Bit of a downer, this one.....

[gargoyleofdusk]

I need to disclose this.
Has anyone talked with somneone online for awhile, only to have them just cease the replies?
Maybe it's just me...but lately, people I care about have just, well - seemed to deem talks with me - worthless?
Not sure if I hath said/did something wrong, and when I try to ask - still no response.
This is why, I really hate to have human traits.....
K, back to my shadows.....

 

[Sultrybrunette]

Yes I have had that happen to me. I guess the fact that its online people don't feel the need to show manners. Its been discussed before on here. Not much you can do about it unfortunately.

 

[Mitchell]

I'm sorry to hear this. Yes, of course it's happened to me too, with people who have left TMF and havent kept in touch, or dont answer e-mails after a while. As Sultry said, there's unfortunately nothing you can do. Sorry pal.

Mitch

 

[blondie46]

You are feeling sad because someone won't talk to you, Mr. Gargoyle. Would you care to elaborate? Talking about this more might help.

 

[gargoyleofdusk]

Other than the fact my spelling is atrocious?
Feeling kind of disposable, wish I knew what I was doing wrong.
I know I have social miscomings, just hurts when someone talks to others, but ceases convos with me.
Doesn't help that I just moved, and the only people I really know, are my friends I am staying with.....
Blargh.....

 

[blondie46]

You are feeling useless, disposable. Why is that?

 

[AquaFeline]

if it helps at all I think I've talked to you and you seemed pretty cool 🙂 You were just far away.

 

[gargoyleofdusk]

Tanx people.
AF - cool we share the same birthdate, sux we are far apart....but also got the feeling, that maybe I scared you off.....

 

[TheTickleMonster]

I know how it feels. There was this one girl I used to talk to, she used to be like my closest online friend. Well she stopped coming on, or so I thought. I got multiple AIM screen names now (along with yahoo -- fyi, i like yahoo better) but anyways, I signed onto one of screen names that she didn't know right after signing off from the one she knew and she was online but I didn't see her on my one she knew so I quickly signed off and signed on the one she knew and she wasn't on. So I was thinking she got off before i signed back on, but then signed on to the one she didn't know, and she was on. Aparently she blocked me but I didn't do anything. I still haven't gotten up the nurve to ask why though.

Another girl that used to come on once in while would always have a status line up or away mess. saying she's buzy but im her anyways, so I would. She'd tell me that she's too buzy to talk, but I was just following orders, but I don't know she seemed not too interested in talking to me too much...i dunno, i think this is more relevent to you're situation.

I'll shut up now...

*steven*

 

[AquaFeline]

Tanx people.
AF - cool we share the same birthdate, sux we are far apart....but also got the feeling, that maybe I scared you off.....

Don't think so? If you're who I'm thinking of I think you're just never online at the same time. {shrugs} I don't go in the chat room anymore really.

 

[Irishgirl]

It depends on who you're talking about. If you're talking about people from the TMF you need to understand that not everyone is more concerned with their tickling fetish conversations than the people and things in their "vanilla" lives. And yes, you might be seen as disposable, to some. It happens to me and my boyfriend all the time.

 

[steph]

You're a sweetheart hon, people get busy, keeping in touch takes effort and time, yanno? I'd not take it personally...
XOXO