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[MTJpub]

Re: eek!

DVNC, what a terrifying thought that any of my kin could be reading this, now or in future, and recognize me. Speaking as a 6'3" Polynesian hermaphrodite, I hope that never happens.😱 🙄 😛 😀

Buba Pearl!! OMG I can't believe I found you😀

 

[qjakal]

Underground pound...

but I want my niece t'mention that she "figured out I was dvnc on the TMF" about as much as I wanna live underground.

Well, underground is vastly under-rated(get that?...underground humor too!). Heating and air conditioning bills are nearly nonexistent, lawn work is nil, leaves falling are a "who cares" and snow isn't a bother either. Not that I've done this (in quite awhile), but on an extended camping/survival trip, underground is very cozy and livable.

Just wanted to be sure the moles among us are represented...🙄 Q

 

[TicklingDuo]

and don't forget...

If you choose to live underground in a flood plane, you do't need to go out to keep in shape. Swimming is great exercise. PLUS....it has something in common with tickling...stroke, stroke. hee hee

Ann 😎

 

[Strelnikov]

If she is, I'm sure she'll find this place when the time is right for her...and have sense enough to lie about her age. Though I understand and support the over-18 policy, there's a downside: that skinny adolescent geek who thinks he's all alone has no opportunity to share with older and, hopefully, wiser heads. I've been there, and wish to hell something like this place had been available 40 years ago.

Strelnikov

 

[blankpage]

How did I get into tickling? Um, would you believe I grew into it... uhh, my interest in tickling was very mild, up until high school where I read an erotic story online, "Maria's Ticklish Risks" (I CAN'T FIND THE DAMN THING ANYWHERE NOW ). Aside from having tickling and hot sex, it also had underscored my first favorite fetish in my triad (women in socks) so it really hit home from me. The tickling kink just kept growing after that... 🙂

 

[ticklemad]

Hi Jen, I applaud your honesty and courage with this posting.
As a child and young adult I too was abused where tickling was a major part of it. I was 8 years old when it first started and U had it every day through to being 14 when this guy finally moved away. It started off as gentle icke of my ribs to make me laugh when I was upset about geting list in some dark woods. Once he realised I was ticklish that wa it. He was my best frends dad and we'd go for a walk with his dog every night. Hs dad would always wrestle me to the ground in a way that to onlookers looked playful , then he'd tickle me, I would be laughing and screming and he'd hien find a way under my skirt to abuse me. It was the same if we went swimming, he would put arms either side of me at the edge of the pool, tickle me and se the motion of te water to be able to abse me whilst other kids we screaming in exciteent etc my screams of pain went unnoticed. As I got older I entered relationships where they quickly found out I was ticklish and would use it in an abusive manner to satisfy their sexual needs. I would be tied up by some (non consensually) they would start to tickle me and then abuse me. On one ccasion I was held down by six men who in turn tickled and raped me. People I've spoken to about this ask why I didn;t leave or get away. Well if you're tied down you can;t,. I couldn;t fight them off on other occasions, my ticklishness rendered me incapable of doing anything other than laugh and scream, as it does to this day.
Nowadays though with a partner I can trust, enjoy being tickled, I know it is only used to provoke laughter and to give me pleasure in a way I want. I was told by a dear friend who is a sexual therapist that tickling can help women in particular who are afriad to let go and let themselves orgasm, as whilst being tickled you have no control as such if you are helplessly ticklish and if you can learn to let go with a partner in this way, it can help you to achieve sexual happiness too. I for one have found this a helpful piece of information and now find myself often reaching that point whilst being tickled. Although I've turned it round and enjoy it with my partner, I still have bad nightmares and flashbacks to the days when it was truly abusive. That was 28 years ago and after much therapy I am still haunted by it, so much so I have been referred to a special unit here in England to live ina therapeutic community for between 6 months and 2 years as a last ditch attempt to flush out the demons. Tickling can be fun and enjoyable, sexual, yes, but only when in the right hands and minds of the ler in question. Thanks for raising this topic and for making me feel I have a friend out htere and am not alone.

 

[drew70]

Originally posted by Dave2112 (or something like that)
There is a "Light" and "Dark" side to everything. This goes with tickling as well. No matter how ruthless or sadistic tickling can be between consenting adults, tickling for the sake of subjugating someone, especially someone in no position to challenge your authority, is wrong. It's not even tickling in the straight sense of the word anymore...it's just plain abuse.

So Dave, I take it you don't watch tickling videos, where a girl is tied to a rack and tickled, even though she is begging for cessation? Wouldn't this come under your definition of "abuse"?

Originally posted by...well you know who posted it. 🙂
(Ok, sorry. I'll feel better tommorow and I'll probably wind up apologizing for this, but right now I'm just pissed. Again, my apologies.)

What's got you so pissed, Dave? Care to share it with us? What's bothering you, pal?

 

[Dave2112]

Drew, what I meant was that tickling IN REAL LIFE for the sake of subjugating someone...blah, blah, blah. In a tickling video, the two people involved ARE consenting adults, even if the characters they are portraying are not. I watch movies where people get shot and enjoy them, but it doesn't mean I condone it in real life. My reference was to adults who tickle children as punishment (and I mean the hard, non-enjoyable kind) or things of that nature.

As for the "being pissed" part, simnply re-read the post. It explains everything. That was posted a while ago, and like I said...I feel better now.😀

Hope this cleared a few things up.😎

 

[dvnc]

Y'aren't alone, ticklemad, and I'm likely one of many, here, that respect your situation and your response to it. You're due applause for bein' who y'are, lady, 'cause it takes a LOT t'do so from such a situation.

drew70 - I agree with Dave2112 concernin' videos. I enjoy stuff in video and movies that I'd never condone in real life. Nevermind that I'd likely never ACCOMPLISH it in real life. Mind ya, I think Dave2112 is a might bit more restrained than I, metaphorically speakin'.

I'm just picturin' Strel's kid showin' t'one of our events, and wonderin' why the 'lers look so nervous, 'til the photo of pop, cleanin' his shotgun on the porch, is seen above her head....

dvnc

 

[njjen3953]

Re: Re: Caution. This thread may not be suitable for all readers.

Thanks for raising this topic and for making me feel I have a friend out htere and am not alone.

ticklemad,
You most definately have me and lots of others out here as friends. We are a community in many ways. I want to thank you for being so brave here.
Please feel free to e-mail me privately at any time.

Jen

 

[Strelnikov]

Not for 9 more years, DVNC. The point about the shotgun is well taken tho...Mr. Winchester is NOT, generally speaking, your friend.

Strelnikov

 

[dvnc]

S'long as it's a *quiet* enemy, it's all good. 😉

dvnc
who'll be as protective as every other father, likely...

 

[P_Bustleton]

I'm bumping this thread so it can add to our more recent discussion.

 

[njjen3953]

Hi P,

Can you link me to the recent discussion, please?

Thanks,

Jen

 

[Adam]

Wow, this may be the oldest thread ever bumped. To answer the question, I don't believe there was ever one incident that triggered my interest in this fetish. Tickling has just been something that I've always enjoyed doing, as far back as I can recall. And I'm talking young here, like 5 years old or so.

 

[P_Bustleton]

I bumped it because of this thread.