steph said:
What makes your "dream ticklee" and I don't mean things like "She has to have 50G boobs & weigh 90 lbs" 🙄
I mean think back to your best experience...what about them left their mark on you, and why?
XOXO
with me the things i look for in a lee and what i look for in a girlfriend can be the same or sometimes different,, although i have a certain type that i might be interested in as a girlfriend,, that doesnt necessarily apply to a girl i would want to tickle,,i think the biggest things i look for in a lee are personality, sense of humor, smile, attitude ( positive ) clean and very hygenic ( important ) lol! she has to be willing to relax and be herself and not worry about whether or not i am attracted to her,, ( its all about the tickling afterall ),, she can be short or tall,, big or small,, as long as she is friendly,, nice,, and fun!,, i think preconcieved notions have stopped many people from going for it when it comes to tickling and meeting for that reason,, i know that several times when i was approached by a female lee online,, one of the biggest insecurities they had was that i would judge them by thier appearance! which is silly cause nobodies perfect and we all have our areas that need improvement,,myself included,, the wonderful thing about tickling is it has more to do with personality than with physicality ( at least thats where im coming from ),, i know that many female lees see the ultrahot! supermodels that star in most tickle videos and they feel like they do not compare,, and it leaves them feeling depressed,, what they need to know is that those girls are paid to be tickled and would never do it otherwise,,its like porn,, these producers want money,, they arent going to be lucky enough to have ultrahot chicks approach them and say " hey! i want to have sex on film for free and make you money in the process" that will never happen,, they have to find extremely hot ladies who work in the industry and have sex on film for big $$$$$$$$$$$ thats how it works,, and most ticklers and ticklees know this,, and yes it is awesome watching the " beautifull people" being tickled,, but if you look at pictures from most of the tickling gatherings or " nests " you wont see any supermodels,, mostly regular people like you and me,, and i think thats what makes tickling awesome! its the great equalizer! its something you can do without being a superstar! and it doesnt take money or fame or anything else to do it,, just each other : ),, sorry for the ramble