You are sadly mistaken if you believe that we use racism as our crutch/ excuse. Every success story proves that we are fighters and overcomers. Our history proves that we have and we will continue to work, to live, to breathe, to make a difference, to reach the top regardless of the odds that are placed in front of us!
GREAT!
That's what I was trying to say...Blacks CAN, and HAVE, and WILL make it. Barry Bonds, Home Run Champion, isn't shouting that he made it because he's Black. All those years that he didn't hit record breaking home runs...he didn't blame it on him being black and Mark McGwire being white.
YOU said it. You have and will continue to reach the top. Everyone wants to!
HOWEVER...IF, and WHEN you DON'T make it, don't cop out to "it's becau'se I'm Black, and the person that beat me out for a job is white", or any other ethnic reason.
Don't cop out...if you truly "will continue"...then do that. Continue. When I have a better sales month, it's not because I had an unfair advantage. Someone might be better than YOU. Just because you're black and you don't make it doesn't mean it's someone else's fault.
You may see "racist odds" against you. All I'm saying is that this is not 100% of the time. You saying that it's sooooooooo hard for the Blacks all the time, is like saying "White is Right". Your way is the right way and no one will ever show you different.
I am not saying AT ALL to forget your heritage...Just don't relive it day to day! I sit directly across from this black woman at work. ALL day long...I'll hear little things...little murmurings about how it's so unfair, she doesn't have equality, etc.
Look, the Chinese people aren't lamenting every day about how they were forced to work on the railroads in San Francisco...Anyone that's Hispanic aren't bringing up EVERY DAY the fact that their father and grandfater picked vegetables for 14 hours a day at reduced pay just to make it.
The dialog that the two black folks in my unit have is interesting...
Black Woman: Heeeey, what's up with you?
Black Man: Nothin....just tryin to get it done...and you?
Black Woman: Just Slavin...and it won't make a difference.
It's ALWAYS a blame factor. Don't forget your heritage...but don't relive it! No one else is!
By the way...My Grandfather escaped the Russian Iron Curtain in the mid 40's when it closed on Estonia. He had been in a Russian concentration camp and forced to eat clelery soup for weeks on end. He managed to get a former Russian neighbor to hire him from the camp for work. The neighbor had made arrangments for my Grandfather to meet up with his wife and child in Sweden. My Grandfather's other brothers and sister didn't make it out. My Grandfather went to Sweden, then moved to Finland, Canada, then to the U.S. His first job in the U.S. was picking up firewood in the forest near a local campground and selling it so his family could eat.
When he moved to L.A., he had saved enough money to buy a priting press and started an underground newspaper for the Estonians trapped behind the Iron Curtain. Through his 48 years of printing his paper, I NEVER heard him say that he couldn't make it because the Russians took everything he ever owned. He talked about his escape, and about having to fight in the war...He fought on. He made it.
I'm not going to blame my bad sales month because my Grandfather was a prisoner in a war camp. I'm not going to blame my not getting a promotion on my Grandfather's poor beginnings collecting firewood.
Again...don't forget your heritage...just don't live it day to day!