Can you keep the seperation?

[TKL_Rebel]

Whilst i've been a part of tickling forums, i have come to an understanding that most, hardly any, people can seperate tickling as turn on with their "other halfs" and just playful fun with friends which means nothing more...

im wondering how many people on the tmf can seperate their feelings between their commited relationships and their platonic relationships?

 

[Tickleraket]

Once some of my friends found out about my fetich i told them that i seperate the tickling in the playful and sexual way. They understood me and that's just great. I'm not sure that all people will understand it can be used in two ways.

 

[AmericaRocks]

In a way, it's sort of hard for me. Like, when a platonic friend who I don't view as attractive tickles me, I can still become very turned on by it.

 

[Tickleraket]

I can follow A.R. Getting turned on is like some kind of reflex you can't control. As i see it, that's a feeling that's just happens. But you can still have fun with things like tickle fights or a playful tickle torture and still keep it on a playful plan. In the end i just think it's depending on the situation 🙂

 

[AmericaRocks]

Yeah. Playful and sexual tickling are two seperate things for me, but I get aroused by both, just because I can't control it.

 

[tkl-pen]

No problem at all - thanks.

 

[asutickler]

It's easy. Tickling (for me at least) is sort of like dancing; you can dance with a hot girl, and you can also dance with your mom... It's the same activity in both instances, but the way it affects you is (hopefully 😛 ) vastly different in each case.

 

[TKL_Rebel]

It's easy. Tickling (for me at least) is sort of like dancing; you can dance with a hot girl, and you can also dance with your mom... It's the same activity in both instances, but the way it affects you is (hopefully 😛 ) vastly different in each case.

best way of puttin it for sure

 

[P4E]

^ Agreed.

I find it quite easy to seperate both, but maybe cos I'm quite a strong willed person and I dictate my mind, I don't let my mind dictate what I want to feel...or maybe because I've been bought up in a strict household so I have learnt to control my feelings.

*edit - on a side note, tkl_rebel, Reading festival was brilliant...lol*

 

[BMoreTklr]

It's easy. Tickling (for me at least) is sort of like dancing; you can dance with a hot girl, and you can also dance with your mom... It's the same activity in both instances, but the way it affects you is (hopefully 😛 ) vastly different in each case.

Great analogy here. I agree with this sentiment.

 

[deadlywiffeathr]

Seperation is definatley possible for most people. Whilst a fetish has connotations of being sexual I think we are rather lucky in the fact that we can shape and mould tickling to suit the situations we find ourselves in.

Pretty much, a tickle fight amongst friends is not going to result in an orgasm Your feelings can only control you if you let them, will power is the key! As someone mentioned above 🙂

 

[maniactickler]

I can easily seperate them.