Begging for the tickling

[Sweed]

I had a pretty interesting meeting a couple of days ago. I met a guy from the internet, and we're both into tickling and knew that we both are, but we hadn't stated any expectations of having a session when we met. It was more of a "let's go have a coffee" and "whatever happens, happens"-scenario. So we took a coffee, a long walk and a couple of hours into our meeting, he asked me if I wanted to go to his place. He said it with a sneaky smile, which made me suspect that he was "up to something".

We went to his place and just sat there chatting for a couple of hours. Then the tune of the conversation started to get a bit more teasing, and he started to try his best to embarrass me (in a good way ofc) and make me blush. Since he didn't gave it up, I started suspecting once again that he had a devilish plan in his head. Especially since he'd said before that he loved to make girls beg him to tickle them, to make them embarrassed. So I suspected that this was what he was planning.

And as the teasing continued, let's just say I got into the mood where I actually wanted to ask him that. But I just couldn't. It felt too embarrassing, to actually have to ask for it and not tease him into it which is what I usually do in those situations. The time went by, and finally, I got the courage to state, when he asked me what I was thinking about, that I was in the mood to get tickled. He just nodded and smiled, and said okay. I realized he ignored the hint. I simply had to ask litterary for him to tickle me. So, with cheeks as red as a tomato, I did. Then we had a long, great session.

It turned out he never had a plan to tickle me, unless I litterary begged him to. Because he wanted to be polite, and he loved the embarrassment I got from having to ask him. It was really interesting, in a lot of ways. I've never had to litterary beg someone like that before, I've always gotten away with teasing people into it or hinting it, or asking about it but when the subject was already up so that it was obvious that it WAS going to happen, and that both people were thinking about that.

Does anyone else have a similar experience? Or thoughts about it?

 

[milagros317]

I've certainly had the experience of asking to be tickled at gatherings. It's not embarrassing in that context, at a gathering where everybody has the common interest. 😀

 

[FLBowler]

never seen anyone literally beg or anything like that

 

[RdmNm]

I once had a girlfriend who I introduced to tickling. She absolutely loved it. After work, she would often show up at my apartment and watch TV with me and then she would start teasing me while I was trying to watch my show. She would start rubbing her bare feet on my legs and try to distract me by tickling my ribs with her toes. If I continued ignoring her, she would start asking me why I wasn't tickling her already. 😀 Damn that was fun!!!

That was about the closest she ever got to begging. She wasn't embarrassed about asking either. 😀

 

[Comfort Eagle]

I'd beg for some tickles, but a lot of tickler women consider it a complete turn off and therefore won't do it if you seem too eager.

What a paradox.

 

[Sweed]

To me, there is a difference between begging and begging. I find it alot easier (and less awkward) to beg indirectly, by teasing, tickling them, or hinting it in different ways, while to actually speak it out is alot harder. Especially with someone I don't know that well. I think that's why he found it funny to force me into it 😛

Interesting story, RdmNm. I can sure understand that was funny for you. 🙂 But then you were a couple, which probably made it alot easier for her to ask you since you knew eachother so well.

 

[RdmNm]

Interesting story, RdmNm. I can sure understand that was funny for you. 🙂 But then you were a couple, which probably made it alot easier for her to ask you since you knew eachother so well.

Absolutely yes. However, she wasn't even into tickling before she met me, but even if she were already into tickling before she met me, I'm sure she would not have asked me to tickle her until after she got to know me. Her relationship with me definitely made it easier for her to ask and tease, etc. Damn that was fun.

 

[Amalthea]

Wow that sounds like so much fun! I use to beg my ex husband to tickle me all the time..He was not into tickling at all and most times he would blow me off or give me a little one and stop, leaving me hot and bothered..now that's true humiliation!!! (not the fun kind by the way)

 

[voided9]

I've never had to beg for it... my husband gets me every chance he can. Although sometimes when I'm in the restraints and the tickling is almost unbearable, I start saying "Please, please..." and he asks "Please what?" I usually say "Please...keep tickling me" =P I almost never beg him to stop.

 

[CuteJill143]

I think the sound of someone begging to stop sounds much better to me And I think light tickles are better for teasing than say verbal teasing & I feel it should happen naturally. Its possible that this guy wants to be let known that the girl wants to be tickled for sure 100%.

 

[Mane'o]

From what the OP has told us about the experience it sounds as if the ler intentionally wanted to see and hear her blushing request to be tickled. Tickling by its nature involves a power exchange between ler and lee. Making the lee explicitly ask to be tickled is a variation on that exchange. For some lees, just uttering the word "ticklish" can cause butterflies in the tummy, let alone actually asking to be tickled.
And during the tickling, it is often exciting for the ler when the lee cries out "that tickles!" even though it is abundantly obvious it tickles as the lee squirms and struggles and laughs and loses control.
All part of the delicious play between ler and lee.

 

[april]

From what the OP has told us about the experience it sounds as if the ler intentionally wanted to see and hear her blushing request to be tickled. Tickling by its nature involves a power exchange between ler and lee. Making the lee explicitly ask to be tickled is a variation on that exchange. For some lees, just uttering the word "ticklish" can cause butterflies in the tummy, let alone actually asking to be tickled.
And during the tickling, it is often exciting for the ler when the lee cries out "that tickles!" even though it is abundantly obvious it tickles as the lee squirms and struggles and laughs and loses control.
All part of the delicious play between ler and lee.

This.

 

[xX Yuna Xx]

I've never begged for tickling but I do get teased and tickled into begging for more, something I want/dont want (in a weird way) lol

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

I have to say I liked the concept of getting you to beg for tickling. I am going to use it. I think it makes the lee a little more susceptible to ticklishness when they want it. Plus, I enjoy the power exchange.

 

[Coda]

Embarrassment about sexuality can be so emotionally deep for some people that I think of it as an entire dimension of eroticism.

 

[Sweed]

From what the OP has told us about the experience it sounds as if the ler intentionally wanted to see and hear her blushing request to be tickled. Tickling by its nature involves a power exchange between ler and lee. Making the lee explicitly ask to be tickled is a variation on that exchange. For some lees, just uttering the word "ticklish" can cause butterflies in the tummy, let alone actually asking to be tickled.
And during the tickling, it is often exciting for the ler when the lee cries out "that tickles!" even though it is abundantly obvious it tickles as the lee squirms and struggles and laughs and loses control.
All part of the delicious play between ler and lee.

Yeah, totally agree with you 🙂

I've never begged for tickling but I do get teased and tickled into begging for more, something I want/dont want (in a weird way) lol

Gotcha. I think it's easier to beg for more though than to beg for it to start. 🙂

And that's called conflicting emotions 🙂 Very common for those who like tickling.

Embarrassment about sexuality can be so emotionally deep for some people that I think of it as an entire dimension of eroticism.

I think I get ya, but not quite? Could you develop it a bit more? Sounds interesting 🙂