Chick like me...(for all the real girls of tmf)

[TkljailbaitGRL]

So i decided to put this here but i guess honestly it can go anywhere. I did an experiment the last few days to a week or so i guess with the help of some great tmf friends. i dont know if anyone has read the book black like me and if u havnt i will try to do a quick explanation in the book the man who writes it is white but dresses up as a black man in the 1880s during the south's reconstruction process to see what life is like as a different race. he is shocked to see the horrible things that his society does to him because he is no longer himself and shows how it looks on the other side of the fence. well i titled this thread chick like me to see how girls in tmf really get treated by men in the chatroom and so called other females whom most believe are men who are posing to be a girl. what i found was appalling. out of 73 pc's i received only five that i deemed to be worthy. when you pc someone ask who they are and if they are having a good day first... not how far are you toes apart and what tickles u the most.... if you build off that all that stuff will surely come i promise. women here are not tickle videos they arent to be objectified for your personal wants. they have needs too... meet them. sometimes you dont ever know how important it is to say hey i think your a really great person because that person maybe having a terrible time right now and that could up lift them so much, instead of hey do u wear socks alot.... there are some good guys out there in tmf land and i encourage you to try to be more like them. its not an unreasonable request... just treat them as if you were to treat your mother..... thats is my advice to the tmf world. i hope i am not here...


By the way i am proud2tickle....yes the icon

 

[maniactickler]

This has never been a secret to me. ive always known a majority of men are classless pigs.

 

[BellybTickler]

Well spoke.

 

[Inverse]

I've never understood the absolutely brutal, direct approach some guys have with women. It goes against everything I know from relationships, and from a technical point~ business. If something doesn't work, don't do it~ their actions imply to me somehow, in some twisted universe that they do somewhere.

That going "R U ticklsh? Let me see ur feets" somehow works in some imaginary land~ because I can't fathom why else they would do it. People can't be that stupid to think it does, I believe in people way too much to honestly admit that.

I wouldn't go as far as to say treat others like you would your mother though, but I would definitely start with friend.

 

[proud2tickle]

i like your style inverse

 

[Bellybsgirl]

I wholeheartedly agree with you! The few times I have been in the chatroom I was hounded with private messages, and even if you politely decline the person becomes agitated, as though you (as a woman) are EXPECTED to say yes. I'm appalled.

 

[TicklingFancy]

And I who thought I was the only one that dropped my jaw everytime I saw it happening

 

[Mephistopheles]

I put on my robe and wizard's hat.

 

[babie.styles]

I'm in the chat right now, and 2/3 ppl are talkin to me like I'm stupid. fml.

 

[Artoo]

I put on my robe and wizard's hat.

You can't ignore my girth.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

wow i bet that that there giant block o text [probably has a very interesting story within but you see because i use this thing called punctuation and capitalization im afraid i really can't understand the point of this here thread which really is a shame because you clearly are an icon

i'm comfort eagle in case you were wondering. yes that guy who had another name before.

 

[socktickler86]

Wait... so do you or don't you wear socks? 😀 jk!

I think what people don't realize is that a lot of guys try the 'big numbers' approach. Throw out 100 messages and if even 90% reject you, that's 10 people who are enticed into a random message! This works in the dating world as well, I think that is where people get it.

Then again, I also have a theory that the girls who actually are the 10% are actually guys in reality and are just playing along. Unfortunately this reinforces peoples ideas that they can do that mass annoying messaging.

 

[JWrite87]

I'm new to this forum and have yet to participate in a chat, but my guess would be that guys are straightfoward as you described since this is the probably the only place that they can be "themselves" as far as talking to others about the fetish so they choose not to hold back and get right to it. What many fail to realize is that on the other side of the computer screen is another person who may also be on this site to indulge as well but probably not for that reason alone.
When approaching a female in person my conversation starter wouldn't be about sex so that shouldn't be he case here as well. Anyone that would expect that to work probably has little to no dating or social experience.

However, at the same time just like the real world ppl are always pursuing different things. While one person (male or female) might seek a nice conversation, a good friend, or a meaningful relationship, the next person might want just the opposite.

*shrugs*

sorry if I was rambling.

 

[scarecrow]

this is a probably the best thread i have seen,all you assholes out there that make the rest of us guys look bad,you need to shut the hell up and leave people alone,but seriously good post

 

[BlackestLily]

Probably halfway off topic from the OP, but Black Like Me is an awesome book. 🙂

 

[shane2]

This is a good post their many imposters,and many men are consider dogs but it goes the same for women also I know women out there who are skanks but its a big world out there and we as human beins we have to seek, and keep our eyes open. I ve always been the same guy in this site since day one but to find a mate online is very diffcult considering the fact that their is so many pedos and rapests in the internet world so its kinda hard to trust somebody online especially if they have different names but one day we will find that one person who usaully is right under our nose, or that person that we bound with the most etc cause true love is blind. Dont see with your eyes see with your heart. 🙂

 

[sealdan]

Whether women or men, we're all human beings. Human beings with wants, needs, desires, goals, dreams, hopes, fears, passions, experiences, etc.

Let me ask anyone this: When you've watched a tickling video, have you ever gotten curious as to what it was really like for the people who were in it? What a day in their world is like for them?

I'm not saying sexual pleasure and objectification is inherently bad, but I do strongly believe that it hinders any sort of human relating and connection. Does it mean there's not a place for it? Of course not. Again, we're all human. I definitely enjoy a good tickling video every now and then, but I think the OP has a point. Objectifying someone for your desires generally does not invite connection with him or her.

Point being: Get curious about people... beyond "Where are you ticklish?" or "What size are your feet?"

Okay, getting off my high horse now 😉

Thank you for sharing, TkljailbaitGRL.

 

[socktickler86]

Let me ask anyone this: When you've watched a tickling video, have you ever gotten curious as to what it was really like for the people who were in it? What a day in their world is like for them?

Or how I can get their job?

 

[TheTickleMonster]

when you pc someone ask who they are and if they are having a good day first... not how far are you toes apart and what tickles u the most.... if you build off that all that stuff will surely come i promise. women here are not tickle videos they arent to be objectified for your personal wants. they have needs too... meet them. sometimes you dont ever know how important it is to say hey i think your a really great person because that person maybe having a terrible time right now and that could up lift them so much, instead of hey do u wear socks alot....

guys need to hear that stuff to you know. 😛... i'm not saying guys get attacked and hounded by women asking them ticklish questions and stuff, but girls also get complimented more than guys, girls don't go around telling guys they're great guys a whole lot, but they expect us to do it. not saying I don't. i tell girls they're special when they are.. but, guys need love too. 😛

 

[JWrite87]

Probably halfway off topic from the OP, but Black Like Me is an awesome book. 🙂

I agree. I remember reading it back in middle school.

 

[socktickler86]

guys need to hear that stuff to you know. 😛... i'm not saying guys get attacked and hounded by women asking them ticklish questions and stuff, but girls also get complimented more than guys, girls don't go around telling guys they're great guys a whole lot, but they expect us to do it. not saying I don't. i tell girls they're special when they are.. but, guys need love too. 😛

The one thing I've always wondered is whether or not girls can typically pick out when a guy is just saying that stuff to flatter her with the objective of finding a tickle partner. I never say "hey you're a great gal" or "you're special" until I've known the person for a while and have good reason to say it. Whenever I dare check my myspace account and see what other people comment on my friends profiles, it's hilarious. You see people who just add the person saying "hey thanks for adding me, you are the nicest/hottest/sweetest/smartest girl ever". The worst part is when girls get hooked by it and you see their conversations through the comments and you're just amazed at how dumb both parties are.

 

[H-man]

Ask pretty much any guy who has bad luck with with women, myself included, and he'll say that a lot of jerks get women. It seems like its true, god knows some of the biggest dicks I've know are great with women.

I'm not defending guys who act like jerks to women, but its very hard to figure out what you are supposed to do if nobody ever told you.

I genuinely compliment women, I treat them well without being a fake, but it's never gotten me anywhere. I've had a lot of negative experiences with women in my life that no doubt has contributed to my lack of success with them sexually and romantically. It's really easy to grow bitter and just think of women as the problem, something that's happened to me more than once. However, I continue to treat women respectfully, despite that it doesn't work because I despise men who treat them like shit even if they do seem to have a lot of the luck.

TL;DR They say nice guys finish last, I'm not so sure thats true, but I'm not too sure it isn't either. A lot of guys are just confused.

 

[TheTickleMonster]

The one thing I've always wondered is whether or not girls can typically pick out when a guy is just saying that stuff to flatter her with the objective of finding a tickle partner. I never say "hey you're a great gal" or "you're special" until I've known the person for a while and have good reason to say it. Whenever I dare check my myspace account and see what other people comment on my friends profiles, it's hilarious. You see people who just add the person saying "hey thanks for adding me, you are the nicest/hottest/sweetest/smartest girl ever". The worst part is when girls get hooked by it and you see their conversations through the comments and you're just amazed at how dumb both parties are.

true true. 🙂. I don't just go and tell girls they're special right away. I wait to know if they're special before I let them know. I was just saying I let my friends know that they're important to me... and even them on here.. I don't get all pushy about them being ticklish. I like to get to know them... However some of the girs on here do seem to want to talk about tickling though, it's like i ask them how they're doing, and talk for a little bit, and then they stop talking to me for a little bit and i get the feeling they are being quiet bc they're wanting me to bring up tickling, or they just do it first...

 

[TheTickleMonster]

Ask pretty much any guy who has bad luck with with women, myself included, and he'll say that a lot of jerks get women. It seems like its true, god knows some of the biggest dicks I've know are great with women.

I'm not defending guys who act like jerks to women, but its very hard to figure out what you are supposed to do if nobody ever told you.

I genuinely compliment women, I treat them well without being a fake, but it's never gotten me anywhere. I've had a lot of negative experiences with women in my life that no doubt has contributed to my lack of success with them sexually and romantically. It's really easy to grow bitter and just think of women as the problem, something that's happened to me more than once. However, I continue to treat women respectfully, despite that it doesn't work because I despise men who treat them like shit even if they do seem to have a lot of the luck.

TL;DR They say nice guys finish last, I'm not so sure thats true, but I'm not too sure it isn't either. A lot of guys are just confused.

That is true, jerks do get the girls.. even on here, there are a couple jerks in that come into the chatrooms that all the girls seem to like for some reaso I can't explain. But there's a different between being a jerk and being creepy. what she's talking about the guys that bombared the girls with tickling convos aren't jerks, they're creeps...

 

[Maestro1874]

This is the whitest of white knight threads...ever.