Dislike of ones feet

[No_Style]

hello!

this is quite a weird topic...but here it goes.

I'm a lover of tickling. I love being tickled everywhere..BUT...I have a huge insecurity of my feet.

being a tall girl, I have big-ish feet...9-91/2. When I was younger it always embarassed me having larger feet than most of my peers...and I still feel embarassed today.

What i'm getting at is, has anyone had this problem, and what did they do to over come it?

 

[Sandrock74]

What's wrong with size 9-9.5 feet? That's the same size as Kate Beckinsale, Jennifer Garner, and Scarlett Johansson just to name a few and youd be hard pressed to find many who would consider them "odd" because of it. If you're tall, you shouldn't have tiny feet anyway. Enjoy what you've got! That's a good size foot to tickle 🙂

 

[rhiannon]

What i'm getting at is, has anyone had this problem, and what did they do to over come it?

I pretty much think no part of me is especially attractive, but the feedback I'm getting tells me that other people disagree. So - I settled to think I'm just overly critical with myself. 🙂

 

[No_Style]

thanks for your comment! due to a lot of embarassing times in my childhood with having larger feet it was always a thing in the back of my mind..I'm trying to accept it, now that i'm an adult and fully into the tickling world 🙂

 

[No_Style]

I pretty much think no part of me is especially attractive, but the feedback I'm getting tells me that other people disagree. So - I settled to think I'm just overly critical with myself.

I believe that too....just need to get into that frame of mind

 

[rhiannon]

I believe that too....just need to get into that frame of mind

I think it's a female thing....and seriously, the girls I've met who thought they looked great really didn't.

 

[Wildtime]

Having big feet is not embarrassing! They offer more surface area to tickle; it's easier to sneak one's fingers in between and under the toes; plus, they look long and elegant, not short and stubby. It sounds like you have beautiful feet, and there are probably several foot fetish aficionados who would agree, so the only problem is with how you perceive your feet.

 

[milagros317]

If you're tall, you shouldn't have tiny feet anyway.

Exactly this. Goddess Shelly wears either size 8.5 or 9 depending on the brand of shoe. Her feet are very lovely (see below). When she remarked that her feet are too large, I told her this:

"If a woman of your height had dainty little feet, then every time she tried to stand up she would fall over."

 

[maniactickler]

Nostyle, perhaps i should inspect your feet close up to give a good analysis on them.

 

[Coda]

I don't think you're alone in being insecure about that. As people are pointing out, some guys (and girls) especially like it.

 

[ticklishdanny]

you know what they say about big feet.... MORE TO TICKLE 🙂

 

[robmic]

One thing I haven't seen mentioned here is how well your feet are cared for. To me, that would matter more than how "big" they are. If you take good care of your feet, then they could be 12 or 13 and they would still be attractive.

 

[magic fingers]

hello!

this is quite a weird topic...but here it goes.

I'm a lover of tickling. I love being tickled everywhere..BUT...I have a huge insecurity of my feet.



being a tall girl, I have big-ish feet...9-91/2. When I was younger it always embarassed me having larger feet than most of my peers...and I still feel embarassed today.

What i'm getting at is, has anyone had this problem, and what did they do to over come it?

One thing I've learned about women is most of them are insecure about at least one part of their body.
9-9 1/2 size feet sound proportionately correct for a tall girl like yourself, even a little on the small side. I worked w/a tall girl who had size 9 feet and they were absolutely gorgeous! I'm sure yours are fine

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Big feet doesn't bother me..unticklish feet do.

 

[Mane'o]

As you can see No_Style, among this admittedly biased population, your feet are,if anything, an attractive physical asset to bare with pride. In your real life, I'm sure there are any number of men, or women depending on your preference, who will be drawn to your size 9.5's like moths to a light.

 

[Myriads]

The main issue here is what is in No Styles head, rather then what might be coming from outside.

She formed an opinion about herself, as she grew up that in regards to her feet was one of insecurity of herself in comparison to others. Not an uncommon thing for a young woman who is maturing to do. feeling different is always hard, and feeling you look different is a hurdle that is hard to leap in ones teens.

This has left a script running in her mind that whispers to her whenever she is faced with others seeing her feet. How she looks now, or how others react (in a positive way) often does nothing to stop the script.

The basic way to overcome this is to introduce a new script into ones mind. As hokey as it sounds, telling one self in an affirmation like way that one knows others find your feet attractive, and in fact desire them, is one of the first steps that will help do this. Scripts are habits, and its rare to simply stop them, it's very common to REPLACE them. So by taking some time to build a new positive script you can start to quiet the whispers of the past.

Will it be uncomfortable at times? Yes. But this is the sort of exercise that once was called 'accepting oneself' or 'claiming ones body' back in the 70's and 80's. It's your fear of how people will react, rather then the reality of what happens in 99% of all cases, that you are facing. It will fade.

And as you do accept the sort of posts that are in this thread that vocally show that a lot of guys like what you have at the ends of your legs will start to have an impact in the positive way.

Think of it as exercise for you self image. No fun, it makes one a bit sore, but in the long term you are better for it.

Myriads

 

[MrTicklefeet]

Check out some of the lovely gals at Longtoes.com
So many lovely long feet I'd love to press my face into, yum.

 

[nenezinho]

It really isnt about size....never was 🙂

You know, you will get people who enjoy smaller sizes, you will get people who enjoy bigger sizes, and you will get people who do not really care about size. I have no idea what the numbers will be but whatever you feet´s size you will never be able to please all. The good news is you will be able to please A LOT.

For me, i dont care about size. Not at all!!! Specially feet size. I have to be honest and say that sometimes i feel myself intimidated by tall women in general lol but that´s my thing 😛 Funny enough, I was never turned off by big feet, never 🙂 And i do have a feet fetish also. For me I love soft and sensitive skin. I love light tickling so if that works really well i will say it like others: "the bigger they are the more we have to tickle!"

 

[Tickled Jeans]

Post a picture of your feet and I'm sure you'll be surprised

 

[nice.1]

Post a picture of your feet and I'm sure you'll be surprised

I was gonna suggest this if you want a real opinion show your feet and all you will get is positive responses. I'm just shocked a girl suggested it first lol. My girlfriend is fairly short and she has size 9 feet and I luv them there gorgeous and ticklish size 9 is nothing to be selfconcious about

 

[dashboard]

Speaking for myself personally, I've always thought that big feet were attractive. It's one of the reasons why I've always found myself attracted to taller/bigger girls (which I suppose is odd to others because I'm 5'7 and pretty slender), because they generally have big or at least decent-sized feet.

 

[No_Style]

thank you for all the positivity! 🙂 hearing other people tell me it's not that strange is very relieving...and makes me want to calm my mind about it. I'm glad I was able to come forward about my insecurity and get such helpful feedback from some extremly insightful people.

I won't post any pictures at this time...because I already believe in what everyone has been saying...

again thank you for the advice, expeshally myriads who touched on a lot of key things 🙂