Balancing the gender scales

[AffectionateDan]

Just remember, kids...

..it's ALL about the love. The inappropriate and skeevy need not apply. If people don't feel safe and comfortable, they're not gonna show. We're uber-careful about our screening, so few and far between are the undesirables who slip under the radar. These events are a precious thing, and without rules and guidelines and burly grouches to enforce them, they'd dry up and blow away. I take a fair amount of pride in having a reputation for that level of comfort and safety. I lucked out and had the creme of the community take me under their wings when I first started exploring the scene, and they brought me up right. It's like a big family.

And ya don't mess with the family...

(we now return you to your regularly scheduled posting, while I go off and feel all warm and fuzzy cause of the love and junk) 🙄

 

[reflexology414]

...

Right now we're at the stage where we can't even get women to correspond via email or PM to discuss the possibility of attending a gathering. There's no opportunity to establish that trust or feeling of safety, because nobody is even willing to communicate.

 

[AffectionateDan]

Well, that's just plain sad, is what it is.

With luck, and no small amount of courage on their part, hopefully the gals out there sitting on the fence will read all about how much fun they're missing by the gals who post here and realize what a great time they could have and come out to see that we don't bite all that hard at all... 🙄

 

[steph]

And thank God for US, Danimal makes and carries his own specialized brand of WEASEL repellent, right Cali gang?
XOXO

With luck, and no small amount of courage on their part, hopefully the gals out there sitting on the fence will read all about how much fun they're missing by the gals who post here and realize what a great time they could have and come out to see that we don't bite all that hard at all... 🙄