Convincing Them

[xionking]

Hey pplz, a big hello from Melbourne, Australia.

First of all, this is my first post even though I've been a member of this community for geez...almost 6 years...back when this forum was under a different sponser or whatever, i dunno.

It's been an absolute pleasure to see how much the tickling community has opened up and how nice everyone is, and it makes me sorta regret that I haven't gotten more involved within the community itself. That Trivia would be good, but I dunno how the time difference would go down lol.

Anywayz, just a question on what tactics or moves you use in order to get that certain person to allow you to tie them down and tickle them (keeping in mind if they are not tickling enthusiasts or have no heard of the fetish before). I've used many tactics. I make up stories of how I came across a tickling site accidently and then ask the unsuspecting victim if she could handle being tied down and tickled. Other times, I take advantage of a drunken situation, or if I'm high with a girl...I'm almost guarenteed a decent chance to tickle her.

Anyhow, just wanted to know ur thoughts and how you might go about convincing that lucky person to let you tie them down and tickle them.

BTW, its hard in the Personals, so I'll just add it in here, if there's any ladies in Melbourne, Australia, get the hell in contact with me lol.

Cheers PPLZ!

 

[Myriads]

Hello xionking,

Welcome to the posting side of the forum. Glad that you de-lurked.

Myriads

 

[thelionroars]

Take progressive steps

Flirting a little first could get your prospect interested. Introduce one idea at a time in a teasing, descriptive way. Depending on reaction, bring it up again and ask for input. Move a little slow if the other person is unfamiliar/not experienced with what you're suggesting. Gain the person's interest and trust. Helpful if you're equally interested in that person's interests. Revealing yourself, your fantasies in a soft, flirtatious (not threatening) way can be a big turn on, but could backfire if you reveal too much too soon. Introduce one idea at a time. Maybe, "my fantasy starts...." then pick it up again at a later time. Let the other person get used to one idea, maybe even ask you what the rest of your fantasy might be. If put into action, proceed with the first idea you presented only, especially if you haven't mentioned the others. Adjust to the fact that bringing your entire fantasy to life may be a progression, where at each step--talking and acting--you pay attention to the other person's interest level, desires, needs, and reactions.

thelionroars (and sometimes purrs, alas though, in the U.S.)

 

[chrisheaven]

good to see you here

 

[Redmage]

I don't see any percentage in decieving someone I'm hoping to play with. That lacks dignity, at least IMO. I haven't dated anyone who wasn't kinky in a good many years, but when I did I was upfront about my interests, and left it to her to express an interest or not. If she seemed favorable but hesitant I would sometimes give my partner an opportunity to tie me first, so she could see how it worked. For what it's worth I've never date anyone who didn't try it when given the chance openly and honestly.