Can you pay to tickle girls at the strip club? First time shy tickler wants to know

[ILoveGirlsLaugh]

Not sure about this one, wanted to know if strip clubs would let you tickle the strippers? I'm sure you'd have to pay but they've gotta expect some people are going to ask for fetish stuff....anyone have any idea about this? I wouldn't want sex or a blowjob or anything, just to tie her up and tickle her for a little while or not even tie her up if she can take it without flailing all over the place🙂 I'm a little too shy at this point to meet people at a tickling gathering and I'm not sure the girlfriend would go for it, so a stranger a strip club that I can just leave after I think is where I wanna start. Thanks everyone, in case you couldn't tell first time post.

 

[Tickle Abuse]

I know quite a few strippers, lol, they often get that request, tickling and foot worship. If you pay them for it of course you can tickle them.

 

[scorpio87]

don't see why not, as long as you ask them and they agree to it

 

[rhiannon]

They probably won't let you tie them up. Why don't you just go to a dungeon? That's what they are there for. Some strip clubs have a no touching policy.

 

[ILoveGirlsLaugh]

Thanks everyone, what's the deal with a dungeon? Can you tell me what the experience is gonna be like or what happened if you've ever been to one?

 

[rhiannon]

A dungeon is a place where you can buy SM-action. There are usually professional dommes and subs there. It's not cheap, but you will most likely get what you want more efficiently than in a strip club where you are always in danger of being kicked out when you overdo it.

 

[ILoveGirlsLaugh]

Awesome thank you, I will have to look for one around here.

 

[shiftdown]

Any strip club I have been to, I had to pay for a private dance*50 bucks a pop* even then, some where too ticklish and some needed more money:-(...even fewer liked it and only one loved it....still trying to find her....

 

[spike246]

Dungeons are good very accomodating but can be very expensive

 

[tickles4fun]

Sure you can just test them out first so you dont waste your $

 

[Libertine]

I'm not sure the girlfriend would go for it, so a stranger a strip club that I can just leave after I think is where I wanna start.

I strongly advise you not to go behind your girlfriend's back, wasting money you should be spending on both of you to 'interact' with girls barely able to hide their contempt, and who will give you as little action as possible in return for the cash they're taking from you. I've dated two girls over the years who worked as strippers, both of whom happened to be putting themselves through university. I know exactly how they felt about the customers because I heard all about it at great length when they'd 'decompress' after a shift.

Talk to your g/f first, gently introduce tickling into your lovemaking, and let it build from there. If she's not willing to even try, it might be an idea to cast your net further. Nothing worse than being with someone to whom you cannot be yourself sexually. There are girls out there into it; I know because I married one.

 

[rhiannon]

I'm not sure the girlfriend would go for it

I didn't even see that part! You're not sure your girlfriend would go for what exactly? And "you're not sure" means you didn't try. So why didn't you?

 

[ILoveGirlsLaugh]

We've been together for three years now and I'm as sure as I'll ever be that this girl is the one, for a million reasons that have nothing to do with my lifelong love for tickling. I do tickle her goofing around, during foreplay and even during sex sometimes but I'd be too afraid that it would cross her line into weird to tell her that I have a fetish for it. It wouldn't break us up, but if I ask her if I can tie her up and tickle her and she says no then I'm just thinking where does the sex and stuff go from there, is it ruined? I'd probably be too afraid to ever tickle her again. Then I'd be mad because I get to do it often enough to make me quite satisfied. I'm not sure I'm gonna go through with one of the other options either, but I'm really starting to feel the need to "scratch the itch" if that makes any sense.

 

[shaolindog]

I do tickle her goofing around, during foreplay and even during sex sometimes

Dude I've never had that in a relationship and I would kill for it. Hardly seems to me to be worth risking it to tickle a stripper.

 

[rhiannon]

We've been together for three years now and I'm as sure as I'll ever be that this girl is the one, for a million reasons that have nothing to do with my lifelong love for tickling.

Then why would you want to risk ruining what you have with this girl for a little tickling!?

but if I ask her if I can tie her up and tickle her

Well, don't ask her that! Ease her into it! She doesn't seem to hate tickling now, does she!? How about telling her that it makes you really hot hearing her beautiful laughter? Then maybe using a feather, without tying her down?

 

[Jagermeistered]

Dude I've never had that in a relationship and I would kill for it. Hardly seems to me to be worth risking it to tickle a stripper.

Cheating is ghey, and the past will always bite you in the ass somehow(you will feel like shit, or she will find out - or, all the above). If you just want to be able to blow your load at anytime: just stay single and be a man-*****.

 

[VitaminJ]

Back in the mid-90s, I went to a strip club on the outskirts of St Louis, and they had a girl on girl dance where the girls would spray whipped cream on each other and then take a shower together...happened to look around, and one of the off-duty strippers was sitting at a table and I walked over and with alcocourage, asked if I could massage her feet...she loved it and actually went home with med....once in a lifetime shot but I only plan on winning that once\

 

[PiperGK1]

You sound like you're writing about everything I've thought of during my life. I had a several close relationships, one being a fiancee, who I was afraid of telling that I loved tickling. I loved THEM, I just didn't want them to know I was a tickler, I was kind of ashamed of it. Tickling turns me on, it's one of the only things that does, and it always has been that way. I thought many times about going somewhere else, other than the person I was living with and in love with, to fulfill my fetish. I couldn't reveal it to my girlfriend!

If I went back and did my life all over again, I definitely would tell my girlfriends that I liked tickling, and I find it sexually stimulating. If you're in the right position (meaning, the right mood and you're both feeling sexy), she will probably take it better. She might not be into it, but she will be understanding.

Imagine if your girlfriend was kissing you while you were lying in bed, and then she stopped suddenly and said, "I have to tell you something.... I have a little fetish. I want you to call me Momma when we make love." That would kind of freak me out a bit, at first, but then I'd realize that I love her, I cherish her, and I'd do anything she wants because she's mine. Women are not immune to their own personal desires, and if you are a good person, good to her, and generally a good man, your fetish isn't all that unusual or hard to swallow.

 

[Ticklish9's]

To answer the first question, I know a ton of strippers and believe me, they get a million foot-related requests. Tickling would probably not be a big deal for most of them as long as it was pretty tame and respected boundaries (and you paid promptly).

That said, the bigger question is: why are you not telling your girlfriend about this? I get that you're shy, but it's clearly a big part of you and she has a right to know about it. That's also the best (and only) way she'll ever indulge it.

If she hates it, you should know now rather than later. If she loves it, you'd rather know now than later. And if she's indifferent but willing to try, then it's better to try now than later. So... what are you waiting for?

 

[Ticklish9's]

And again, because I'm sure you're shy and I went through this with my ex-wife back in my shy days (now I tell everyone :lol: ), keep this in mind - you only have to say it ONE TIME.

Just one time.

Just 3 seconds, and you're done.

"So look... I really like tickling. Can we try it out sometime?"

That's it. Then you're done. Never worry about it again.

 

[maniactickler]

First of all OP, what are you doing with a woman thats not into tickling! thats a recipe for disaster down the road. unless your not into tickling that much. i could never be with a woman that wasnt into tickling no matter how hot, or how great her personality is.

 

[rhiannon]

what are you doing with a woman thats not into tickling

Apparently he doesn't even know if she's not into it because he never asked! She apparently never said she hated it!

could never be with a woman that wasnt into tickling

And that is why you are still single, right?

 

[Bdsmtickler]

As a happy single I may not be very qualified to give an opinion - but this thread provokes me: what is the big deal about asking a girlfriend esp one that you DO tickle sometime?

If you let it be about her, not you - not "I love to tickle", but "I love the way you laugh and move when I tickle you. You look sooo sexy. I want more of that, please" - why would any girlfriend freak out because of that?

And anyway, if you sneak off to tickle a stripper wouldn't you begin to wonder where your girlfriend goes to fulfill those desires that she deems you incapable of accepting?

 

[randomguy85]

We've been together for three years now and I'm as sure as I'll ever be that this girl is the one, for a million reasons that have nothing to do with my lifelong love for tickling. I do tickle her goofing around, during foreplay and even during sex sometimes but I'd be too afraid that it would cross her line into weird to tell her that I have a fetish for it. It wouldn't break us up, but if I ask her if I can tie her up and tickle her and she says no then I'm just thinking where does the sex and stuff go from there, is it ruined? I'd probably be too afraid to ever tickle her again. Then I'd be mad because I get to do it often enough to make me quite satisfied. I'm not sure I'm gonna go through with one of the other options either, but I'm really starting to feel the need to "scratch the itch" if that makes any sense.

First I will address matter of thread. Strip clubs; it really depends on the club. The ones that allow some touching, and have private rooms, etc you might be able to swing it. But as others have stated, you may have to pay more, and you will definitely be paying promptly. Some more private clubs are cool with fetish activity in their VIP rooms, and even have dungeons. The only way of knowing is asking the girl when you're in there. As far as pricing, that varies on club.

Now to the more pressing matter. If you've been with her for three years and have been tickling her so much, she probably already knows. And if not, then you telling her will 99.9% prompt a response of "Yeah, I figured as much. Its ok, I don't mind it." and she may even say "I kind of like it." As my girlfriend has said, "It turns you on, and that turns Me on. And plus, why would I not like something that makes me laugh?!" (love that girl) I don't think you have anything to fear except that which will continue to linger if you don't tell her.

And one last bit of free advice, maybe more important than that just stated. And piggybacking what Jagermeistered said...

...and the past will always bite you in the ass somehow(you will feel like shit, or she will find out - or, all the above)...

I've always thought of myself as an honorable, noble man who values virtues and morals. I love my girlfriend and I too think she is the one, yet I have experimented and experienced paying to tickle others, for the reason of getting it out of my system now as to kill the desire so it doesn't strike down the road. The desire to slake my lust of experiencing others while I am still young and virile; lust found only with tickling and not sex, but regardless, the presence of another woman. I have strayed from my true nature and beliefs and given way to my darker demons. And it is a weight heavy enough to break my back. For your woman's sake and for your own, boy, I strongly urge you to resist paying others for what you could have with her. And not only does it come free with her, but it comes with a bonus, it comes with love, which is more desirable than the services any courtesan or stripper could offer.

That is my advice to you, you may do with it as you wish.

J J

 

[Jagermeistered]

I've always thought of myself as an honorable, noble man who values virtues and morals. I love my girlfriend and I too think she is the one, yet I have experimented and experienced paying to tickle others, for the reason of getting it out of my system now as to kill the desire so it doesn't strike down the road.

-randomguy85

It will fail, not your paid tickle experience, but the fact that you found a girl(s) - and, not is explicit about your form of sexuality, and vice versa - to your lady. You will marry her, and cannot overcome your branch of sexuality. Or, your sex life will become boring very quick.


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