It makes a lot of sense what others are this forum have been saying. Yes I agree there is no crime and nothing to feel bad about and nothing wrong with you happening to love that part of the body and loving and adoring feet. It is a fetish for you and nothing bad about that. I never knew how common it had been for many have a foot fetish guess it runs deep and it is a big time passion for many.
I agree just take it slow and cautiously and slowly introduce this kink-being the love for feet-slowly maybe try to incorporate asking the woman if she would enjoy and would like a foot massage as a way to help her relax and unwind. I don't know too many women that would object or say no to that to be honest. Just take it from there nice and slow- slowly rub the woman's feet and pay her a sincere compliment saying how pretty her feet look and paying special attention to her feet and gently massaging her feet and just pay her compliments from the heart-sure she will feel very relaxed and very comfortable and this might help her lower her emotional defenses and help her be at ease. There are lots of women that totally love having their feet and pampered, it is a great feeling.
You got to remember women love to feel good and love to feel they are being paid attention to, being shown special extra gentle care, love to feel they are loved, cared for, and cherished, most importantly it is crucial the woman feels special and pampered. I must say a foot massage could do wonders and if you want later when you confess love of feet-if nail polish on toes turns you on and she wears polish on toe nails-you could offer to paint her toe nails if you want-she might like that, hey maybe paint her nails too-if she would like that.
Just remember what is important is that you just make your love for feet seem natural and not freaky-take it slow and keep it simple and don't feel ashamed of your passion for the lovely sight of feet. If you handle it calmly and treat it like something natural, she is likely to follow suit, whoever the woman might be unless of course she has an aversion to the sight of feet and feet are not a turn on for her. Even so if this be the case-long as you keep it natural and casual, not a big production-drama free-she is likely to respond in a very caring and gentle positive way.
What is important is that you do what you can to make the woman feel like a queen and feel loved and cherished, and if you do that you can't go wrong. Good luck and please don't lose the faith and just know somewhere out there there is a woman that is your soul mate who would feel very lucky and love to have you in her world. Thanks for sharing this great thread. Hugs.
Also try not to overworry and try your best not to dwell on the fact that you need the sight of lovely feet to get and to stay sexually aroused-nothing wrong with that-don't fight that embrace that-just might help to try to keep in mind other features and traits that your girlfriend possesses that you love about her-that are also great sexual turn ons for you. Maybe seeing a counselor to help you talk on this sexual frustration of having trouble staying sexually aroused when not seeing or not interacting with feet might greatly help-counselor might be able to help you a lot. Not saying it is but it could be a emotional, mental, or psychological block that is unsubconsciously as arisen without you knowing it. Couple therapy and seeing a counselor might not be a bad idea. Hope that this helps. Please don't think strange of yourself, there is a lot of people who have troubles sometime in their life sexually or emotionally or in some aspect of one's life, try not to let this consume and worry you. Let me know if this helps.
