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[pwrtroc4]

I recently confessed to my girlfriend Barb that I have, for a long time fantasized of being tied up and tickled. I even showed her this website so that she could read some of the stories and see what it is all about. Unfortunately, she let it be known that she's not really interested and even feel's uncomfortable with the whole idea. I told her at the time that I had even considered hiring a professional dominatrix or escort inorder to help me fulfill my fantasy. This upset her so much that she brought up the subject to her sister Reece.
Now Reece feels that she might have the perfect solution. She's co-hosting an "Adult Toy Party" in about two weeks and she wants to have it at our place because of the room. I've been sort of hesitant but now the two of them came to me with this idea. Reece and her friend's have been trying to think of way's to make this party unique and Reece (she hasn't told the others yet) thought that maybe having a half naked guy tied to a table all night long would add some spice and fun to the evening. And it would help me with my little issue. Of course, It would all have to be be done in a very fun and light-hearted way. They thought that it could play out like this. Some of the items that they are selling are restraints and bondage items. And the would need someone to demonstrate them with. The party is just for females (mostly single girl's in their 20's and 30's) but since the party is to be at our place, they would call me out of the back room so that I could model some of the gear. The twist would be that they would keep adding restraints until I was completely trussed up and at their mercy, blindfolded and gagged. Than they would invite all the guests up to inspect how well the products held me in place. Since they are also selling feathers and such, they could demonstrate as they tickled me that no matter how much I struggled the restraints would keep me (or anyone) in a state of helplessness until they decided to free me. Then they would just ignore me and go back to showing off the other products they have for sale. And if anyone were to ask about me they would just say that they had alot of things to show and they would release me "a little bit later". Which of course would never happen.... and it would become like a running joke of the evening.
Now I haven't been able to think straight since they brought this up. This is my fantasy times a billion. But I'm not sure that I can go thru with it. Most of the girls I don't know. They are Reeces friends and co-workers. But she has assured me that they are all extremely hot and that when they start to party they can get to be a bit wild and will be thrilled to have a trussed up male that they can play with and tease . And there I would be, helpless and railed to the n'th degree. I have been trying not to think about this or else I find myself turned on all the time. My sex life with Barb has never been better. I have always been the dominant partner in the bedroom and lately I feel like I can't get enough sex with her. I go at her like a wildman, just thinking about how it will feel to be so helpless in a room full of woman. Barb just keeps asking me "Are you sure that you want to go thru with this? Are you really sure that you want to go thru with this?" Her sister Reece now refers to me as her "bondagebuddy" and still has to run the idea by the girls that she's co-hosting the party with and one of them is a representative of the company that could nix the whole idea.
Reece has made it clear that this would all be done in fun and as a laugh, but that I would have to agree to be tied up for the entire evening as she saw fit. She seems to know just how to push all my buttons since she's been debating with herself in front of me weather I should be left hog-tied on the floor or strapped down on my back to our massage table. "Anyway" Reece told me," If everyone agrees to it, and when we get the right items in our hands, Barb and I are going to have to do a practice session with you so that we aren't fumbling around on the night of the party." and always with an evil giggle.
Now this might seem like a stupid question but if this were offered to you, and this is your kind of thing, could you just say yes without being just a little bit ........( let's see, can't use the word scared....or afraid....) let's just say very, very, apprehensive?

 

[LeeAllure]

Jeeze...

That almost sounds like a lot of the fantasies people
write about. Just think how many people would be
insanely jealous of you, wanting to be in that very
situation 🙂

I'm fairly certain, fantasy aside, that this sort of
arrangement doesn't come up very often. I suggest you
take full advantage of it!

Lee

 

[ticklesenseless]

Go for it and enjoy yourself. Many of us are jealous if this is for real.

 

[St. Louie]

If you ask me......

You just answered the question...."Is there really a God?"

 

[LItickleree]

sounds great, have lots of fun, how are things with your gf now though, is she starting to loosen up about it a bit.

 

[kilitiinko1]

What?!?!?!

Are you insane? By all means,take advantage of this golden opportunity! One woman tickling you- GREAT! Two women tickling you-BETTER YET! Multiple women-OH YEAH!!! And ,yes,they all will have a go at you,especially if they see Barb and Reece tickle you! No woman can resist testing a ticklish man who is helpless! If you won`t do this,I`ll take your place! Good luck!

 

[drew70]

I know how you feel. It's a little scary. Okay, maybe even a lot scary. But this is a huge opportunity for you. And after it's all over, I guarantee you will remember it with whimsical fondness for the rest of your life! If you're scared, don't feel that it's "unmanly." It isn't. It's a perfectly legitimate feeling. But from the way you speak, this is something too exciting for you to let slip through your fingers. You can do this, man.

Go for it! We're all pulling for you!

 

[Jerry67911]

I'm sure I'd be nervous as hell, especially just as the event started, especially not knowing how much I can take. BUT, I'd have to try it since I've fantasized about such a thing for a long time. It's too good to pass up, you'll be kicking yourself if you don't try it.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

i have to echo the thoughts of a few that posted so far. it would be a bit nervewracking to have so many ladies making you the focus of that type of attention. but if the sister is serious, things could go well...especially if the g/f sees just how much fun you're having an re-evaluates her previous thoughts on tying you down.
the purpose of life is to live...and have as much fun as you can!

 

[Mike3355]

if you don't i'll happily take your place

 

[Lost_My_Mind]

Are you anywhere near ohio? Even if you do go through with it........maybe you need an extra model? I'll get my coat!

 

[SlaverTickler]

I'd be conserned.

Being the untrusting wet blanket that I am, I'd be worried that the two sisters might be out to "teach you a lesson" because you mention using an escort to work out this Fantasie you have. I would never go for allowing myself to be tied up with more then one person, especialy when it's two sisters, and one of them I had resently upset.

 

[milagros317]

That almost sounds like a lot of the fantasies people
write about. Just think how many people would be
insanely jealous of you, wanting to be in that very
situation 🙂

Lee

Lee Allure is exactly correct. I am jealous of your opportunity and it is a fantasy of mine.

I have done roleplays with Mistress Zara that are similar to this, when she worked in the Hidden Chamber and could bring in four or five other Mistresses for a few minutes. The thought of it going on for hours is awesome. 😀

 

[Divine Howling]

Sorry but I got to go with SlaverTickler on this(your not the only untrusting wet blanket), but I would stress making sure that this is okay with your girl. There is a chance that she may not be into the idea as her sister is, and maybe afraid to speak up. So ask her when you two are alone just to make sure.

Second, this is just my opinion but I think you should not bring up the idea for an escort. You have to make sure that she constantly knows that she is the main woman in your life(definately sounds like she is though), that she is not sharing you (or some part of you) with another.

Other than that if all parties are okay with it then go for it.

 

[TickledToDeath]

You have been offered a Platinum opportunity here. VERY unwise of you turn it down.

 

[toneus79]

Sounds to me that you should be going out with Reece, not her sister 😎

 

[Eroticklee]

I think it's a great idea and you should do it. I'd like to think that I would be brave enough to do it, if it were me.

 

[J_Laughs]

Well

I think I'd be a bit nervouse too if that was my 1st experience. Talk about jumping into the deep end!. Then again, nothing ventured, nothing gained. You might find a couple there really are into it and it will lead to many more opportunities. Don't forget to sell the TMF to any F lers that seem interested. Never can have too many in the community 🙂

 

[tklcouple]

Wow!

Well, isn't that an opportunity. A few thoughts:

1. Make sure you have that private discussion with your girlfriend and allow her a "no contest, no need for discussion" out from this should she change her mind. I would especially tell her to take an evening and "sleep on" making up her mind finally with especial consideration of jealous feelings she may develop. They may not be obvious to her right away and she should play with a mental picture in her mind of what will happen and examine her feelings aroused by that.

2. You may want to make arrangements to spend time with just your gf right afterward or very soon to debrief and bond. This experience could make you closer or pull you apart - a lot of it is how it is handled.

3. Insist on seeing a guest list with full names and possibly cities of residence on it and pics of the girls (snapshots from a photo album) with Reece first. You may change your mind if in fact, unbeknownst to Reece one of the girls just got a job with your employer or your girlfriend's, is the sister of a childhood friend, a friend of your Mom's, etc. I will remind you that IT IS A SMALL WORLD.

4. Consider the future. I work in a VERY public job and doing such a thing in the presence of just one wrong person could cost me my professional reputation as well as perhaps my job. You may not have such a position, but consider the ripples in the water to come as once the stone is cast in the waves cannot be stopped.

5. Once you have done the above, for several reasons, insist with Reece that a strict "no photography, no taping" rule be enforced and that any violators have their equipment confiscated, the data immediately erased, and the items retuned only after you are done and dressed. If you do not care now, you or your children may someday. You break up with your gf and any pics, etc. may end up God knows where. And if you think she is not capable, think again should you piss her off and/or break up - you know what Shakespeare said about a woman scorned.

6. Establish a set of expectations and codes (safeword) if necessary should you feel the need to pass out, lose bladder control and/or have physical pain. Remember: these are people you do not know let alone have played with.

7. I know you may think it awkward, but if you have a buddy (male or female) outside of your relationship with your gf whose first loyalty is to you, and knows of your fantasy, talk to them and see if they can come with you and sit in a corner quietly and watch. This is a safety issue. If two of the previous posters are correct and they are attempting to "teach you a lesson" by humiliating you in other ways, taking pictures, not respecting the boundaries set, or even doing you physical harm - this person may be your only hope for salvation from this ill treatment. While most do not, some women think it's OK to physically hurt a man and/or degrade and humiliate him or blackmail him if it's to to "teach him a lesson". I do not know you or your gf, but as a rule I have found you would be surprised where loyalties actually lie when tested. I know I have had a few surprises.

That said, this could turn out really cool but I encourage you to be careful, consider everything - first and foremost your safety and future and that of your relationship with your girlfiend. Best of luck and let us know how it turns out.

Best wishes,

Professor Tkl​

 

[pwrtroc4]

Thanks for the advice

To all that responded, thanks for the advice. Of course I've got to go thru with it. I'll never get this chance again.

Barb has been very supportive of me going thru with this even tho she hasn't changed her attitude about it. And I haven't even tried to talk her into something that she'd made clear that she is uncomfortable with. That wouldn't be a good time for either of us. Nor did I ever attempt to theaten her with "Either do this for me or else" I wouldn't do that. When I brought up going to a pro, I meant that years before. I had thought about it.

It's funny, but she doesn't see this as anything having to do with sex. She obviously seen how turned on I've been lately, but if this happened just between us, it would definitly impact what we have between us. But, if it took place in a group at a party, than it would just be something else all together. Just a crazy, dumb stunt that I'm an idiot for even wanting to take a part in. And no sex would be involved (little does she know). We were talking about me wearing an old sweatshirt that may or may not be cut off after I was tied up, so that I would be naked from the waist up. But absolutely no inappropriate touching would take place. She would be sure to see to that. Which of course brings up another problem for me. The idea of having a raging hard-on for hours that's trying it's best to touch the ceiling. In front of a group of woman. Now I know that people are going to write in saying "And the problem is..........? But we're talking reality here. Not a brain movie that I can start and stop at any time. Not to mention being able to direct all the action.

Also, if this happens it's not going to be me being tickle-tortured and teased for hours. The focus will be on selling the products. But I won't know when the tickling will start, or how long it will last. Much to the delight of some of the ladies there. There's just something funny about a guy being kept tied up by a bunch of woman.

So far as being with Reece, I don't think so. She's a bit of a spoiled brat, always flirting around with this 5,000 watt smile and I find myself always have to question what's going on behind her pretty face. She definitely likes to know other peoples secrets and how and when to push their buttons, but I don't think that she is half as charming as she leads other people into thinking that she is. As a matter of fact the thought's crossed my mind that she might just be playing me this whole time. Just to get the use of my place for the party. With no intention of fulfilling anything for me.

Anyway, that's the way it stands. The party's set for the Saturday after Thanksgiving. Reece will be meeting with the other's and the party rep. next weekend to square up the details. Then she say's she''ll present her idea to the other hosts. I won't know til then.

I just have to stop thinking about it. My brain's starting to hurt.


Just a quick P.S. to the last list of advice.( the reply just before this one) One of the most appealing things about this scenario is that i would be talked into doing something that I really had no part in orchestrating. Which I really haven't. I've read a lot about the value of safewords but I really don't think any will be needed. I know that Barb will be watching me like a hawk and we really do have a unique, trusting relationship. She just wants me to have fun. And for all the not so nice things I've said about Reece, I know that she wouldn't let things get carried away either. I just have to make Barb understand that she can't just be there shooing girls away before I get to experience what I need to experience. But thanks to all that replied.

 

[pwrtroc4]

Coming soon

A little more than a week away and it looks as if everything is a go. Reece isn't even going to bring up the idea with the rep. From the beginning the rep has told the party givers that not only should no men be at the party, but none should even be in sight. She can't insist on it but the whole idea of the party is to sell as much product as possible and make it fun ladies night out. Reece thinks that it would be better to just go ahead with the plan and apologise after than to ask permission first and be told a flat out no. Her other friends are all for the idea so long as it'd pulled off right. Well, if anyone cares, that's just an update.

 

[milagros317]

Good luck with it, hope the rep's reaction is not too hostile when you are borught out to demonstrate.

 

[siamese dream]

jeez, that's a crazy offer for a tickling enthusiast to receive 😉 If it were me, I would be scared to death but I think I'd have to go for it, too. If I turned it down, I would never stop fantasizing about what would have happened, lol... And who knows...maybe Barb seeing you all turned on by that and helpless to stop it will help her understand what tickling does for you, and maybe she'll want to try out some of the products on you when the two of you are alone again, and see if she can make you squirm more than the other girls at the office did 😉 Definitely let us know how this goes 😀

 

[SlaverTickler]

jeez, that's a crazy offer for a tickling enthusiast to receive 😉 If it were me, I would be scared to death but I think I'd have to go for it, too. If I turned it down, I would never stop fantasizing about what would have happened, lol... And who knows...maybe Barb seeing you all turned on by that and helpless to stop it will help her understand what tickling does for you, and maybe she'll want to try out some of the products on you when the two of you are alone again, and see if she can make you squirm more than the other girls at the office did 😉 Definitely let us know how this goes 😀

May I just say your Sig-Pic is amazing.

 

[pwrtroc4]

Been in such a stir lately about what's soon to go down that I e-mailed a great sex call-in show out of S.F. It's called and found at Sexwithemily.com. Just a great show available as podcasts as well, so they can all be downloaded and listened to. In the beginning of this particular show, Emily and her sometime co-host Vergie, talk about my e-mail. Episode 52, part 7. (Had a bit of trouble trying to hyperlink it.) Just a great, great talk show. I urge everybody to give it a listen. They did mention tickling once in passing as a turn on. They are always looking for interesting content. I'm sure that if they recieved e-mails urging them to have an entire show on our favorite subject, they would jump on it.