Despising Someone So Much.. You Can't Even Say Their Name..

[tequila!]

Something happens with my father, I will pm the friends on the forum, who truly give a shit about me, and my situation with him, and keep the rest to myself.

Five bucks says you won't.

 

[Fire_Sprite]

No! No! No!

Sorry this has to stop and logic has to come into play at some point in time.

Anytime someone doesn't absolutely agree to the letter of what you say you accuse them of "attacking" you.

Anytime someone doesn't express sorrow for you and your situation you accuse them of "attacking" you.

You play the victim so much on this board you should get an Oscar, Emmy, Tony, and every other award known to man for Best Performance in a Drama.

You refuse to "discuss" any topic you post because:

1. a discussion would exhibit and exchange of ideals and thoughts in the hopes of coming to a solution of a problem or situation

and


2. every single thread and post for that manner is a veiled attempt for you to complain about your father followed by you "pimping" your mother's bad health in order to garner support.


I, for one, have no sympathy for you because frankly you're not worth it. You make no efforts it seems to deal with any of the many issues you have, you much rather post on a freaking FETISH forum about personal issues ON ANY TOPIC AT HAND mind you, instead of growing up and trying to make some lemonade from the lemons.

But hey, whatever floats your boat "HIM"

 

[Mitchell]

That's fine, storm. I have no sympathy for you, either, and know what? I'd rather be me, instead of you. At least I dont resort to attacks in every post I make.

For the record, it is not "agree". It is "Attack".

Here's the difference:

John Smith posts something like "Mitch, I dont agree with your statement about your father. It's counterproductive to keep going on about him. Try to focus on positive aspects of your life,. and not him." THAT is "Discussion".

You, and Banshee, are "attack", which is this:

Banshee: "Whining about your father".

Storm: "You play the victim so much you should get an Oscar, Emmy, etc for your performance".

The key here: The TOPIC is not discussed, I, THE POSTER, is attacked.

I will forever believe, from now, until the day I'm no longer here, that there are people on this forum who come to this place solely to attack others. There are some very good people on this forum, and there are others, who are nothing more than attackers.

How about, instead of "attacking", it was presented in a constructive way, something like "Mitch, the best thing to do is to try and focus on positives in your life, and not on your father, who has been horrible.". Or... Why do you feel this way, Mitch? Let's have an intelligent discussion about it.

None of those things were done, but no matter.

That's it. I'm done. Continue to attack. It's so ridiculous, that it's almost comical.

Mitch

Something else: kis, a good friend of mine, has told me, sternly, on several occasions, not to get myself involved in situations like this. She clearly didn't agree with HOW I handled it, but she presented her point constructively, and with good intent, which is far more honorable then when someone says "You whine", or "You play the victim so much you should get an Oscar, Emmy, etc".

 

[Speedbump]

At this point, I believe Mitchell is giving the supposed trolls a run for their money by beating them at their own game.

 

[storm7400]

That's fine, storm. I have no sympathy for you, either, and know what? I'd rather be me, instead of you. At least I dont resort to attacks in every post I make.

For the record, it is not "agree". It is "Attack".

Here's the difference:

John Smith posts something like "Mitch, I dont agree with your statement about your father. It's counterproductive to keep going on about him. Try to focus on positive aspects of your life,. and not him." THAT is "Discussion".

You, and Banshee, are "attack" which is this:

Banshee: "Whining about your father".

Storm: "You play the victim so much you should get an Oscar, Emmy, etc for your performance".

The key here: The TOPIC is not discussed, I THE POSTER, is attacked.

I will forever believe, from now, until the day I'm no longer here, that there are people on this forum who come to this place solely to attack others. There are some very good people on this forum, and there are others, who are nothing more than attackers.

How about, instead of "attacking", it was presented in a constructive way, something like "Mitch, the best thing to do is to try and focus on positives in your life, and not on your father, who has been horrible.". Or... Why do you feel this way, Mitch? Let's have an intelligent discussion about it.

None of those things were done, but no matter.

That's it. I'm done. Continue to attack. It's so ridiculous, that it's almost comical.

Mitch

Something else: kis, a good friend of mine, has told me, sternly, on several occasions, not to get myself involved in situations like this. She clearly didn't agree with HOW I handled it, but she presented her point constructively, and with good intent, which is far more honorable then when someone says "You whine", or "You play the victim so much you should get an Oscar, Emmy, etc".

Because you do this in almost every thread man. You post something, insert whatever personal family situation, then spend the rest of the thread yelling at everyone for "attacking" you. Thats why I say you play the victim because well you DO.


Case in point of this thread, I didn't even get into all the personal stuff you posted in the OP, instead I gave you my insight on the "topic" at hand. Actually a few people actually gave you their replies on the "Topic" , but you only replied in order to create drama by hurling insults at people. You don't post threads in order to promote a discussion, you pick a thought, cloud it with your personal situation, then await the onslaught all the while waiting to respond with what I can only assume is your own sense of moral supremacy, and that must be how you deal with stress and/or get your jollies.

 

[Mitchell]

storm, what you are saying is an absolute joke, and completely not how it is.

The last time I discussed a personal family situation was two months ago. Your assertion that I do it in "every thread", is again, an extreme exaggaration. I did it in two threads this year, that I can recall.

I "hurl insults" at people. Again, your statement is outrageous, but Banshee's reply of "You whine about your father" isn't an insult?!

Never mind. Not worth arguing about. No matter what I say, you'll just post your insults anyway, so I might as well not say anything at all.

Mitch

 

[Fire_Sprite]

 

[Speedbump]

I agree with storm. I said it earlier, that in some way, Mitchell must like the drama, because he's the one keeping it going.

 

[Korastus]

This is beyond absurd. 🙄

 

[Fire_Sprite]

In the words of a great philospher:

All I have to say about some of the comments in this thread is this... Un-Fucking-Real.

 

[storm7400]

storm, what you are saying is an absolute joke, and completely not how it is.

The last time I discussed a personal family situation was two months ago. Your assertion that I do it in "every thread", is again, an extreme exaggaration. I did it in two threads this year, that I can recall.

I "hurl insults" at people. Again, your statement is outrageous, but Banshee's reply of "You whine about your father" isn't an insult.

Never mind. Not worth arguing about. No matter what I say, you'll just post your insults anyway, so I might as well not say anything at all.

Mitch

What color is the sky in your world?

 

[Mitchell]

Speed, if I'm the one "keeping it going", then how come I have 18 posts in this thread, to everyone else's 67? Also, how come five people, who I have on ignore, post replies, after my last thing that I post. Clearly, you all are "keeping it going", because it gives you more space to post attacks.

This whole thread is unreal. I post an ill advised rant about my father, after he truly fucked me over, and I get attacked.

I need to expect that, no matter what I post, even if heaven forbid it is a life or death situation, I will just get attacked, so the only recourse is not to post.

This thread, like others, will die out in a day or two.

Mitch

 

[Speedbump]

Speed, if I'm the one "keeping it going", then how come I have 18 posts in this thread, to everyone else's 67? Also, how come five people, who I have on ignore, post replies, after my last thing that I post. Clearly, you all are "keeping it going", because it gives you more space to post attacks.

This whole thread is unreal. I post an ill advised rant about my father, after he truly fucked me over, and I get attacked.

I need to expect that, no matter what I post, even if heaven forbid it is a life or death situation, I will just get attacked, so the only recourse is not to post.

This thread, like others, will die out in a day or two.

Mitch

Thanks for keeping the thread alive, buddy. I can only follow in your footsteps.

 

[storm7400]

Speed, if I'm the one "keeping it going", then how come I have 18 posts in this thread, to everyone else's 67? Also, how come five people, who I have on ignore, post replies, after my last thing that I post. Clearly, you all are "keeping it going", because it gives you more space to post attacks.

This whole thread is unreal. I post an ill advised rant about my father, after he truly fucked me over, and I get attacked.

I need to expect that, no matter what I post, even if heaven forbid it is a life or death situation, I will just get attacked, so the only recourse is not to post.

This thread, like others, will die out in a day or two.

Mitch

So this now makes the "official" count of 3 threads in 2010 on that subject correct?

 

[storm7400]

I agree with storm. I said it earlier, that in some way, Mitchell must like the drama, because he's the one keeping it going.

That could cost you in final jeopardy..

 

[TropicThunder]

Okay.

Anyone who posts after me is contributing to the drama.

Thread. Die.

 

[Smuggy Bear]

Awww MAN!!! Did I miss a ridiculous fight!?

*pouts*

 

[Babbles]

All that time, why not just post a constructive reaction?

Half of page 5 & most if not all of 6 & 7 ---- and I'm sure there's more, same shit, same shitters --- The real "drama" here is from the 12-15 yr olds who can't control the knee-jerk Troll Response.

You don't like this thread? ---- You have no valid argument, you saw the subject written out ----- You just posted to put someone down, that's really sad. 🙁

POST IF YOU'RE CONTRIBUTING TO THE DISCUSSION --- I have a clarification so I have a reason to be here, unlike too many....🙄 aside from being Cptn. Obvious.

I missed some of the "subtlety" in the arguments that were initially presented.... kinda....

No one cares if you disagree ---- obviously you just don't need to go out of your way to offend.

No one can judge someone else's response to a situation or another person unless you're in their shoes, yada yada ---- but some people are harassed or abused to the point that
just the name triggers anger or something worse ---

Who needs that aggravation? I know people who say "your father" or "your friend" rather than mention a name, obviously it seems silly to you if you don't have that sort of aggravation or abuse in your history. If you do, you have some idea --- Either way ---- doesn't harm you.

If at least three pages can be cleaned, this is a valid thread.
You don't like it ---- go someplace else. Like maybe Chuck E. Cheese's.

 

[Dr. Vollin]

I've tried to stay away from threads like this, but it is becoming a bit much - so I have to comment here.

Speed, if I'm the one "keeping it going", then how come I have 18 posts in this thread, to everyone else's 67?

Ask yourself this; has anyone else in this thread made 18 posts?

Also, how come five people, who I have on ignore, post replies, after my last thing that I post. Clearly, you all are "keeping it going", because it gives you more space to post attacks.

So responding to what you call attacks (from people you claim to have on ignore, yet) doesn't constitute "keeping it going"? It does take two, you know.

I need to expect that, no matter what I post, even if heaven forbid it is a life or death situation, I will just get attacked, so the only recourse is not to post.

And yet you won't follow that recourse; nobody, including you, believes you'll stop posting. As Korastus said earlier, this is beyond absurd.

This thread, like others, will die out in a day or two.

I'm certainly not going to keep it alive after this.

 

[Babbles]

Well that's a relief. Let's try the topic at hand for a change.

And since this was just bumped anyway I'll add ---

....none of that had anything to do with the topic of the thread.

What is wrong with you people? That's not even a troll, to my knowledge, but he references one, that was just unnecessary.

If people would bother to read & respond to the topic in a mature manner, this thread would be half the size.

This is an unusual question, not the typical "how many here like feet?" that so many complain about. 🙄
Like anything else ----- you don't like it, great, go pee in someone else's sandbox.

Just like the word "tickle" will drive you nuts, you can't say it, perhaps.... not too easily.....

well, the same principle may apply, though in a negative direction, to the name of a person who's antagonized someone else severely.

 

[Bohemianne]

What is wrong with you people?

This is a non-attack reply.

Nothing is wrong. This is a free site. People are exercising their full-blast democracy and their priceless internet rights to post. All we have to do is accept that living reality.

There will be no post in a non-existing thread.
The end.

 

[Mephistopheles]

This is a non-attack reply.

Nothing is wrong. This is a free site. People are exercising their full-blast democracy and their priceless internet rights to post. All we have to do is accept that living reality.

There will be no post in a non-existing thread.
The end.

I still find it hard to understand why people even bother posting such immense loads off stuff to blast somebody they don't even know. Even if you type fast it's still quite a bit of time you're investing in something so utterly pointless.

 

[Bohemianne]

I still find it hard to understand why people even bother posting such immense loads off stuff to blast somebody they don't even know. Even if you type fast it's still quite a bit of time you're investing in something so utterly pointless.

Call it diversity. We really don't know the strangers behind the computer screens - their ultimate motives and how their thoughts run.

I trust that we have house rules. By the fact that this thread is not closed, it means, no GR violation has been committed yet. [Maybe].

 

[Mephistopheles]

Call it diversity. We really don't know the strangers behind the computer screens - their ultimate motives and and how their thoughts run.

I trust that we have house rules. By the fact that this thread is not closed, it means, no GR violation has been committed yet. [Maybe].

Yes, but that still means that there's a large group of people around here who either do not know how to prioritize or have nothing better to do, both of which are sad realizations.

 

[Bohemianne]

Yes, but that still means that there's a large group of people around here who either do not know how to prioritize or have nothing better to do, both of which are sad realizations.

What can we really get from GD if we need life help? Seriously... If one can't really get what he/she exactly wants from a conversation, then it is time to use money and hire a paid listener.