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At what point does posting candid pictures on a fetish site become creepy?

People, some of you seem to feel that if someone snaps a photo of you in a public place, you have some kind of veto power if the photographer decides to choke his chicken over that picture in the privacy of his dark room. It's absolutely a ludicrous notion, and good luck enforcing it. Taking a picture is not an invasive act. It's simply capturing some of the light that reflects off you. You don't own that light. People are free to take pictures in the public domain, and yes they can take pictures of feet and drool over those pictures while they hold the sausage hostage.

So, is it okay for a predator to take candids of children and/or their body parts (feet, rear ends, etc.) out in public for their own sexual gratification? It’s perfectly legal, right, but is it not disgusting? No one deserves to be taken advantage of for secretly obtained material to be passed around on the internet by strangers who want to get sexually aroused by them. Kids can’t make the decision to be in sexual photographs, obviously. But neither can an adult who doesn’t know it’s going on because there is no opportunity to make that decision. It’s taking advantage of the unknowing and unsuspecting, regardless. I would have no problem if someone with a camera went up to someone (an adult) and asked for a photo and told them exactly what it was for.
 
A celebrity is well aware they will be followed by paparazzi. They will even call said paparazzi to let them know where they will be so they can get photographed.

And just because something happens on a daily basis, doesn't mean its ok. That kind of logic is just retarded. Though I guess if a person had a partner to play with, they wouldn't have to sneak shots of others and try to not get caught doing so.

Um, not quite. Celebrities are followed by paparazzi regardless. A perfect example is when Kanye West walked into a sign as he was being followed by the paparazzi. Think he called them beforehand?
 
A celebrity is well aware they will be followed by paparazzi. They will even call said paparazzi to let them know where they will be so they can get photographed.
Yes, they accept the paparazzi as a fact of life. Because they deal with them on a daily basis. Likewise, when we mere mortals go out in public, we should likewise recognize that in this technological day and age of cell phone cameras, speed cameras, red light cameras, security cameras and even spy satellites, that chances are good wherever we go, that we're being photographed, and somebody just might use that photograph to polish his knob.

And just because something happens on a daily basis, doesn't mean its ok.
If it happens daily and the vast majority of instances of it result in no harm done to anybody, then yes it is okay

That kind of logic is just retarded.
Haha. Is it any more retarded than pretending it's okay for the paparazzi to do it, but creepy for John Q. Tmf to do it?

Though I guess if a person had a partner to play with, they wouldn't have to sneak shots of others and try to not get caught doing so.
LOL. You're so funny with these presumptions that anybody who behaves in a way you don't approve of can't possibly get any tickling action. Think what you will, but I can assure you that I'm in no way starved for tickling.

But just the same, I couldn't resist getting a shot of this cool umbrella at the shopping mall. 😉



Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to take this picture and get to know myself a little better. 😀
 
You're completely missing the point. Celebrities are a bad comparison because they choose that life knowingly. Willingly. The technicalities of what is legal and what isn't doesn't stop someone from having to make a choice: am I going to take advantage? Do I care? The law being on your side doesn't free you from that crossroad.

If somebody took a picture of my sister at her wedding and put it on a fetish site, I wouldn't be a hypocrite for being furious at a fellow fetishist. I wouldn't be "uptight" because the law protects so and so and it's just me having "sour grapes because I'm wrong". My fury would be over someone not giving a crap that my sister doesn't appreciate or choose that for herself. That it just had to be because her wedding day was worth being cheapened in the name of lust. Would that make me wrong or does that simply mean that I choose to be considerate?
 
Is it any more retarded than pretending it's okay for the paparazzi to do it, but creepy for John Q. Tmf to do it?

I'm not sure if you know or not, but paparazzi are often considered to be bottom feeding scumbags.

By like, the vast majority of people.
 
I don't know about anyone else, but DontAskJusTckle's neener neener approach reminds me of a Lethal Weapon villain basking cheesily in diplomatic immunity.
 
It keeps amazing me how some people with holier then thou attitudes never miss an opportunity to chastise others. Your rants are so tiresome. Please get a new fetish and play morality police on their forum

If you don't like to read other people's opinions, then feel free to put these people on the ignore list. I most certainly do.
 
If it's not creepy or shameful, why does it have to be hidden? Why isn't the person right out in the open, pointing their camera at the woman's feet and snapping away?
 
I've been silently watching this thread for a week, now I will chime in.

Simply put, I agree with C.AB. It is absolutely wrong, and rude, to post anyone's picture without their consent.

I have pictures of girls I've known over the years, barefoot, etc, that I would never post on here.

If I met a new gf, and showed her this site: I would ask her if it's okay if I posted pics of her here. If she said fine, I would. If not, I wouldn't, even if said person and I ever split up, because such is wrong.

Someone mentioned celebrities. I think that is a bad example, because, as someone else said, celebrities choose to lead a public life, and normally have tons of pictures of themselves floating around. I would have no problem posting a pic of say.. Jennifer Love Hewitt's feet, because, there are literally thousands if not millions of other pictures of her, barefoot, and in various stages of undress, on many sites in the world. Pictures of her are posted, probably, in far more sexual places than this site.
 
I do modeling every now and then, and the release contract always and explicitly says that the photos, even if they are nudes, underwear or stuff like that, cannot be posted on sexually oriented sites. And there is a reason for that! So if you can't even do it with model photos where the people are well aware the photos are being taken, you sure as hell shouldn't do it with photos when people aren't even aware they are being taken pictures of!
 
So, is it okay for a predator to take candids of children and/or their body parts (feet, rear ends, etc.) out in public for their own sexual gratification? It’s perfectly legal, right, but is it not disgusting? No one deserves to be taken advantage of for secretly obtained material to be passed around on the internet by strangers who want to get sexually aroused by them. Kids can’t make the decision to be in sexual photographs, obviously. But neither can an adult who doesn’t know it’s going on because there is no opportunity to make that decision. It’s taking advantage of the unknowing and unsuspecting, regardless. I would have no problem if someone with a camera went up to someone (an adult) and asked for a photo and told them exactly what it was for.
FYI, it's not "perfectly legal" to take pictures of kids and post them to fetish sites. That is in fact illegal, and rightly so. We're talking about adults here, not kids. If you want to talk about kids, please go somewhere else.

You're completely missing the point. Celebrities are a bad comparison because they choose that life knowingly. Willingly. The technicalities of what is legal and what isn't doesn't stop someone from having to make a choice: am I going to take advantage? Do I care? The law being on your side doesn't free you from that crossroad.
It's not a bad comparison at all. And many celebrities object to the paparazzi. Not long ago Jeff posted a clip of some celebrity (I can't remember his name) who while walking with his head down, didn't see a sign and crashed into it. You can't for a minute tell me that celebrities accept the paparazzi willingly.

If somebody took a picture of my sister at her wedding and put it on a fetish site, I wouldn't be a hypocrite for being furious at a fellow fetishist. I wouldn't be "uptight" because the law protects so and so and it's just me having "sour grapes because I'm wrong". My fury would be over someone not giving a crap that my sister doesn't appreciate or choose that for herself. That it just had to be because her wedding day was worth being cheapened in the name of lust. Would that make me wrong or does that simply mean that I choose to be considerate?
LOL, we're really getting in tall weeds now. Weddings are private events. Like gatherings. And as such those who attend agree to abide by certain rules. Many weddings I've attended stipulate no flash photography. The organizers can stipulate no photography whatsoever if they're worried about the scenario you suggest. I've personally never heard of such a thing, myself.

I'm not sure if you know or not, but paparazzi are often considered to be bottom feeding scumbags.

By like, the vast majority of people.
Yes, that's true. But I would say that's a case of a few bad apples spoiling the whole bunch. Some of them wait outside the homes of celebrities, or outside their movie sets, and they get in the faces of these celebrities at the first opportunity. Some take long range telescopic photos in their windows. What I'm defending is somebody casually and unobtrusively taking pictures of women's feet in public places and posting them to fetish web sites. And if people think that makes us bottom feeding scumbags, I'm sure we'll find some way to live with that.

I don't know about anyone else, but DontAskJusTckle's neener neener approach reminds me of a Lethal Weapon villain basking cheesily in diplomatic immunity.
LOL. Except that guy was playing his diplomatic immunity card to legitimate authorities. He was dealing with REAL policemen, not the Moral Majority. If the forum admins object to my picture, they'll get no argument from me. No immunity here, pal.

If it's not creepy or shameful, why does it have to be hidden? Why isn't the person right out in the open, pointing their camera at the woman's feet and snapping away?
I can think of several reasons. First and foremost it shows courtesy to the woman being photographed to exercise discretion rather than to embarrass her with a public display. It's like the difference between silent approval of a woman's features as opposed to whistles and catcalls. This way she can go about her business or continue her conversation without a rude interruption.

Secondly, as a photographer in a public venue I'm under no obligation to announce my presence. I'm minding my own business, and if I choose to operate discreetly, that's in no way indicative of shame or guilt. It's simply taking the path of least resistance.

I do modeling every now and then, and the release contract always and explicitly says that the photos, even if they are nudes, underwear or stuff like that, cannot be posted on sexually oriented sites. And there is a reason for that!
Yes, because a model's photos are his trade. They are produced as intellectual property with copyright protection. Otherwise, they become worthless.

So if you can't even do it with model photos where the people are well aware the photos are being taken, you sure as hell shouldn't do it with photos when people aren't even aware they are being taken pictures of!
WTF? How can you even compare the two? With candid photos, there's no contract, no copyright, and nothing whatsoever illegal about it.

Face it, Rhiannon. With all your fascist preaching of your moral imperatives, you can't put a dent into this issue. Taking candid pictures is perfectly okay. And in my opinion, it's good to share one's candid photos with the community. In fact, at wikifeet.org which primarily focuses on celebrity feet, there is a section for non-celebrity candid feet shots, which I heartily recommend.
 
If it's not creepy or shameful, why does it have to be hidden? Why isn't the person right out in the open, pointing their camera at the woman's feet and snapping away?

To be honest, I doubt it's a fact that they're ashamed of taking the picture, but rather that they're ashamed of the fetish associated with that picture.
 
I do modeling every now and then, and the release contract always and explicitly says that the photos, even if they are nudes, underwear or stuff like that, cannot be posted on sexually oriented sites. And there is a reason for that! So if you can't even do it with model photos where the people are well aware the photos are being taken, you sure as hell shouldn't do it with photos when people aren't even aware they are being taken pictures of!

I'd say there's a fine line. If there's no way of identifying the person, and you just thought her feet were hot and decided to take a picture under the table, then there's really no harm done. It's when they're posting fully identifiable pictures that it's not right.

Also, you're like the biggest prude of the forum, and I am surprised to hear you talk about doing modelling. You come off like someone who lives alone with a bunch of cats arguing on the internet because you have no friends and nothing better to do.
 
While some have made good points, others are just plain judgemental. There is NO harm in a candid photo that does not show her face. It's just feet, ok? If someone took a photo of me drinking coffee at Starbucks and used it to pleasure themselves so be it.

The irony is, we are all on a fetish site now. You would think more people would be open to this sort of thing.
 
While some have made good points, others are just plain judgemental. There is NO harm in a candid photo that does not show her face. It's just feet, ok?
That blanket statement is in itself a judgement.

The irony is, we are all on a fetish site now. You would think more people would be open to this sort of thing.
I see no irony in the many different people on this site having many different opinions. In fact, to assume they should all share the same opinion because they share the site is also in itself quite judgmental.
 
That blanket statement is in itself a judgement.

I see no irony in the many different people on this site having many different opinions. In fact, to assume they should all share the same opinion because they share the site is also in itself quite judgmental.

You're judging his judgments! Don't be so judgmental!
Oh no, I'm judging your judgments of his judgments! This is lunacy!
 
Um, not quite. Celebrities are followed by paparazzi regardless. A perfect example is when Kanye West walked into a sign as he was being followed by the paparazzi. Think he called them beforehand?

I'm saying that when a person becomes a famous actor or musician, they understand that they will have the picture taken constantly. Kanye West may not have showed up to wherever he was anticipating that paparazzi would be there, but I don't think he was surprised to see that they were. And from the angle the video was taken, I don't think the paparazzi gave a shit about being discreet or hiding the fact that he was taping Kanye West.

And, considering Kim Kardashian was hanging on his arm, it's quite possible one of them called paparazzi. Obviously, no one is anticipating walking into something or falling when they are on camera, but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen.


Yes, they accept the paparazzi as a fact of life. Because they deal with them on a daily basis. Likewise, when we mere mortals go out in public, we should likewise recognize that in this technological day and age of cell phone cameras, speed cameras, red light cameras, security cameras and even spy satellites, that chances are good wherever we go, that we're being photographed, and somebody just might use that photograph to polish his knob.

It's one thing to accidentally be in the background of someone else's picture. You're at disneyland and get caught in a shot of someone with their family. Understandable. But when someone's intent is to secretly take pictures of a person to post on a forum so hundreds of others can get off to it, yeah that's creepy. Sure, no one got hurt and maybe that means it's ok in your opinion, but I disagree.


Haha. Is it any more retarded than pretending it's okay for the paparazzi to do it, but creepy for John Q. Tmf to do it?

The celebrities being photographed, again, are aware that paparazzi come with the territory of being famous. Many celebrities welcome it to keep themselves relevant. Because of that, paparazzi don't need to hide in bushes (although sometimes they do) to avoid being "caught" or "unnecessary drama." The creepiness lies in the fact that John Q. TMF would be trying to avoid being seen, but he doesn't give his subject that choice, and then posting that picture to a website of this nature for people to beat off to.

LOL. You're so funny with these presumptions that anybody who behaves in a way you don't approve of can't possibly get any tickling action. Think what you will, but I can assure you that I'm in no way starved for tickling.

If dude had a set of feet at home to play with / jizz on / take pictures of, why would he need to bother with the trouble of tiptoeing around trying to get a picture of a stranger's? Doesn't make sense to me.
 
You're judging his judgments! Don't be so judgmental!
Oh no, I'm judging your judgments of his judgments! This is lunacy!

For the record, I'm all in favor of people being judgmental; in fact, I've never met anyone with a pulse that isn't. 😉
 
I think it is all just a matter of perspective. It is how you view it personally, rather than what is reality. I think when people think it is creepy, or people think it is ok, it is simply their mindset. Doesn't make one side or the other right. There is no right answer.

For example, what if you are walking around in the public domain and someone is filming you eating an ice cream cone. You have no idea you are being filmed. You are just sitting there eating an ice cream cone. Then, you find that video, image, etc on a website that talks about the joy of eating ice cream. People comment on the website talking about how they love ice cream, etc. Would you freak out because your photo appears on this site discussing the joys of eating ice cream, and you didn't know you were getting your photo taken? Highly unlikely.

But if someone takes a photo of your barefeet as you lay out on the beach, then post those pictures on a foot fetish site, and you find out, all of the sudden you feel "creeped out" and go up in arms about it? Why? It is NOT because they took a photo of your feet without your knowledge, it is because in your mind, some "weird" people (mainly males) are probably stroking their meat to the image of your feet. That is what is the problem here. Not if it is actually right or wrong, moral vs immoral, legal vs illegal, it comes down to how YOU perceive it. Some people do not like the idea of people getting off on their body parts. Understandable and you have every right to feel that way. BUT, just because some others don't mind it, it does not make them "wrong".

Go back to the ice cream example. Would you really care if your image was taken in the public domain, but on a website with people talking about eating ice cream where there was no sexual innuendo? Nope. So how is it any different from someone taking a picture of your feet and putting it on the website. The same EXACT action happened. Photo taken of you without your consent and put on a website. But, it comes down to your personal feelings on how people are perceiving those photos when they see them.
 
I would be upset if someone took my picture and posted it to an ice cream eating forum without my consent. Just saying.
 
I would be upset if someone took my picture and posted it to an ice cream eating forum without my consent. Just saying.

Then that is your own personal reaction, doesn't mean what happened makes it "creepy". Why would you be upset?
 
FYI, it's not "perfectly legal" to take pictures of kids and post them to fetish sites. That is in fact illegal, and rightly so. We're talking about adults here, not kids. If you want to talk about kids, please go somewhere else.

Well, then that’s exactly the point I was trying to make. Yes, we’re talking about adults, but adults who have not consented (because they have not had the opportunity to give consent because their pictures were taken secretly) to being on fetish sites. If it’s illegal to take candids of children and put them on fetish sites, shouldn’t it be illegal to do it at all? There’s no consent either way.
 
Well, then that’s exactly the point I was trying to make. Yes, we’re talking about adults, but adults who have not consented (because they have not had the opportunity to give consent because their pictures were taken secretly) to being on fetish sites. If it’s illegal to take candids of children and put them on fetish sites, shouldn’t it be illegal to do it at all? There’s no consent either way.
Children are in an entirely different category altogether. What applies to kids doesn't necessarily apply to adults. If you want to argue that it should be illegal to post candid picture's of women's feet, you'll need to find some other line of "logic" by which to make your point. I'm not at all comfortable discussing kids at all on an adult fetish site, and I'm certainly not going to get into the completely off-topic discussion of posting kiddie pictures. Just to be clear, I'll be ignoring any further references to children.
 
Then that is your own personal reaction, doesn't mean what happened makes it "creepy". Why would you be upset?

It's creepy in my opinion. And I would be upset in any situation where someone took my picture and posted it online without my consent.
 
It's creepy in my opinion. And I would be upset in any situation where someone took my picture and posted it online without my consent.

Ok, you find it creepy in your opinion. But why would a random picture of you eating an ice cream cone be considered "creepy"? What is creepy about it?
 
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