Can you explain WHY you like it?

[Edge]

I met this 21 year old girl who lives local to me and was interested in being tied up before I even talked to her, and I told her about the whole tickling thing. Well she never thought of that being done while she's tied up but it definitely has peaked her interest. But she asked me a great question the other night on the phone. Does tickle torture excite you sexually. Well yeah it does...but she wanted to know how/why. So simply in your own words can you explain why you like/are into tying up/tickle torture. I try to but its not so easy...

 

[2ticklishsoles]

Tied up and Tickled

She might have a good idea of why you both love it after you tickle her sweetly and make her crazy with pleasure! I know tickling is sexual for me, but I guess I cannot speak for al the girls out there. If are worried about her enjoying the experience, just take your time exploring her tickle spots and tickle her gently. Good luck!

 

[TickleMeCasey]

i like the feeling of not having complete control. Its great just to let loose and laugh yourself silly sometimes. Its good for the soul!

I find a good tickle session, or even a tickle that only lasts for a few seconds can really cheer me up 🙂

Casey

 

[milagros317]

I can't explain why I like it so much, but I can't exlain exactly why I like to eat chocolate ice cream, either, except to say because it tastes good. 😀

 

[AffectionateDan]

Well said, Mils

I never over-analyze what I like, I just know what I like.

 

[tickleshotel]

many things I like about it but a few main points is Anticipation/suspense I feel as the Lee, verbal teasing having me squirm frantically 😀

 

[Neutron]

I Like..

Having the lee squirm frantically against me. Otherwise I'll go with mils post!

Tron

 

[ticklkitten]

If you are looking for a way to explain to her comfortably tell her about how much laughter turns you on. It's pretty benign and not likely to frighten someone like tying up or a control issue can. I think it works the best.

just my opinion,

 

[kis123]

I am a self-proclaimed control freak so I enjoy the control aspects. I also like to explore so finding tickle places on an unsuspecting lee is a huge bonus! I also like to make people laugh and love the sound of laughter. It immediately makes me think of happy and fun things. Depending on the relationship with the lee, tickling is also sensual for me as well. I'll finish my thoughts on that subject right about now!

 

[steph]

As the lee, I like to give up control, because I'm fairly assertive in my real life. As the ler, it's fun to get a little revenge on them.

XOXO

 

[TickledToDeath]

Hell of a question. Wish I could explain it fully in words. I am both a tickler and ticklee and it is just an overall psychological turn on a much as it is a physical turn on and COULD become sensual as well depending on the situation and the LER's or LEE's involved. Maybe it's genetics? Maybe not. It just IS what it is naturally.
Having control and relinquishing control. Vunerablility. Reactions and the intensity of those reactions.

TTD😱

 

[KoocheeKoo]

I find a good tickle session, or even a tickle that only lasts for a few seconds can really cheer me up 🙂

Casey

Both my baby sister and my girlfriend say the same thing....being tickled makes them feel better (sis says when her boyfriend tickles her feet, it puts her "in a better mood").

 

[TickleMeCasey]

Both my baby sister and my girlfriend say the same thing....being tickled makes them feel better (sis says when her boyfriend tickles her feet, it puts her "in a better mood").

its true... tickles should be given out on prescriptions from the doctors!

laughter is the best medicine after all!