Let's review this; it was IN THE INTERESTS.
...which is where it didn't belong. You don't put your turn-ons in your Interests, that's where hobbies n' shit are supposed to go. When someone asks you what you're into, you don't respond "anal".
DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE DON'T READ THAT SHIT? ESPECIALLY when you have a lot of interests listed?
Yes, I'm quite aware that people don't read as deeply into someone's profile as you might often like. But some
do, so it's a good idea to make sure that what you have written isn't going to scare off the people who take the time to actually see what you have to say.
And then I find I get the clueless fucktards who have no clue who they're talking to, and then I get shot down either way over it. Maybe you also failed to read I've taken girls on dates without any mention of it, and tried the subtle approach, which, FYI, did not take.
And, as I said before, not everyone likes broccoli or Mitt Romney. It's a bit of a Catch-22 in that being too forward about it scares everyone away, but not being forward enough fails to weed out the people who aren't into it no matter what. There's no 'net' you can cast that will do both, perfectly, because dating, Internet dating especially, is a friggin' circus of clueless fucktards. Of both genders.
Oh yeaa. Now we're talking. Saying "maybe I want to tickle your feet" is like saying "gee, I'm gonna drag my wet dripping cock up and down your feet until you can't handle laughing anymore".
You snark, but some people do that shit. Besides, in your own words, women have told you to shut up about it. That should tell you something.
Give me a break. Subtle or practically beating someone over the head with it, no positive response.
Then she doesn't like broccoli. That doesn't mean that broccoli is a horrible thing, it just means she wants a cheeseburger.
Meanwhile a lot of girls come off snooty with "I'm looking for love" "I'm trying to avoid one night stands" or whatever retarded bullshit they stuff in their profiles to emphasize they aren't looking to get screwed/left.
And those women are damaged goods that you shouldn't be touching with a ten foot pole if you want a healthy relationship.
So a guy can't share an obsession of his own if this is the droning message that he gets from women? Real nice. Like I said. Unemotional. Robot.
Right. Sink to their level. Act as damaged as they do and you'll get what you're looking for. How's that working out for you so far?
Also, you're falling into the fallacy that the only two choices are "unemotional robot" and "obsession". There's a happy medium in between - not that you'd know, given that you immediately leapt to the conclusion that I was accusing you of talking about your dripping cock.
Look, if looking around for 20 minutes of being indulged is too much for a girl, maybe I should walk away. Because clearly I'm so goddamn demanding I'd steal the thunder.
I have no idea what this has to do with what I said.
Unhappy with the fact that people attempt to analyze me without even associating me? Sure. Yea, I forgot, this isn't a social forum where people can talk/present others with questions.
You're not asking questions. You're whining about how people don't like your fetish, when the truth is more complex than that.
Maybe I should go to a psych and get pills shoved down my throat and told how I'm the best being to ever walk the earth. Yea, cuz being sedated and told how great I am makes such a difference in my reality.
That's not what getting help involves, but it doesn't surprise me that you jumped to that conclusion, either.
Here's what I see. I see a guy who's having difficulties getting the kind of relationship he wants, and jumping to all sorts of self-harming conclusions about why that is. I am not perfect. I have
been in your shoes. Hell, just the other night I was talking about how I had a professional photographer friend of mine do a photo shoot for my OKCupid profile and my response rate has actually gone
down since I posted the new pictures. Nine times out of ten, I can't get a date to save my life - but I have
never had a problem getting the women I do eventually date to accept my fetish. I am not magical in this regard, and I highly doubt it's because I'm just so lucky that I keep meeting fetish-friendly women. There
are female tickling enthusiasts out there. They're
right here on this forum!
Then again, I could be wrong. They could all very well be snooty bitches who just hate tickle folk. Would that make you feel better to know?
Look, ultimately what I'm trying to say is that you can't make a woman who doesn't like you or your fetish, like you or your fetish - but you
can drive away a woman who would otherwise have been open to the experience. The trick is to not worry about which is which, because you can't tell. Just try to be self-aware. That's all you can do.
Me, I want to meet a cute geek. Ironically, that's harder than finding a tickle-friendly girl...