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Ever seen your partner tickled by another person?

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Hi all

This is one of the questions that got me to sign up here in the first place after I saw my girlfriend get tickled briefly at a party. I always knew I liked tickling her and was excited by tickling in general but didn't suspect I'd like seeing someone else do it to her. It was a weird mix of jealouy and excitement at first and then mostly excitement. I put this in an earlier thread here and in True Tickling Stories if you want to look it up.

Has anyone else here had that experience? How did you feel about it and was it spur of the moment or maybe there was a bit more of a set up? How far did it go too?

I am happy to receive private notes too if people don't want to say in the main forum.

Thanks.
 
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Well, as a male lee, I always have enjoyed tickling my ex's, but only became very mildly bothered when other males would tickle them--just not a jealous person. However, I did have an ex who loved to tickle me, and when she saw a few girls she wasn't familiar with tickle me, she damn near lost it. Turned into this big dramatic thing (which of course was an enormous waste of time, and was one of many incidents that led to our ending).

So who knows, guess everyone just handles that kind of thing different, but would guess a more jealous personality type would be bothered by it more.
 
I dont think it would bother me at all as long as it stays as tickling and nothing more
 
Cheers lads. Yep, it doesn't seem to cut both ways. I don't think many girls would want to see their boyfriend or husband tickled by another girl. I am cool with it though provided there are lines that aren't crossed of course.

All I've seen really is some standing tickling and some tickle teasing type stuff. Apart from when we first me but I wasn't going out with her at the time so I don't count that.

Anyone else been through this or been curious about it?
 
I would not be cool with seeing my girlfriend or wife tickled by another guy.
 
I'd be cool with it if I know the person really well, and as long as boundaries are respected. Having been on the ler end myself with the lee's husband watching, it would be totally wrong of me to get pissed if I was in the husband's shoes.
 
I'm not possessive, but my belief is that if the girl's either my gf or wife, then the only guy that should be putting his fingers on various part of her body is me.
 
My partner doesn't much care to be tickled, so I don't really tickle her much. So I think it's great when somebody else does, so I can see her get tickled and not get yelled at :lol:
 
ndj101982 said:
I'm not possessive, but my belief is that if the girl's either my gf or wife, then the only guy that should be putting his fingers on various part of her body is me.
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I understand where you're coming from. Now that you mention it, there are certain parts I'd have a problem with someone else touching, but all that goes with the boundaries I mentioned earlier.
 
ShadowKat said:
I understand where you're coming from. Now that you mention it, there are certain parts I'd have a problem with someone else touching, but all that goes with the boundaries I mentioned earlier.
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The way I see it is, a guy tickles a girl when he is flirting with her. Normally a guy will tickle a girl flirtatiously, hinting that he has a crush on her. If a guy I knew, or didn't know, tickled my gf, I'd look at that as if he's flirting with her. Obviously if you're talking about going to a tmf gathering, that is a different story to an extent. However, in general, if a guy tickled my gf I'd be pissed because he's not respecting that she is with another guy and flirty tickling is bf territory.
 
I'm cool with it! Like you, at first I thought that I would feel weird seeing him tickling or being tickled by someone else, but it was kinda cute, and it didn't bother me at all. 😀 I suspect at the gathering, he is going to tickle someone, and I would LOVE to team up with another gal and get some revenge on him. 🙂

(Unless I have a personal problem with the person, which barely ever happens. Only happened once)
 
Good stuff here people. So it seems for most people, as long as boundaries are respected then most of us don't mind seeing someone else tickle our partners and in some cases we can quite enjoy seeing it happen.

I suppose one person's idea of boundaries can be a lot different then another person's. Good discussion, cheers to all so far for taking part.
 
It's funny, I've thought about this long and hard for a long time before I happened upon this thread, and as far as I can figure there's nothing wrong or unethical per-se about it (Because 999,999 times out of a million the person doing the tickling doesn't see tickling the way we do, and therefore has merely playful intentions and nothing further), but I still feel weird about seeing it for myself. My group of college/university friends practice a lot of tickling, but it's just as likely to be m/m or f/m as m/f, so I know there aren't any sexual/flirting sub-plots to it, it's just horsing around. All the same I felt odd when my GF became part of the group and received m/f tickling, even though I couldn't rightly explain why and certainly couldn't condemn it. It's a strange feeling that you get in your stomach, and I don't know what else there is to say about it.
 
I think it can definitely go both ways. Meaning that I don't think a woman would enjoy seeing her man tickle someone else OR a mane else OR a man seeing his woman being tickled by another man. I guess it all boils down to how comfortable you both are in your relationship and having enough trust to put the jealousy to the side. That is always far easier said than done though. To some being tickled by others can be perceived as a form of cheating since amoung couples that engage in tickling regularly it relates to a depth of their intimacy and that shouldn't be shared. But like I said with trust and comfortability in each other I don't think it'd be a major issue.
 
Here's an odd one - was extremely into a certain girl some years ago. This was before I even thought about opening up to anybody about my fetish. Very dramatic unrequited love sort of stuff. You know the sort;-) She was dating this awful guy and after they broke up she told me one day, totally offhand, about how he had not only tied her up but had had a full on tickle torture session with her. And, hell, it still fills me with crazy conflicting emotions:
a)It was so incredibly hot to picture her being tickle tortured and knowing that it really happened,
b)Made me feel so protective of her all of a sudden, a huge gush of feeling, thinking of her being tortured by someone else (especially someone I found so horrible)
All this taken together in such extremes, well, all I was missing was the wacky anime nosebleed listening to her.

But that's what I think makes this a great fantasy - the mix of feelings, of powerful feelings. So yeah, I'd say it's a fantasy of mine alright.
 
I think you handled yourself very well. Not sure how I'd react seeing another man tickle my girlfriend. I don't think I'd mind watching another girl tickle her though- is that double standards or just my mind working overtime?
 
Hey Sporelord - I get where you are coming from there. Maybe the conflict is part of it. It's an idea you find hot but it makes you jealous and I suppose that gives you a kind of turmoil that grows in your gut and sticks in your noggin.

Casual - double standards mate? I dunno about that. I reckon girls tickle each other for different reasons than guys who tickle girls. Be good to get some female perspective on that.

I've seen two of my mates tickle the feet of a third. There was nothing sexual or fetishy about it, they were just messing around with him and sat on his legs because he wouldn't get up in the morning after we'd been drinking so they were trying to get a reaction. Another time I've seen two girls I know kiss each other in a bar. It was no big deal to them and they just did it to get a rise out of all the guys they were with. It was a turn on to the viewers and just a laugh for them.

Maybe it's because for us there is the other side of tickling that it makes us react they way it does. I wouldn't find it hot to see another guy trying to cop off with my girlfriend or anything. That would probably send the red mist down.
 
I wouldn't like it. I don't think I'd feel comfortable seeing that.
 
Depends on the situation for me. If it's just a quick, harmless tickle between friends then I see nothing wrong with it. I've tickled a couple of my friend's girlfriend's feet and neither of them seemed very bothered by it (in fact, one of them encouraged me to do it).

I've only had the situation happen to me once, and it didn't bother me. We were in church one Sunday morning, and my gf took her shoes off and was barefoot. Her friend sitting next to her (who was male) reached down and gave her a quick foot tickle. I saw him go for it and didn't mind at all. In fact, in my mind I was thinking "go for it" because I realized that for him, it was probably just a friendly tickle and nothing sexual. My gf knew I had a tickle/foot fetish at the time, and even asked me if I was bothered by it later on.

Now if had been a guy that barely knew her (or I guy that I barely knew) and he reached down and tickled her for a lengthier amount of time, I would have been bothered by it. So like I said, I think it all boils down to the situation.
 
Oh My God. As long as I'm in control of the situation, it's the biggest turn-on.
 
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