Attractiveness Vs. Ticklishness

[Elphaba]

Total Vanity Thread !!

I realise this subject has probably done to deaaath; but not the Elphaba way !! Haaah! ;;

What's more important to you when searching for a prospective tickle partner?
Ticklishness or how attractive he/she are.
I don't mean how attracted you are personally to them, because we all know personally is a biiiiiig factor is this stuff blaaah haha 😛 (kidding bout the blaah 😛 )
I mean, would you rather have a stunning beach blonde Pam Anderson (if your into that, change to what your into), or would you rather have plain jane but suuuuuper ticklish, like UNBELIEVABLY so ??


Just wondering due to curisoity and my own low self esteem, I would consider being in a tickle vid methinks (considering the otherhalf was okay with it) but with my low self esteem I would worry I wasn't pretty enough :/


AND before any one thinks it, this isn't one of girly threads like "ohhh im so ugly... reassure me plzzzz" I am genuinely curious....



AND now it looks like it is one of those threads since I've drawn attention to it

Arrrgh.... note to self; STOP RAMBLING !

 

[Evil Dave]

Personally I don't really have a 'type' as such. In terms of who I like to tickle its a combination of facial features, other physical features, personality (if I know her) and their reaction to be being tickled. If all the factors sort of gel together then I'm interested. That for me is 'attractiveness'.

I know that's not much help but I can assure you that if you did decide to take the plunge and post videos you would certainly receive appreciative comments from all the people who enjoy them for whatever particular reason floats their boat.

 

[texastickler]

I know for me, I have NEVER had an issue with looks when looking for a tickle partner. Hygiene is important but not looks. I would look for ticklishness if it were just for a ticke partner. Personality becmes a factor if the relationship is to get more serious.

 

[Radiohead 7140]

depends on the type of session i guess. for fun tickle sessions ticklishness is far more important. if its an intimate and sexual thing, ummm its like attractiveness is one axis and ticklishness another. that being said, my version of attractivenss isn't particularly classical, but to maximize sexual gratification out of that type of setting, multiply attraction by ticklishness, high score wins!

 

[Raytheon]

I have lo self esteem too. If you ask me I'm thick, ugly, short you name it. I sit here watching stick peroxide blonds walking past in their 6" heels with their tits out and think why cant i pull her? whats wrong with me? Then my gothy girlfriend comes in sits on my bum and tickles the shit outa my ribs and gives me a huge kiss and i remember why 🙂

Your only unattractive to the people who arnt worthy of you *hugs* 🙂

 

[Patiklers]

2 cents

Honetly, I have been with stunningly beautiful and not ticklish or had like narly feet and in the end it just didnt work,, So, for me if I had to choose, i would say just plain old girl next door ( clean of course ) but crazy ticklish, not even an issue for me seeings i have been in that boat before,, To go one even better, Damn beautiful AND fun ticklish, now theres a match, And where I am right now🙂
But to all the plain Janes that happen to be crazy ticklish, just holdout for the right tickle man,, and if your a genuinely nice girl who is crazy ticklish, who will open up for some tickling,,the right tickle guy will find you and ADORE you! hope that helps ya some!

The M half of the Patiklers!

 

[Elphaba]

I have lo self esteem too. If you ask me I'm thick, ugly, short you name it. I sit here watching stick peroxide blonds walking past in their 6" heels with their tits out and think why cant i pull her? whats wrong with me? Then my gothy girlfriend comes in sits on my bum and tickles the shit outa my ribs and gives me a huge kiss and i remember why 🙂

Your only unattractive to the people who arnt worthy of you *hugs* 🙂

Awww 🙂

Thanks for the nice message !

I'm happy that you have your girl to make you feel better ! 😀

 

[Black Hat]

What's the most attractive to me about a female 'ler is her love of punishing her 'lee. If a woman enjoys the work and lets it shine through, then I can pretty much be cool with her physical appearance (within reason of course).

As for a 'lee...the hotter the better and sometimes her level of ticklishness isn't as much of an issue.

 

[fleurdelis]

Even though I'm more of a 'lee' than a 'ler', I really don't care about looks or gender when it comes to tickling. I'd rather it be someone I'm not attracted to because I'm not looking for a relationship; I already have one of those. LOL!

~*FleurDeLis*~

 

[rhiannon]

I'm a lee too, but for me tickling equals sex. Just as I couldn't have sex with someone I am not attracted to, I also couldn't be tickled by someone I am not attracted to.

 

[DimpleToes]

I dont care about looks as long as were friends first and have fun in sessions. I have friends who are actors, models who are drop dead georgous and some who are butt ugly. I treat everyone the same, if your not ashamed to be seen with me then I am not ashamed of you. I rather have the girl/boy next door who is squirmy.

 

[DimpleToes]

I have lo self esteem too. If you ask me I'm thick, ugly, short you name it. I sit here watching stick peroxide blonds walking past in their 6" heels with their tits out and think why cant i pull her? whats wrong with me? Then my gothy girlfriend comes in sits on my bum and tickles the shit outa my ribs and gives me a huge kiss and i remember why 🙂

Your only unattractive to the people who arnt worthy of you *hugs* 🙂

awwww that is so precious... I love your saying about hugs.. I may steal that.

HUGSSSSSSSSS/Dimples

 

[Em Es]

Plain Jane!

Elphaba, I will take the Plain Jane who lets me have my way with her over the knockout who makes every step of the relationship a trial, any day.

Another way to put it:

The Plain Jane who tolerates tickling beats the knockout who either is not ticklish or won't put up with me tickling her.

You do not exagerrate when you account for personality, Elphaba. A number of women I either didn't notice or even disliked became attractive to me once I got to know them.

Is your picture anywhere on this web site? You've got me curious!

 

[ticklebunny 2]

I think in order for a person to be attractive vs ticklishness-it is important first off-that person have a great outgoing and friendly personality, be very kind and thoughtful-many times thinking of his or her friends and family and others and even take into careful account others' feelings before their very own feelings. Be funny, giving, and know how to laugh at one's self from time to time. Have a great smile, nice face, nice eyes-you know eyes that have warmth and caring in them-dance when they laugh-kind that grab your attention right away, have a special aura of confidence about themselves, just the right amount (not bordering on cocky or arrogant-not arrogant or cocky that is for sure) that would be a complete turn off.

Yet you know kind of a sense and aura of mystery about the person, bit of shyness yet still plenty of streaks of bit of hidden wildness and boldness in the person. I think a person is attractive most-kind that know how to help others feel good about themselves as a person with strengths and great qualities in general for that other person-help that person feel that way about his or her self at the end of the day. Whereas I don't really find those that put others down or take cheap shots at others' expenses-or make a person feel terrible about his or her self attractive personally-that is just how I feel on it.

Instead I find this trait not very becoming and totally very UGLY to be honest-it greatly detracts from the person being attractive in my sight or not...definitely can't establish a friendship or bond with a person like that-don't care and can't take into account-others' feelings and how something negative said or done-might affect them.

I don't mean worry constantly on how others might be affected in a bad way or might feel bad after something harsh is said or done-but generally mean to uplift and encourage others around them and not shoot them down.
I think a person that enjoys and loves to show and give affection : example of giving hugs-feel must be a very good person-if the reason giving hugs-is to help make others feel good and most of all-show love and friendship -caring-but not to show off what a good person he or she is but because he or she wanted to express love and caring to the person-with no expectations but only because the main reason doing so -show love and caring to the person.

So on the debate of attractiveness VS Ticklishness-I think that while having a person that is ticklish is great and wonderful-a total thrill-very important-to have another that shares your tickle kink and loves it as much as you do-be great-I think more important that the person possess great qualities and personal traits-as a great person that you feel physically attracted to and that you share a great emotional bond with-at the end of the day it is more important I think to share a bond of friendship, respect, and love than it being all about having each one of your tickling/ sexual fantasies and desires fulfilled. That while that is important, think companionship is more key then having one's tickling and sexual wishes fulfilled with yeah great passion fulfilled but sadly lacking no companionship and no respect and love shown and expressed as a couple in daily life.

 

[LD_Tickler]

Looks are more important to me, I think. I mean, if I don't find a girl attractive, I don't give a damn how ticklish she might be. I'd also rather tickle a girl I found insanely stunning, even if she was less ticklish than a less attractive girl. There's a range on the spectrum, but that range is located slightly more heavily on the "looks" side.

 

[Tummy Dude]

Looks are more important to me, I think. I mean, if I don't find a girl attractive, I don't give a damn how ticklish she might be. I'd also rather tickle a girl I found insanely stunning, even if she was less ticklish than a less attractive girl. There's a range on the spectrum, but that range is located slightly more heavily on the "looks" side.

I agree totally.
🙂
Couldn't say it better myself

 

[DanishTickling]

I choose ticklishness!

I choose ticklishness! come on guys... we all love tickling, to hell with looks!!!
and I'm not saying that because I'm butt ugly myself!

though I admit looks of course means something to me, I still value ticklishness a lot more. I've seen girls who I really wasn't attracted to, but when I found out how extremely ticklish they were and saw them tickled, I was more turned on than ever before!

so the level of ticklishness is without doubt the most important thing to me. of course I wouldn't mind if the 'lee was hot too, but as long as you're very ticklish, I don't care if your name is Amy Winehouse or even worse!

 

[Elphaba]

nice reply greenmess! 😀

Guys, I do value every opinion 🙂 Thanks for everyone replying!

 

[Tissueboy]

Looks are more important to me, I think. I mean, if I don't find a girl attractive, I don't give a damn how ticklish she might be. I'd also rather tickle a girl I found insanely stunning, even if she was less ticklish than a less attractive girl. There's a range on the spectrum, but that range is located slightly more heavily on the "looks" side.

I'd probably go the other way. For me, (in a tickle partner, it's probably different for a girlfriend) I definitely lean towards ticklishness. As long as they're a bit attractive, I'm happy.

 

[Gadilici]

Ticklishness all the way. I mean unless they are just repulsive, but not many women fall under that category.

And even if she's right on the edge of repulsive, if she has a great laugh....it's still a boatload of fun.

Christopher

 

[Jinzort1]

Hmm, Im not sure to be honest, probably in two halves on this. On the one hand, if she truly was repulsive.. Idk xD on the other, sitting there tickling her while she does nothing would be boring even if she was super hot xD

 

[spike102]

Such a loaded question!!

haha I think that most girls are attractive in their own way and making anyone laugh makes them attractive. I think being ticklish just racks up someone's attractive level?? Like in some girls who I wouldn't say that they were attractive, if I see them being tickled, it does kinda give them a bonus point.

But anyways I think I dodged the question enough haha

 

[Sanhael]

If I'm going to be totally honest, I have to say that a girl needs to be somewhat attractive for me to really enjoy the experience of tickling her. That being said, I do think that I'm honestly somewhat more open in my idea of what constitutes 'attractive' than most.

She doesn't have to be gorgeous. I've seen plenty that I liked about so-called "plain Janes" in the past. I have very few "instant turn-offs" as far as physical appearance is concerned... but if they're there, forget it. I can't get around them; I'm not going to run and hide, but I don't particularly enjoy doing anything with them; it's a dry and disappointing experience.

I suppose that sounds awful, but I don't immediately chalk up a girl who has one of my turn-offs as "ugly," just "not my type," and I'm quite well aware that many guys would disagree with me as far as my individual preferences are concerned, so I'm hardly the last option on Earth turning a girl down.

Not that I've got a lot of experience with turning a hopeful girl down...