do most ppl here find it weird for a girl to be an extreme ler?

[Lee Lerish]

u want me to make a note somewhere to contact you specifically if for some reason in the future I somehow change and suddenly wanna do bondage on someone and that someone is a guy I don’t even know who commented on one of my posts?

I'll make a note of that...and we already know each other too! 😉🤣

 

[GigglyGothGrrl]

I don't think it should be considered "weird" or "unusual" at all that a woman desires to be a 'ler and only a 'ler. When I was younger I used to think that way, but meditating on it and going through some serious self reflection I found that way of thinking was conditioned into me by a theocratic system designed to put people in labels. That "women were supposed to be obedient and submissive" and "men were supposed to be in control and dominate" and anything that falls outside of that is "unusual, weird, and abnormal"

It's BS. Propaganda designed to make us feel ashamed for being human. One of my favorite psycho-analysts Carl Jung posited an theory of the Anima/Animus, that within everyone's mind there exists a feminine aspect (the Anima) and a masculine aspect (the Animus), and that a great deal of mental issues are caused by living in a society that encourages the development of one through the repression of the other. When both are in harmony, a person then discovers who they truly are and can begin to live an authentic life.

I don't think you're weird at all. You're confident in who you are and you are living in authenticity. Who cares what anyone else thinks, if it's who you are then you're right and the rest of the world can be wrong. You're awesome for being you!

 

[natscott6282]

I don't think it should be considered "weird" or "unusual" at all that a woman desires to be a 'ler and only a 'ler. When I was younger…

It's BS. Propaganda designed to make us feel ashamed for being human. One of my favorite psycho-analysts Carl Jung posited…

oh wowwww that sooo makes sense and makes you think! I just looked up Carl Jung and I never hear of him but he’s just as famous or more than Freud! makes me realize how much more theres to learn about the psychology of it and I thought I already knew loads (although mainly the psychology of the male attitude towards their own ticklishness )

thankyou loads @GigglyGothGrrl x

 

[GigglyGothGrrl]

oh wowwww that sooo makes sense and makes you think! I just looked up Carl Jung and I never hear of him but he’s just as famous or more than Freud! makes me realize how much more theres to learn about the psychology of it and I thought I already knew loads (although mainly the psychology of the male attitude towards their own ticklishness )

thankyou loads @GigglyGothGrrl x

No problem! (^-^) I love studying different facets of reality, and psychology is especially interesting because it's the way the mind interprets reality. Jung was a colleague of Freud, but I think Jung was in the beginning of his career when Freud was already well established. I'm happy I was able to give you a new interest!

 

[hiphophooray4]

u want me to make a note somewhere to contact you specifically if for some reason in the future I somehow change and suddenly wanna do bondage on someone and that someone is a guy I don’t even know who commented on one of my posts?

That's about what I was thinking as well lol smh

 

[fgarvin6969]

Just saw this post and you know I think you're an amazing person. There is absolutely nothing weird about being a female ler.
I think its fun, and as a fellow ler, I appreciate how really good at it you are.

 

[natscott6282]

Just saw this post and you know I think you're an amazing person. There is absolutely nothing weird about being a female ler.
I think its fun, and as a fellow ler, I appreciate how really good at it you are.

awww thankyou sooo much for saying that especially the last bit as honestly the effort and attention I put into it for so many years is a lot ,
what I could never do before I met @aberdeen was put it in to words and he gave me that confidence (which is still bit near perfect but way better) and also he is the one who got me posting and wrote the stories with me

I know I am not the only one who misses him

 

[stanjackc]

I think is normal for a woman to be an extreme tickler. Especially if she is a sadist i believe she will see the tickling as a method of torture. However many women turn to be more soft tickler than men. They do not use extreme methods like tools but only their hands. Also men i believe are more ticklish.

 

[eddyderf]

I'm vastly more ticklish than most women I know, and certainly more so than most women who've tickled me, as reflected in my perfect record of tickle-fight losses. On the other hand, women who tickle me often act surprised that I'm as ticklish as I am, so that suggests the perception that men are supposed to be less ticklish on average continues to persist.

Or maybe it is the case that although in the general population men are generally less ticklish than women, the kind of man who will allow himself to be tickled by a women will tend to be more ticklish than the average man (as well as the average woman).

 

[eddyderf]

cause I get loadsa DMs from ppl saying they are shocked I’m a ler and trying to force me to rp with them and tell them what I would do (and I dont rp or act like a slave to guys demanding I do it)

but anyway, I always thought it was normal to be a ler as a female 😂

"weird" just like a male nurse is "weird". Nothing wrong or weird with it, it's just that most men would prefer to have a cute nurse tend to them, and a male nurse way feel weird compared to that expectation/fantasy. I hope this analogy works. Besides, I seriously doubt that ruthless ticklers like Tasha and Sasha Foxxx (when they were allowed to) looked weird to anyone in this community. It is the extreme male ticklers who got a lot of flack around here, not the female ones.

 

[LerLee]

A female ler is not weird at all. I’ve dated many gals that like to tickle. Some have tickled me before I tickle them while others have continued to tickle me after I have tickled them.

 

[TicklerKoops]

I connected with a member on here that acted like she was a lee that maybe doubled as a switch, but then we got together, and she would rope tie me to a bed, tickle me to death and edged the hell out of me. So I was taken aback by the switch up lmao

But I don't think it's not that uncommon. I especially find it more common for girls of smaller frames, maybe a Napoleon complex where they see someone twice their size and they are determined to make them submit.

 

[Lee Lerish]

I connected with a member on here that acted like she was a lee that maybe doubled as a switch, but then we got together, and she would rope tie me to a bed, tickle me to death and edged the hell out of me. So I was taken aback by the switch up lmao

But I don't think it's not that uncommon. I especially find it more common for girls of smaller frames, maybe a Napoleon complex where they see someone twice their size and they are determined to make them submit.

That's nice to know, because I'd like to submit to someone like that...natscott, or anyone else!

 

[hiphophooray4]

Or maybe it is the case that although in the general population men are generally less ticklish than women, the kind of man who will allow himself to be tickled by a women will tend to be more ticklish than the average man (as well as the average woman).

Now that's a thought worth getting behind, or at least beside of my friend

 

[fgarvin6969]

awww thankyou sooo much for saying that especially the last bit as honestly the effort and attention I put into it for so many years is a lot ,
what I could never do before I met @aberdeen was put it in to words and he gave me that confidence (which is still bit near perfect but way better) and also he is the one who got me posting and wrote the stories with me

I know I am not the only one who misses him

You are not the only one.

 

[deex]

Not weird at all, tickle away lol

 

[Ticklee165]

cause I get loadsa DMs from ppl saying they are shocked I’m a ler and trying to force me to rp with them and tell them what I would do (and I dont rp or act like a slave to guys demanding I do it)

but anyway, I always thought it was normal to be a ler as a female 😂

Not shocked, but you’re definitely hard to find for us lees

 

[natscott6282]

Not shocked, but you’re definitely hard to find for us lees

Sorry about that
have u always been a Lee tho?

 

[Ticklee165]

Sorry about that
have u always been a Lee tho?

Yes always

 

[natscott6282]

Yes always

wowww

 

[Lee Lerish]

https://itapipo.ca/tgirl

Oh no, spam again, and on several posts too.