Clarity

[xionking]

I used to think that suicide was the weak way out. Now I can see why it becomes the only option.

 

[Myriads]

And that why would be?

Myriads

 

[Wildtime]

For a thread titled "Clarity", it sure is ambiguous...

I used to think that suicide was the weak way out. Now I can see why it becomes the only option.

😕 Care to elaborate?

 

[KrazieDog]

I used to think that suicide was the weak way out.

And you were 100% right. It's submitting in the worst way to life being shitty. Toughing it out, no matter what it is, is the only strong way around it.

You are getting a degree in teaching, not being around would deprive 20-40 years worth of students of what you have to impart onto them. Thousand of kids over a lifetime depending on you to become what you can to help them become what they can.....it's a pretty courageous undertaking, so you are needed. Being there to teach them is the only option.

 

[Adam]

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I am really hoping everything is OK here.

 

[scissorman]

If you had any idea what is to come you would feel very, very stupid for posting what you did.

Your weakness is as visible as mankinds stupidity. If you are not willing to stand up and fight, do us all a favor, finish yourself off.

 

[drew70]

The thing to remember is that no matter how shitty the ordeal, it's only for a period of time. There's something better that will follow and it's worth waiting for.
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[The Sean Man]

Sounds like a cry for help, if you ask me....

Any psych majors in the house?

 

[Musicroxmysox]

xionking...I really hope everything is ok with you. I know sometimes life can be tough, I've been there myself, but suicide is never the answer. If you need someone to talk to or some help my box is always open.

 

[Bugman]

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I am really hoping everything is OK here.

What Adam said.A permanent solution to a temporary problem.

 

[naughtylucy]

Suicide isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of ill health.

People usually take their lives when their mental health is deteriorating, and mental health deterioration is something which we all experience.

People frequently become so unwell that recovery seems impossible, but it nearly always is. I'm not suggesting it's easy. Still, after becoming seriously unwell, people often gain more insight into what their needs are, and the warning signs of mental ill health.

I'd advise anyone who is suffering in this way to make contact with local mental health services. Even a brief contact can provide a bit of relief, and something to focus on.

 

[MrMacphisto]

Suicide makes sense when it comes to being stuck in a situation where you are bedridden and unable to do much other than suffer.

Although, most people considering suicide have yet to actually reach that point. What they lack is a frame of reference. If they understood true suffering, they wouldn't consider suicide until reaching that point (should that become applicable to their life).

But yeah man... Xion, sharing your troubles with people is a good first step to recovery. Although, it's much better to share this with your family or a psychologist as a first resort.

 

[vladtickleman22]

Suicide IS the weak way out. NOTHING is so bad it's worth taking the perminent solution to a temporary problem.

 

[MrMacphisto]

Suicide IS the weak way out. NOTHING is so bad it's worth taking the perminent solution to a temporary problem.

What if you had "locked-in syndrome?" Would you not want someone to kill you? I know I would...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Locked-In_syndrome

 

[locker669]

If everybody committed suicide whenever things went bad none of us would be here right now.

Maybe you should talk to someone in real life instead of saying things like this in a public forum.

 

[Morpheus72]

If everybody committed suicide whenever things went bad none of us would be here right now.

Maybe you should talk to someone in real life instead of saying things like this in a public forum.

But by saying it in a public forum, it gets the attention the poster wants to get.

Sort of like by saying, "I'm leaving the forum", waiting for responses begging for the poster to stay and then saying "okay, I'll stay".

Attention-seeking behavior. If you want help, I say ask for help. There are many folks here, including myself, who are happy to help. But don't couch it in the shock value of suicide.

Morph

 

[vladtickleman22]

I still stand by my statement. Temporary problem, what your talking about is a perminent problem. Something like that. Yes i would want someone to kill me.

 

[Leo tickles]

Xion, I haven't killed myself, neither should you.


You're one of the... 3 that like me here, shoot me a PM or I can PM you my cell and we'll come up with something that doesn't invovle me losing one of the only TMF members that support me.

 

[Cy/MiG]

I used to think that suicide was the weak way out. Now I can see why it becomes the only option.

Suicide is never the answer. If nothing else, join the Army (joking).

Bottom line, neck it out because as someone once told me that always stuck with me:

'This too shall pass'

 

[xionking]

Thanks for the kind words. All is OK at my end.

It's been one of the worst weeks ever.

I'd never harm myself, it was just an observation I was making where I can most definately relate to how one must feel in his/her darkest hour.

-Xionking

 

[Adam]

Glad to see you back, Xion. Trust me, I have been there. In fact, life isn't what I'd consider great for me right now. I generally don't talk about it on the forum, but you could say I've felt like I've been in a dark place for a while now. It is my nature to try to stay positive, but I understand how hard it can be and I hope that your troubles subside. I'm a PM away if you need to chat.

 

[DimpleToes]

if you ever need to talk ot have someone listen . I am here.. I know what it is like to feel helpless and want a way out.. but you still have something to do for your still around. Drop me a line.

HUGGGSSSSS/Lisa