I have tried the escort thing a few times. One lady I met was not as attractive as she looked on her picture but she did have super ticklish feet. I sked her back another time and set up a scenerio which we would role play a fantasy for me. It was harmless so she was ok with it. We met at a cheap motel when she came to my room I paid her then I asked where she hid the treasure map. I explained that I had ways of making her talk since she refused to to tell me. I pretended to tie her up on the rack the bed, then I slowly removed her shoes and socks. I gave her one more chance she refused to tell me, very well suffer the consequences KOOTCHIE KOOTCHIE KOO! I began to tickle the soles of her feet she laughed and thrashed on the bed. The session lasted an hour and was fun.
...You would think that a girl who is used to having to sleep with all these skeezy guys for money would be happy to get her normal fee just for tickling. But at the same time I really think that a lot of girls are weirded out by fetishes. ...
It's more about the sleaze factor, having to deal with dodgy characters. Even if there were no sleaze factor, it's all just too damn sad for me to even think about.
Even if there were no sleaze factor, it's all just too damn sad for me to even think about.
There's very little sleaze factor as long as you aren't dealing with the stereotypical crack *****. The escorts who I've met at the local strip club are beautiful women. Several have suggested that I purchase their services. I haven't done so yet, not because I think it's sleazy, which I don't, and not because I think it's immoral, because as a nihilist, I don't really believe in morality. I simply haven't worked up the guts to call an escort and pay for sex yet. I realize this is completely psychological and due to social conditioning more than anything. Also I'm a tad worried about STDs, even though I suspect that with a condom that will almost be a non-issue.
But as far as it being sad to pay for sex, I really don't think it's sad at all. Most sex acts take place within the context of some other type of relationship than just a sexual relationship. Outside of drunken frat parties, very few heterosexual couples are hooking up for one night stands, with the two content never to see each other again. So you either pay for sex with a romantic relationship, or you pay for sex with a commercial relationship. There's no shame in choosing the latter. I know of one professionally successful man who ONLY has sex with escorts, because he doesn't want to get married, doesn't want kids or a family, and doesn't want the time and financial constraints of a relationship. Sort of like Richard Gere from Pretty Woman, though not nearly as cool as him. LOL.
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Are you familiar with, Nietzsche? 😛
Not to move off-topic... I agree with your valuations.
Kittentoes and I are good friends with a very beautiful girl now aged 24 who became an upmarket escort (legal here) some time after we met her and is funding her university degree on the horizontal. And she told us something very amusing.
She and a colleague from her agency had an appointment to meet two clients at an upper-midrange hotel, so they dressed respectably and mingled in the bar while waiting for their 'dates' to come down. It was Christmas time, and the place was full of women dressed for the holiday season. English women tend to have a more flamboyant dress sense (lower necklines and heavier makeup) than American women, (example below of ordinary English girls on a night out)
There's very little sleaze factor as long as you aren't dealing with the stereotypical crack *****.
...[A]s a nihilist, I don't really believe in morality.
I simply haven't worked up the guts to call an escort and pay for sex yet. I realize this is completely psychological and due to social conditioning more than anything.
Also I'm a tad worried about STDs, even though I suspect that with a condom that will almost be a non-issue.
But as far as it being sad to pay for sex, I really don't think it's sad at all. Most sex acts take place within the context of some other type of relationship than just a sexual relationship. Outside of drunken frat parties, very few heterosexual couples are hooking up for one night stands, with the two content never to see each other again.
I know of one professionally successful man who ONLY has sex with escorts, because he doesn't want to get married, doesn't want kids or a family, and doesn't want the time and financial constraints of a relationship. Sort of like Richard Gere from Pretty Woman, though not nearly as cool as him. LOL.
Ive probably done at least 50 sessions with escorts. most good, some crappy.
...and the two hookers were the most conservatively dressed females in the place.
When our friend described the situation, she giggled, "We were the only two girls there who didn't look like prostitutes. So that's the way you can tell an upmarket *****. She's the one who you'd think is an executive secretary".
Hmm, that isn't what I've heard!

I've had more luck w/strippers because they're so willing to have their feet rubbed after torturing their tootsies wearing high heels all night. At that point, it's easy to start tickling, and most strippers I've encountered have hyper ticklish feet.