I'd much rather a woman get meyou off with her feet than her vagina. I realize that I'm the only one who gets any pleasure that way, but I fail to see the problem in that LOL

Solosexual. ..I like that! And im happy to tell you you're not the only one who gets pleasure that way...its already more than you could believe. Its obvious that millions of people discovered growing up that feet and tickling was there first and only attractions. Some kids have aroused thoughts of what boobs look like under shirts....some have arousing thoughts about whats under shoes. Science has not even come close to figuring out how a human makes that random sexual identity and how....im convinced it is random as hell and no two humans are identical with their turn ons. I felt sorry for boob attracted guys growing up because I got to see hot naked feet frequently (could even get my hands on them on occasions)...but girls weren't walking around topless haha. The mystery must have been killing them while im Darin at perfect barefeet. Ive ran into SO many people at clubs and shows that admitted foot fetishes (or you could obviously tell)...we seem to be a shy lot, but I noticed alcohal breaks down alot of barriers sometimes. Its socially taboo, but almost mainstream. The fact that so many people dont take care of their feet or dont like their own seems to suggest an old common idea that feet are nasty and unflattering....I guess if you grew up in that environment that it would seem hard for you to find ANY kind of appeal to feet...thats why I was always annoyed by people who would make alot of noise about someone taking their socks off and doing the "pee yew" thing when there clearly was no odor. Its strange cause I dont have a knee jerk reaction to despise boobs...they're very cool but they just dont turn me on. But it would seem like tickling and feet fetishes are formed in the early childhood days, when everyone was tickling anybody and feet are just as fascinating. I found it crazy in my childhood how many friends would try to go to the effort of taking my shoes and socks off just to make sure it tickled all the way! Im sure my eventual sexual chemistry stemmed from all of that somehow. Didnt even know it...until I knew it. Haha. Thanks for the rant, I find the topic fascinating. Lol.

 

[meangry]

I don't get it.

I don't pretend to get it.

I am glad I will never get it.

 

[The Last Laugh]

Yes I do get turned on by tickling. I always have been.

If you get turned on by it, doesn't that mean that you are not, in fact, asexual? Isn't it rather a matter of you being turned on by something different than most people (outside of this forum, I mean)? Just because you're not interested in "ordinary" sex doesn't mean you don't have any sexuality that can be expressed in other ways.

That being said, I do understand what you mean. I don't have much interest in vanilla sex either. I'm not completely non-receptive to it, but generally speaking, tickling (especially foot tickling) is more appealing to me. And when I think of or notice women that I find attractive I mostly think of them in terms of feet and/or tickling. Actually, most of the time, when I spot a girl that looks interesting I usually don't think "Damn, I wish I could get her in bed" as much as "Damn, I wish I could hire her for one of my tickling videos".

 

[Orsoloff]

If you get turned on by it, doesn't that mean that you are not, in fact, asexual? Isn't it rather a matter of you being turned on by something different than most people (outside of this forum, I mean)? Just because you're not interested in "ordinary" sex doesn't mean you don't have any sexuality that can be expressed in other ways.

That being said, I do understand what you mean. I don't have much interest in vanilla sex either. I'm not completely non-receptive to it, but generally speaking, tickling (especially foot tickling) is more appealing to me. And when I think of or notice women that I find attractive I mostly think of them in terms of feet and/or tickling. Actually, most of the time, when I spot a girl that looks interesting I usually don't think "Damn, I wish I could get her in bed" as much as "Damn, I wish I could hire her for one of my tickling videos".

I see your point. However, there is considerable diversity among the asexual community. Some asexuals may experience sexual attraction(s) in some parts of their lives, some don't. Some masturbate, some don't. There are asexuals who do have sex with others, but mostly out of curiosity or fulfilling that person's needs. Asexual people can be attracted to others, they just lack the sexual drive that is. And of course asexuals have fetishes just like sexual people. And even some asexuals would rather have romantic relationships rather than sexual ones. Others can also be aromantic.

I hope this answers your questions. Constructive criticism is allowed.

 

[kcantankerous]

I too enjoy this thread