She'll be open-minded
...she is English and on top of everything else her accent drives me nuts
The noisome moral tone of American officialdom, and the sexual aspect of 'Political Correctness' is the legacy of the puritanical mania of those who fled England after the theocratic Protectorate established by Oliver Cromwell fell, and joined their 'Pilgrim' spiritual brethren already living in America. The Talibanesque Cromwell executed King Charles I, then ruled in his stead, banning the celebration of Christmas, dancing, theatres, and the wearing of brightly coloured clothing because he and his followers considered these activities 'UnGodly', i.e. likely to bring pleasure to the participants. And he had plenty of like-minded religious nutcases to help him do it. Eventually the ordinary people just got fed up with leading such gloomy lives supervised by a clutch of evangelists.
When Cromwell finally died and the executed king's son, King Charles II was in the process of reclaiming the throne and not only allowing but happily participating in everything that had previously been forbidden, (and also acquiring several mistresses, from Duchesses to actresses along the way) these black-and-white attired, Salem-dwelling killjoys were making sure that sex in America would always be troubled by their memory for centuries to come.
So ask her. She's English, and I know the breed. I take it she's also a bit older- you're lucky. More likely to be open to experimentation. Be brave, ask her for a drink, or kick yourself forever. Believe me, rejection's easier to take than calling yourself a coward for the rest of your life.
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Charming Charles II tale. He'd had an illegitimate son by orange-seller and actress Nell Gwynne, and had set her up in a country estate. Riding up to the door one day to visit, he saw her on the balcony, dangling the baby by its ankles and shouting down at him that if he didn't give the child a title (illegitimate children were not entitled to an inheritance, but a title would give the kid a large home and an income, all of which would pass down to the baby's firstborn son and so on down the generations) she'd let him fall.
'Madam, pray don't drop the Duke of St. Albans', replied Charles.