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Depressed?

I have just recently started counselling for a few things and by going there i have realised that i have got more issues than i thought i had 🙁 but i feel that this will be good for me and get me on track v soon....

in the mean time i wana share 2 feel good songs with everyone

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My best to you regarding counselling!!!!.
 
I just want to say that I have been feeling so happy this summer that I forget to take my Zoloft!!!!!! I take it when I remember like right now.
 
I just want to say that I have been feeling so happy this summer that I forget to take my Zoloft!!!!!! I take it when I remember like right now.

you Need to take it ASAP!!!
so you dont crash!! that would be very Bad!!

🙁
 
I haven't been back to this thread in a few months, and I want to clarify something I said.

T, by no means did I mean to make it sound like the things you are depressed about are small potatoes. I'm extremely sorry if that's the way it came out. I consider you to be a good friend, and, from our discussions since you've joined this forum, I know you've been through a lot. I also know that everyone can get depressed at times, over life's problems, because, to them, their problems are very serious.

My statement was more an.. I, statement, for myself. Before this March, I used to obsess and get depressed over things my best friend's mother was doing to sabatoge my friendship with him, over extremely nasty and evil comments my assistant makes, and other things. All I'm saying is, for myself, those things pale in comparison, to my mom being diagnosed with lung cancer. Being pissed at my best friend's mom because she is a vicious troublemaker, or disliking my assistant, isn't a life altering, life threatening situation, but my mom's cancer is.

Again, I apologize if my comments seemed insensitive. I know that everyone has legitimate problems that make them depressed. I did too, even before my mom was diagnosed with cancer.

Mitch

Don't worry about it. 🙂 I didn't misunderstand what you said. 🙂 ((hugs))

The only thing that bugs me is when people either don't understand what I say or don't care about what I have to say. Sometimes I think it's a bit of a waste for me to post anything because I could be posting something positive and I get jumped. Either that or ignored. I usually have something deep or insightful to say too, but I suppose I waste it by posting it here?

Bah. Whatever. That'll be different in the future. 🙂 As I'm sure you know. Other part in PM, this part here. :shrug:

I hope you're having a good day! 🙂
 
Someone tells me they're depressed I tell them to grow the fuck up, the world isn't always a great place.
That's my opinion on it, anything else is psychobabble BS in my view.

that crainial-rectal inversion must be hard to live with, huh?
 
T, I understand what you say, and very much care what you have to say.

My day was a bit.. scary at first, but turned out okay.

Mitch
 
wow

Have been looking at some of my past threads, and this is one of the ones that I just posted something and never looked back at it. I can't believe people are still posting on it, and I see that as a positive thing!

I'm really glad that some of you took something from this. As an update, between the original post and now, I changed almost everything in my life. Got a new house, changed my status in the military and my position in my job. I also got a puppy for my fiancee (and myself) to keep her company during my new schedule, and that turned out to be an amazing positive influence. As a result of being busy, I havent been to the psychologist's office in a few months. I am still unmedicated and not sure if that will change. I still don't like the idea of it, and the stigma attached to being medicated, not to mention that my lack of ability to feel strong emotions is actually a godsend in my line of work, and is admired by my peers. Either way I'm in a really good place right now.

I also wanted to address the posts some people left about being "whiney." Congratulations on posting something to get a rise out of people you view as "weaker." Shame on you for thriving on conflict. Although I will acknowledge that sometimes I feel people are just venting, and that's not clinical depression, that was not what I was addressing in my post.

I don't feel the need to go into detail, but my issue was a result of service overseas. My "depression" is not me sitting at home going "oh poor Johnny." PTSD, Clinical Depression, and Anxiety Disorders are some common results of the brain being stressed and under the constant bombardment of adrenaline. I am not sad about my life, I'm thankful for what I have. The whole point of the post was for people in the early stages of depression to realize that there is a time period to act before physical and more permanent damage occurs.

I hope everyone is doing well and taking care of themselves! Keep talking about it, and even if you arent depressed, go visit a well recommended Psychologist like you would have a dental checkup or health physical. It's amazing the things you can learn about yourself, and how your views on life can change when you know there is someone you'll be discussing it with on a regular or semi-regular basis. The power of having someone in your life whose sole purpose is to listen to you and give you feedback is different from just a trusted friend, and the feedback you can get is less likely to be biased. Can't stress enough how positive that can be.

Take Care
 
Have been looking at some of my past threads, and this is one of the ones that I just posted something and never looked back at it. I can't believe people are still posting on it, and I see that as a positive thing!

I'm really glad that some of you took something from this. As an update, between the original post and now, I changed almost everything in my life. Got a new house, changed my status in the military and my position in my job. I also got a puppy for my fiancee (and myself) to keep her company during my new schedule, and that turned out to be an amazing positive influence. As a result of being busy, I havent been to the psychologist's office in a few months. I am still unmedicated and not sure if that will change. I still don't like the idea of it, and the stigma attached to being medicated, not to mention that my lack of ability to feel strong emotions is actually a godsend in my line of work, and is admired by my peers. Either way I'm in a really good place right now.

I also wanted to address the posts some people left about being "whiney." Congratulations on posting something to get a rise out of people you view as "weaker." Shame on you for thriving on conflict. Although I will acknowledge that sometimes I feel people are just venting, and that's not clinical depression, that was not what I was addressing in my post.

I don't feel the need to go into detail, but my issue was a result of service overseas. My "depression" is not me sitting at home going "oh poor Johnny." PTSD, Clinical Depression, and Anxiety Disorders are some common results of the brain being stressed and under the constant bombardment of adrenaline. I am not sad about my life, I'm thankful for what I have. The whole point of the post was for people in the early stages of depression to realize that there is a time period to act before physical and more permanent damage occurs.

I hope everyone is doing well and taking care of themselves! Keep talking about it, and even if you arent depressed, go visit a well recommended Psychologist like you would have a dental checkup or health physical. It's amazing the things you can learn about yourself, and how your views on life can change when you know there is someone you'll be discussing it with on a regular or semi-regular basis. The power of having someone in your life whose sole purpose is to listen to you and give you feedback is different from just a trusted friend, and the feedback you can get is less likely to be biased. Can't stress enough how positive that can be.

Take Care

So true!!
 
Have been looking at some of my past threads, and this is one of the ones that I just posted something and never looked back at it. I can't believe people are still posting on it, and I see that as a positive thing!

I'm really glad that some of you took something from this. As an update, between the original post and now, I changed almost everything in my life. Got a new house, changed my status in the military and my position in my job. I also got a puppy for my fiancee (and myself) to keep her company during my new schedule, and that turned out to be an amazing positive influence. As a result of being busy, I havent been to the psychologist's office in a few months. I am still unmedicated and not sure if that will change. I still don't like the idea of it, and the stigma attached to being medicated, not to mention that my lack of ability to feel strong emotions is actually a godsend in my line of work, and is admired by my peers. Either way I'm in a really good place right now.

I also wanted to address the posts some people left about being "whiney." Congratulations on posting something to get a rise out of people you view as "weaker." Shame on you for thriving on conflict. Although I will acknowledge that sometimes I feel people are just venting, and that's not clinical depression, that was not what I was addressing in my post.

I don't feel the need to go into detail, but my issue was a result of service overseas. My "depression" is not me sitting at home going "oh poor Johnny." PTSD, Clinical Depression, and Anxiety Disorders are some common results of the brain being stressed and under the constant bombardment of adrenaline. I am not sad about my life, I'm thankful for what I have. The whole point of the post was for people in the early stages of depression to realize that there is a time period to act before physical and more permanent damage occurs.

I hope everyone is doing well and taking care of themselves! Keep talking about it, and even if you arent depressed, go visit a well recommended Psychologist like you would have a dental checkup or health physical. It's amazing the things you can learn about yourself, and how your views on life can change when you know there is someone you'll be discussing it with on a regular or semi-regular basis. The power of having someone in your life whose sole purpose is to listen to you and give you feedback is different from just a trusted friend, and the feedback you can get is less likely to be biased. Can't stress enough how positive that can be.

Take Care

Thank you for starting the thread. It made me go back to a place that was a hard place to be in and it made me see how far I came and how much I appreciate life now.
May all who have dealt with this in the past have the courage and sence of self worth to get themselves help and start feeling better.
 
if you remember the meds your ok if you skip or miss a does a moody ]Crash will happin!

It happened to me a few years back. I stopped the meds and I was feeling good then I had a major crash.
Your doctor will ween you off them as time goes by. Also make sure you have a blood test every few months to make sure your body is reacting properly to the meds. I was on Paxil and I it was giving me an oveactive liver. My liver enzymes were off the charts and as a result my liver was not working properly. I gained weight and was constantly tiered. I though it was from the depreshion, turned out it was from the meds acting as a poision inside of me. I got on another medication and everything was fine. Soon after I was weened off a little at a time to a point I did not need them.
 
Hydration seems to affect mood. I.E. never allow yourself to get noticeably thirsty. Electrolyte beverages are your friend in nastily hot weather.

All those of you having a rough day - keep on keepin' on. I know from whence you speak.
 
what the hell is it with this year!??.
Sorry i got some bad news personal!!
what a year!!! 🙁!!.
 
That was my point in some of the discussions in other threads: Where are the happy people?....Show me one!!!
 
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