Boyfriend has a foot fetish & I find feet repulsive. Need advice!!

[GiggleBug]

So my boyfriend recently admitted to me that he has a foot fetish. The interesting part is that he thinks I have no idea what a foot fetish is, but because I have a tickle fetish (I love being tickled and then playfully getting revenge) I do know what a foot fetish is. Except here's the problem. All my life I've hated feet. Any feet, even "hot" peoples feet like Jennifer Aniston. I just find them gross and repulsive. Recently my boyfriend discovered that I'm ticklish on my lower back and sides. He's casually mentioned wanting to give me a foot massage because it turns him on. What I'm afraid of is what if he doesn't find my feet attractive? I have no idea to know if they are or not, because all feet look the same (read: gross) to me :/ also another question - is sweaty feet a turn on or a turn off? I sense that IF I ever let him play with my feet, that I will be very nervous/anxious and they'll sweat. Will that kill the mood/turn him off?

 

[Darth Sidious]

If it helps, I wouldn't stress out about this too much. You have no control over whether or not he will find them attractive. Only he knows what he likes or doesn't like. While I can't speak for everyone, for me, sweaty feet are a turn off, so my advice would be perhaps do this when you've had a couple drinks or the like to calm the nerves so you don't really think about it 🙂. Hope everything works out!

 

[FeatherEndeavor]

Some people with foot fetishes like sweaty feet and some don't. Some men like big feet, some like little feet, some wrinkled soles, some smooth soles, etc. Basically not everyone with a foot fetish likes the same thing so it would be hard to for us to tell you what he likes. But as long as he likes you he probably won't care if your feet don't fit the exact image of perfection in his head. Plus if you guys are already dating I'm sure he's seen your feet already and he hasn't run off so I'm sure you're worrying about nothing.

 

[Mitchell]

In regard to what you said.. as one of the "foot guys" of the forum.

You really have no control over whether your bf finds your feet attractive or not. All you really can do is try, and see what he thinks. There are ways to make feet more attractive of course, pedicures, lotion, etc etc.

Whether or not sweaty feet is a turn on or turn off really is a personal thing.

Personally.. for myself.

While I dont necessarially consider sweaty feet a "Turn on", I do confess to having smelled a woman's feet when they were sweaty. I belong to a foot fetish forum, in addition to my being a member here, and the opinions there about whether sweaty feet are a turn on, vary greatly.

I hope you can work this out. Hopefully you can find a compromise that will make you both comfortable.

 

[GiggleBug]

Thanks for the feedback, guys! He's already tickled me a little which I explained briefly in the true story section. My feet will not sweat 24/7, haha, I think just the first two times because of nerves!

Do foot guys really hate socks? Because I always wear them, they're cozy lol

 

[Esmoove]

I'm a foot guy and I like socks and bare feet. I like sweaty feet at times, others I don't. It changes from time to time.

You seem too harsh on yourself about your feet being ugly. Let him be the judge if your feet are pretty or not. You could benefit a lot if you indulge him a little bit. Especially if your feet are ticklish 🙂

 

[gilmourwaters]

im too am a foot guy. Not into sox....except maybe those very thin ankle sox women wore in the 80's..the ones with the lace. I am VERY into sheer tan nylons and hose though

 

[Mitchell]

I don't ;like socks on a woman. My favorite way to tickle a woman's feet, is of course, barefoot, but, stockings are okay as well.

To me, it seems like the sensation isnt a great when the woman is wearing socks. That might just be my opinion though.

 

[okdremur]

Every foot guy is different, socks don't bother me, but I don't like nylons. Find out what he likes and it can make you both very happy I'm sure. Happy Tickling!!

 

[sonnymadler]

I don't really care for either socks or nylons. There are times when I find feet in socks rather cute, other times I find nyloned feet and legs particularly sexy. My primary preference though is bare. And regarding odour...I can't say I'm a fan of smelly feet, but it's not strong enough a factor to turn me off. I believe that for most foot fetishists it's the overall appearance and shape that matters most, from the ankle down to the heel, arch and toes. It certainly does to me. And its ticklishness of course. 😉 But yeah, every foot guy is different.

 

[barefeetarebest]

GiggleBug- Let your guy have at it, and try your best to put your inhibitions and insecurities to the side for a bit. He will be *tickled to death* that you let him, and for sure, no matter how you regard your own feet, he will love them like he loves you.

 

[mabus]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - ask him what he likes....then wear 'em!

He may like pantyhose, (woo hoo!) he may like socks, he may like bare feet. Ever fetishist has different likes, and then many have multiple likes on top of that.

There was one girl I had a huge crush on who I thought had spectacular feet, and even though I was never a big sock fan, or bare foot fan (I prefer pantyhose)
she looked great in socks or bare. (I saw her feet in pantyhose once, suntan sheer toe ones too, ....I almost had a heart attack of happiness....)

And always remember! ...thank God you aren't dating a prude, who puts you down because of your interests! (Boy, they have a lot of those out there, trust me!)

 

[TicklishBlackGuy]

Honestly if you dont like feet, i wouldn't be doing anything just to please him because he has a foot fetish. I say that because I knew a guy who had a foot fetish but his wife wasn't big into feet or tickling for that matter. She tried her best to keep pleasing him and even tickled his feet a few times but it just didn't work. Honestly, you should let him know your not into feet, and he will either understand or he won't. Choice is yours honestly, but I wouldn't be going out of my way to try and figure out what makes him tick if you find feet repulsive, it will end badly.

 

[Restraints]

I don't think I'd be worried about what he thinks, either. I've been married three times; each wife had remarkably different feet, different appearances, different characteristics, each pair was ticklish, and I enjoyed each greatly. When you see how your boyfriend enjoys them, I think your "repulsion" will be over . . . and you may like having a little power over him.

 

[Oddjob0226]

Has he never seen your feet before? Becuase if he has, and he wants to massage them, he's into them - and into you.

 

[Myriads]

A big part of what you are doing is projecting your own feelings about feet onto your boyfriend, and how you *think* he may feel.

This is not an uncommon way to look at the world, and we all do it to some extent in our lives. We tend to think others are "Like" us, and will react as we are.

Of course they are not, and we are always surprised by them.

In this case, your boyfriend is attracted to you, and has shown this to you in many ways I do not doubt. He has a foot fetish, and your feet are connected to you, someone he cares for, so odds are they will be more then fine for him in all ways. Remember he gets off on feet, and I wager your feet are regulation issue basic ones, and he'll be more then fine with them. Why? Because he's more then fine with you and you letting him have his way with your feet is a bonus to him.

As to sweaty, and socked, and the rest, he like every person has preferences. But again, the fact that your feet are connected to you gives them a huge advantage over other feet. He'll be fine with them however.

It's always easier for others to accept ourselves then for ourselves to do it. Let him show you that he does. It will go fine I wager.

Myriads

 

[YouNeverKnow175]

A few thoughts, as a foot lover myself:

Be open to someone else finding a part of your body beautiful, even if you don't.

Chances are, even if your feet aren't "perfect", he will love them - because they're yours, and they're feet! 🙂

As others have said here, sweaty is a preference and it varies. Personally, I LOVE when a woman's feet are sweaty, like right after she takes off her shoes.

As for socks, I love when women wear shoes without socks or go barefoot, but if you enjoy wearing socks, it shouldn't be a problem....the great thing about socks is that they can most certainly be removed.

What an amazing combination - a girl who loves to be tickled and a guy who loves feet. Sounds like a match made in heaven to me 🙂

 

[jujimbo]

Just experiment more while making love with him. Eventually you'll learn to feel comfortable about him looking at your feet differently they you are doing and at realising you can also arouse them like that, it'll become second nature. Don't force it, but work toward appreciating each others body and that would include your feet if you were truly intimate. Being in a state of arousal greatly helps expanding your horizon. Hope this works. Good luck.

 

[magic fingers]

So my boyfriend recently admitted to me that he has a foot fetish. The interesting part is that he thinks I have no idea what a foot fetish is, but because I have a tickle fetish (I love being tickled and then playfully getting revenge) I do know what a foot fetish is. Except here's the problem. All my life I've hated feet. Any feet, even "hot" peoples feet like Jennifer Aniston. I just find them gross and repulsive. Recently my boyfriend discovered that I'm ticklish on my lower back and sides. He's casually mentioned wanting to give me a foot massage because it turns him on. What I'm afraid of is what if he doesn't find my feet attractive? I have no idea to know if they are or not, because all feet look the same (read: gross) to me :/ also another question - is sweaty feet a turn on or a turn off? I sense that IF I ever let him play with my feet, that I will be very nervous/anxious and they'll sweat. Will that kill the mood/turn him off?

If he has a foot fetish, chances are he'll love your feet even if they're sweaty. For foot guys, almost all women have sexy feet even if the woman thinks her own feet are ugly. And I understand you're repulsed by feet, but he's not asking you to play w/his feet. So just put your feet in his lap and let him have some fun. I don't know if your feet are ticklish, but if they are (and you've already said you enjoy being tickled) then it'll be a lot of fun for the both of you.

 

[xionking]

Eeewww..feet.

 

[magic fingers]

Honestly if you dont like feet, i wouldn't be doing anything just to please him because he has a foot fetish. I say that because I knew a guy who had a foot fetish but his wife wasn't big into feet or tickling for that matter. She tried her best to keep pleasing him and even tickled his feet a few times but it just didn't work. Honestly, you should let him know your not into feet, and he will either understand or he won't. Choice is yours honestly, but I wouldn't be going out of my way to try and figure out what makes him tick if you find feet repulsive, it will end badly.

I'm sorry but I have to respectfully disagree. If she cares about this guy, she should at least entertain his fetish. Why should her "repulsion" completely nullify his fetish? If she tries it and can't get past it, then they discuss it, but she shouldn't just shut him down, because she has a problem w/feet.
And like I said in a previous post, he's not asking her to worship his feet, so her disgust w/feet shouldn't be a complete deal breaker. She can just let him love her tootsies without her even having to see his disgusting man-hooves. Being a couple is all about respecting each other's kinks and desires(within reason of course)
Just because it didn't work out for your friend, doesn't mean it won't work out for these two

 

[ticklemepls]

You're over thinking it 🙂 just let home play with/massage/etc your feet- chances are good you're in the clear 🙂 you're not alone with finding feet repulsive but it's nice you're at least considering letting him have his fun. Who knows you might get enjoyment out of seeing. Him get so much enjoyment from you....

Like I said, don't overthink it just let him do it. Most the general population has decent feet anyways 🙂

 

[The_Hawk]

If he has a foot fetish, he will like them regardless, even if you are sweating and they are sweaty. Im not into feet either, but ive talked to/read about/seen a lot of people with foot fetishes who like sweaty, smelly feet and so on. Kinda gross to me, but im not one to judge.

 

[ticklemepls]

Not to rain on the parade, but I kinda have to disagree here. Chances are good he would like them- yes. But as someone with a foot fetish I can say I'm not one to enjoy smelly feet. I also don't like "all" feet either. But everyone is different - the chances of the op having gnarly feet are slim so I'm guessing there isn't anything to worry about....

 

[sockticklingguy]

Thanks for the feedback, guys! He's already tickled me a little which I explained briefly in the true story section. My feet will not sweat 24/7, haha, I think just the first two times because of nerves!

Do foot guys really hate socks? Because I always wear them, they're cozy lol

Oh my, this is great! He is so lucky if he gets to tickle your socky feet! However, I am truly the exception to the rule. Most guys like bare feet I think. Good luck!