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Blowing a meetup

You live and learn. Each person views approaches differently- at least you know to dial it down next time 🙂
 
always just start off being normal, casual conversation and ease into
everything. Never just dive in cuz its a real turnoff
 
Thanks for the replies, to expound on what happened, she had said she liked what I did and agreed we should meet up for a session. It was after I sent her a pic of myself which she asked for communication stopped. On my end I guess I just got too excited and came off as creepy...or she thought I was ugly lol I'm leaning more towards the first one
 
Well unless this picture showed a lot more of you than she was expecting I think more likely you just don't look like what she expected, or her preferences. If you were coming on too strong surely she would have said so, not asked for a picture. But, sometimes ladies move in mysterious ways.
 
don't beat yourself up...she was probably just intimidated by your good looks and your chiseled physique
 
Sorry you got treated that way, bro.

I find these cases to be interesting, though I'm not insensitive to the pain they cause. On the one hand, we're always hearing about the "creepers" on the TMF who hound the ladies in a tasteless fashion, and to be sure, those guys do exist. We seldom hear about the potential shallowness of TMF women. I suppose when you have such a wide disparity of numbers that's understandable, but still worthy of mention. I mean, think about it. She says, "Yes, let's definitely meet! Hey, by the way, send me your picture so I can....uh...you know....recognize you....yeah." You send her the picture, and suddenly all interest is gone. If a guy treated a woman that way, he'd be labeled as a jerk, asshole, etc. But when a woman does that, well maybe she just wasn't comfortable with the idea, don't be too hard on her, we don't know what she's going through, blah blah blah.

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not going all "Slaver" here, I just find these cultural nuances interesting. After all, we don't yet know if our friend Ticklerpilot has ever communicated with her vocally. If the communication has been strictly PM and/or email, then I would venture to say that in all likelihood he may have been dealing with a poser.

That would be my first order of business before sending any pictures. Vetting the gender of the potential playmate.
 
It sucks, but both genders are picky, and that's their right.

Most women don't like ugly guys, and most guys don't like fat girls. I said MOST MOST MOST, not ALL ALL ALL. If you're unattractive or overweight, most of the time you're going to need to pay to tickle or be tickled.

Not saying you're ugly, but she stopped responding after you sent your picture, so all signs point to her deeming you unattractive. Guys don't like fat girls either. No matter what adjectives they use these days ("curvy", "plump", "thick"), they're big. They're BBWs.

Sounds harsh, but the truth hurts, and very few people want to hear it. Most of the time, the reason for why people aren't tickling or getting tickled is in the mirror.
 
Jericho716 said:
It sucks, but both genders are picky, and that's their right.

Most women don't like ugly guys, and most guys don't like fat girls. I said MOST MOST MOST, not ALL ALL ALL. If you're unattractive or overweight, most of the time you're going to need to pay to tickle or be tickled.

Not saying you're ugly, but she stopped responding after you sent your picture, so all signs point to her deeming you unattractive. Guys don't like fat girls either. No matter what adjectives they use these days ("curvy", "plump", "thick"), they're big. They're BBWs.

Sounds harsh, but the truth hurts, and very few people want to hear it. Most of the time, the reason for why people aren't tickling or getting tickled is in the mirror.
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I get what you are trying to say, but instead of saying "Most guys don't like fat girls", how about "Most guys don't like unattractive girls"? When you inject the word "fat", you are immediately providing an adjective that you are not attracted to. Like when you said "Most girls don't like unattractive guys", that leaves it broad on what is unattractive. It will save you a lot of grief from the people who will backlash on you...

DAJT is right. If a woman says the guy is not attractive, no one bats an eye. But if a guy says a girl is ugly, we get the "You're not looking at what's inside. You're mean! etc"...
 
something something something, something out of nothing.... post .... something, something something something
 
Yeah from the sound of it, it wasn't necessarily your fault. You sent a picture, and she lost interest. Like it was stated earlier, unless your dick was in the picture or something, I think she just didn't see what she was expecting you to look like and that was that. She probably should've at least told you that, but in the end it was her choice to make I guess. Don't kick yourself, there will be other opportunities I'm sure.
 
And hey, never know, maybe crap just came up for her irl and she hasn't been able to get back to you yet. Never assume worst case scenario.

~K
 
Thanks everybody, and no the picture was not explicit, if the situation changes I will post about it. Until then or otherwise not giving up!
 
There is not a lot of details here, so it is hard to tell what happened. Now, are you positive that you were talking to a woman in the first place, and you were not being catfished?
 
The name she gave me and pictures here match up with social media. I checked that after communication stopped thinking it might be a guy but not so unless it's an imposter
 
Honestly man, the hard truth of tickling fetish is if you're meeting someone and they're outside of tickling, outside of this forum, in a vanilla environment, you're going to come across a lot of women who interpret tickling as danger. Coming on slow is alright, but don't be afraid to bring it up as a like or a turn on when you're exchanging. Just being forward is the best you can do. When meeting, if any touching is initiated, start with maybe a second long. Gradually increase the length of time as she gets acclimated. Then, maybe challenge her. Otherwise, I wouldn't invest any deep concentration in tickling or fantasy play unless she's clearly trying to wind you up.
 
This has happened to me, as well, with a fellow TMFer. Though, in my case admittedly, we did continue to message back and forth for awhile after pictures were exchanged. But one day there was no response and that was it. She logged in to the site once more a month after my last message to her and then never again.

It really sucks, but don't give up. Always take it slow, even if the person you're talking to is a member of the (TMF) community. Some people are just easily spooked. Shallowness is a trait shared by both genders, too.
 
Unfortunately, if you're going to try to score on a site based on a sexual fetish (regardless of if people "just love tickling"; I don't buy it), then looks are in the next order of things. So don't focus too hard on it. The right one will about the whole package.
 
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