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for those who think "Gangsta" is cool

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I wish I could post the picture of the 4 year old who was recently shot and killed at Jane and Fintch here in Toronto, Canada. The punks who did this are the sam sort of scum who you the "Gangsta" lovers seem to look up to and admire. So when you put a picture if 2punk or Usless Old Bastered as your sig pic remeber this is the type of stuff the would do.

By the way, "nobody saw who did this" witch everyone say when the coward drive down the middle of a street with an automatic weapon and kill 10 people in an attempt to kill one. I will post this kid picture when I can.
 
SlaverTickler said:
I wish I could post the picture of the 4 year old who was recently shot and killed at Jane and Fintch here in Toronto, Canada. The punks who did this are the sam sort of scum who you the "Gangsta" lovers seem to look up to and admire. So when you put a picture if 2punk or Usless Old Bastered as your sig pic remeber this is the type of stuff the would do.

By the way, "nobody saw who did this" witch everyone say when the coward drive down the middle of a street with an automatic weapon and kill 10 people in an attempt to kill one. I will post this kid picture when I can.

We don't always agree on much, but I do agree with this! I've grown weary of glorifying and glamorizing violence, disrespect of women, drugs, and whatever mayhem you can imagine to a funky beat!

You would think people had better sense than to live and die by this crap. You would think people would just dance to the music and behave like civilized people. But no, they actually believe in ride-n-die by homicide! This is some of the very behavior that keeps many in my race in jail, hospitals, and the cemetary. 😡 😡

Post you photos of the kid. They're dying for nothing in the streets everyday and it's a pathetic shame!! :ignite: :ignite:

***kis gets off soapbox and returns thread to original owner***
 
Pleasent Suprise.

I have to say kis when I first saw that YOU had repleid to this that I was going to read a negative reaction to it. It's like the old saying goes, the Enamy of my Enamy is my Friend. Today on the John Oakly show (AM 640) here in Toronto they were talking about "Racial Profiling", some people called int an said "If it will save live then do it." but most people weren't cool with it.

The thing that pisses me of are theas Civil rights people. They scream that the cop's don't do enough, but when they try to do something they get called racisit for there efforts. Plus the fact that when a white cop shoots a black guy they march down to police HQ over it. But when a black guy shoots another black guy where are they then. Why aren't they marching down the street pleading for the people in the neighborhood to turn the guy over.

I think I know what the answer is but in light of what happened last time, I think I'll keep it to myself for now. If anybody wants to here it PM me.
 
so, let me get this straight. a bunch of spineless punks kill an innocent kid and it's 2pac's fault? these assholes who did this ONLY did it because they listen to "gangsta" rap? so, that means, guys like Dr. Dre and such should be arrested in connection to this senseless murder? come on man, give me a break.

hate to bust your bubble, but 2pac didnt pull the trigger. stop blaming the music. if you want to do that, then can you please blame the music artists that those Columbine killers listened to as well? what's the difference? oh, i get it. you just dont like that type of music.

everyone has different tastes. just because someone listens to a certain type of music, doesnt mean they are going to "act out" what the songs are saying. i have NOT participated in a drive by shooting. i have NEVER committed a senseless act of violence. i dont go around calling women "bitches" and "ho's". but i listen to some "gangsta" rap. i love 2pac's music. for the record, 2pac wasnt going around shooting innocent victims....

go ahead, post the picture of that innocent kid. but please, post the pictures of those Columbine victims. please post the pictures of "NightStalker" Richard Ramirez's victims and blame Ozzy Osbourne because Ramirez LOVED to listen to Ozzy as it INSPIRED him.

get the point?
 
While I definitely feel for the familys and of the people that get shot everyday by gangs, etc. I have to agree with Primetime, as I too am a listener of hip hop and gangster rap. Certainly there are some messages in this music that are not good but that doesn't mean that any person with a brain would have to go out and shoot people. It's something I've had to defend with many people lately, my preference in this kind of music. It's absolutely ridiculous that we blame things like the media and music, etc. when in reality it all comes down to people taking responsibility for their own actions. I recall people killing themselves based on Kurt Cobain's music, and several other heavy metal bands in the past (which sorry I can't recall considering it's 2 a.m.) While not a follower of metal music, I certainly wouldn't have blamed the music. I would hope that people in general have a brain and some independent thinking to not just go out and do some of the things listed in any form of music there is. I've heard some crazy lyrics whether it be a country, rap, metal, or other sing. Just my .02 for whatever it's worth or perhaps I'm just babbling, lol.

Sandee
 
I would love to agree with you, but the fact remains that there is a group of young people who not only listen to the music, but subscribe to a lifestyle that is negative at best, deadly at worst! They believe the hype these rappers sell, then proceed to live it out until they die. These are usually young impressionable, and mostly poor people with little sense of hope in their lives.

I'm not blaming 2pac, but then again, where is he now?? He died violently, unnecessarily, and tragically very young. Same with BIG-his mother still grieves such a senseless way to end a young life. And I couldn't begin to make any sense of Columbine. There are people who this music has a very negative effect-it can't be dismissed and should be dealt with on some level. I'm not sure how you do it-you can't throw the entire industry in jail, nor should you. You should use self-respect and respect for others and balance it out. Parents should know what their kids are doing and what they're listening to because music is very influential whether you're willing to admit it or not. It's even more influential to the percentage of people who can't separate fantasy from reality. These are the ones gang-banging and shooting up schools folks.

Everyone wants to come to the defense of the music. I can understand it to a point. But there needs to be some responsibility and accountability for the fallout. You're right, it doesn't affect everybody the same way. But there are too many people dying through the percentage of people who just take it way too far.
 
The Problem is...

The problem is the lack of male rolemodels in the black comunity. Then again there realy aren't that many male role modle's any comunity now. The fact that alot of black kids are being raised by single parent's (mostly mom's) leaves thease kids with a void in there life. They try to fill the male role model with the adult males they see on TV. People are natural drawn to there own, and the black men you see most on TV are either athleats or hip-hop performers.

The fact is that when a male reaches about 12 or 13 he needs the lumming "threat" of an ass kicking from dad to keep him in line. Because some of thease kids don't have that they turn to the guy with all the "bling" and "ho's" on TV. It's a saductive life. Then add to the fact that black leaders in the comunity only come out whem "whity" does something, but when the black on black stuff happens either they stick there heads in the sand, or try to put a "it's the white man's fault" twist on things.

In Canada the penalty for crime just isn't high enough. There is no death penalty, or a standered sentencing for crime. People get out on perole in months for a 10 year sentance. Back in the late '50s Elvis was considered a bad infuince for singing rock and roll. Find me an Elvis song that promoted killing, raping or just doing realy bad things to somebody elts.
 
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Crime is not a reflection of Gangsta Rap. Gangsta Rap is a reflection of crime and the violence that existed long before Rap music came on the scene. When an artist paints a portait, nobody says "wow, you look just like that painting." They say "wow. That painting looks just like you." Real life crime is the artist, and Gangsta Rap is the portrait.

Kids don't need Rap music as a role model for bad behavior. They grow up with it in their schools, among their friends, and the people they truly emulate are the thugs they live among on the streets everyday. If you eliminated Gangsta rap today, you wouldn't affect the crime stats in these inner cities, one tiny bit.

And Prime is absolutely correct in his assessment of your problem being most likely the "type" of music it is, rather than the violence you think it provokes.
 
primetime said:
if you want to do that, then can you please blame the music artists that those Columbine killers listened to as well? what's the difference?

The difference is that Kleibolt/Harris lifestyle hasn't translated itself into an accepted pop subculture. There's no "Goth Murder Krunk Juice" for sale at 7-11 nor a "2 Fast Alternative Death Metal Rave 2 Furious" film playing at the Googleplex.

The Nightstalker killings took place nearly 20 years ago....yet....you hear gunshots from teens & young adults nightly in many neighborhoods. THAT'S a big difference, and by that standard the goth/metal crowd then have a lot of catching up to do. People like Kleibolt/Harris aren't generally born into the subculture, they grow into it, while Kleibolt/Harris themselves were outsiders by everyone's admission. A shorty born into a babymomma's home today is pretty much going to grow up thuggy to create more babymommas out there in the world tomorrow if that is what normal life looks like to homeboy.

And if anyone forgot the 1980s, Tipper Gore + the PMRC, as well as Fallwell's Moral Majority, DID come down on a lot of metal music at that time.

On the other hand, only God can judge me, and even he doesn't come around these parts, so I gots a LOT of leeway!
 
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Oh shadow, you've got some splaining to do...

Why is it then, at the JaRule concert her in Toronto there was a shooting. Because it brings out aggressive feelings. An aggressive Rock song can have the same effect, sometimes. But you don't see people in Rock band t-shirts driving up the middle of the street with a machine gun. Those kids see those guys on TV, and want to be like them. They see the flashy "Pimped out ride" and hot chicks, and dudes flashing big wads of cash. The Gangsta Rappers glamorise and promote that lifestyle.

If it's the art, then why is it ok for a black rapper to sing proudly about being a pimp, or about some woman he raped, but it's not ok for a white Klans man to do the same about lynchings and burning cross's. Becuase we know it would enguorage others to go out an do the same thing.
 
We always have to blame someone else!

I agree with Shadowtickler...rap music is a reflection of society. It's not the music or the musicians fault for these crimes. I've always listened to hard core rap, and heavy metal, in fact the older I get, the harder I like my music. Guess what, I'm a white female accountant. I don't think I'll be turning to a life of crime any time soon! I'm dating an African-American man who grew up in West Philly listening to Public Enemy and other hard-core rappers--He's more conservative than I am! It's not the music, it's the home life.

My problem with all the role model comments is, kids shouldn't have to look to music stars, or athletes as role models. They should have people in their family and communities that they can look up to. There is the reason for crime. The kids have nobody to look up to, so they turn to anybody who gives them the attention. Sadly, the people who give them the attention have their own motives for doing so. Maybe if parents actually paid attention to their kids instead of pushing them out the door so they can get some peace and quiet, or sitting them down and using MTV for a babysitter, things like this wouldn't happen.

Oh, and here's a thought. How about instead of spending billions of dollars on a useless war, we spend some of that money at home to offer quality child care to single parents so they can improve their lives and keep their kids off the street!


**jumps off soap box**

tbbw
 
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I dont mean any harm with this statement, but why did rap music become the scapegoat here. Long before there was hip hop, video games, there were western movies, rated R, movies, etc., etc., etc. Believe it or not, and this may shock you, there were murders before recorded music. Even as a believer in Jesus, I would be the first person to tell you that religion has killed more people than anything on the history of civilization, second only to money (probably a close second). While we are banning hip hop, lets get rid of organized religion and money, along with the tv shows and movies.

Hold on....we forgot something. What about people with tempers? Without getting into a shit talking contest, I have been in more than a couple of altercations in my life...some provoked, some unprovoked (I am not a perfect man, and I have a short fuse at times). Never once, however, did I get done listening to a rap cd and say to myself "Time to start a fight" or "Time to shoot someone." I certainly dont need a Ja Rule concert to get me in the mood to defend myself. So we will give everyone some sort of test, and those with bad attitudes and bad tempers need to go somewhere else where they can fight each other until they all kill each other. So far, to end violence, we are down to (in no particular order):

1. Hip hop
2. Religion
3. Tv shows (particularly westerns and police dramas....just because the guys shooting the guns are white, doesnt make it any different than the hip hop artists).
4. Movies
5. Money
6. People with tempers and bad attitudes...which should, in theory, relieve us of people who resort to violence in acts of defense or retaliation.

Does anyone else see where this is going?

I am truly sorry the family lost a daughter. It happens though, senselessly or not. Hip hop and the people listening to it are not the ones to blame, and I am amazed at the amounts of references to the African American community in these posts and no one questioning it. This isnt the first time I have asked this question, and if I may I will ask again and maybe someone can shed some light on it: Why are people who listen to hip hop A) always characterized as being violent, ignorant, AND B) African American? I dont listen to country music, but I would never call someone who did a hillbilly cracker mothaf*cker. However, statements like this:

If it's the art, then why is it ok for a black rapper to sing proudly about being a pimp, or about some woman he raped, but it's not ok for a white Klans man to do the same about lynchings and burning cross's. Becuase we know it would enguorage others to go out an do the same thing.

and this:

The problem is the lack of male rolemodels in the black comunity. Then again there realy aren't that many male role modle's any comunity now. The fact that alot of black kids are being raised by single parent's (mostly mom's) leaves thease kids with a void in there life. They try to fill the male role model with the adult males they see on TV. People are natural drawn to there own, and the black men you see most on TV are either athleats or hip-hop performers.

And if I felt like it, I could go on a witch hunt and pluck several statements made about race here, concerning black women not being ticklish, asians being more ticklish, why African Americans feel this way, why the Latinos dont, etc. I have spoken with Slavertickler before in the past...he is a good guy. But quotes like the one above...sometimes it seems like the race card gets a lot of leeway sometimes here. I am a caucasian male, yet I like hip hop. Many of my friends (almost all of them actually) are African American, and it amazes me that not only are the stereotypes that are used to describe African Americans on average arent questioned, but that more people do not question why these posts are allowed to stay up. My tag team partner Nontkl is African American, my friend Bella is African American, kis is African American...why are they allowed to be categorized any differently than my friends here from Europe or my caucasian friends here? "the black men you see most on TV are either athleats or hip-hop performers." Wrong, bro. Change the channel every once in awhile; there are alot of strong, prominent African Americans who dont listen to hip hop, dont ball, and dont tote guns on tv. Check out C-Span, CNN, Fox News, BET, TV One,...I could go on and on.

I dont mean to go on a rant, and I apologize if this post took a little turn in a slightly different direction. But I am curious as to why some of these things are allowed to continue to happen. I have reread this thread to make sure I didnt come off too loud (and if I do I apologize right now). I have no ill feelings towards any member of this community. And usually I would just stay in the mainstream and celebrity clips and scenes, posting content and avoiding threads like this. But it just seems to me that hip hop and part of the community that helped it flourish seems to come under attack way to often here without taking into the account of some very prominent members that I have befriended and respect (suck as kis, non, bella, etc.).

keith
 
All of us have sterio types.

The world is filled with stereo types and they exist for a reason. In my post I pointed out family, that is a big part of the problem. Role models are important when your a kid. When dads not around we turn to the Athleat, singers, heroes in the movies. When my dad was a kid it was the Lone Ranger, but nobody thought it was real. For one thing have you ever seen the kid in thos show. Good lord, my old man and his friends hated them.

Black people have come out against rap as well.Queen Latiffa (sp*) herself has been very vocal about the way women are portrayed in the songs. Why is it that MC Hammer vanished, because he didn't write angry music. He didn't hate people. Gangsta rap is all about hate (well 90%). I'm a white middle class guy from Canada, I know I can't totaly relate to the plight of the American Black Male, but that doesn't mean that I don't understand the problem.

I just feel this music promotes a bad lifestyle.
 
Let's talk about scapegoats!

Rap music is not the culprit! It's the violence, demeaning towards women, and the drug/thug life it glorifies. It is NOT necessary to make music with these types of lyrics-simply not necessary! Why would women want to sing a song with the terms "b**ch" and "ho" in them? I simply don't understand. I'm not trying to dog out any women on the boards here, but I simply can't find music with these terms in it desirable to listen to!

These people are taking their Constitutional right to free speech and running it into the ground! Along with "rights" come responsibilities and the people making this "music" are not being the least bit responsible.

I'm glad that many of you are self-controlled and take this music for what it is. However, there are people out here that actually are plugged into thug life. They live it out everyday-why sing about it?

And on the subject of idols, heros and rolemodels:

Why not expect some of these well-overpaid athetes and musicians (for lack of a better term) and others to be role models? They are whether they like it or not. Kids are looking at them everyday wanting to be just like them, not their mother who works three jobs to keep a roof over his head, or the father who may or may not be nearly as impressive looking as Shaq or Jay-Z. And that is if the father is even in the life of the child.

Once again, another example of wanting the money, but not wanting any responsibility. To whom much is given, much is required-these guys get treated like gods yet complain that they don't want to be role models. Too late-the kids are idolizing them anyway. Why not bring something positive to the table? What would it hurt-record sales?
 
ticklishbbw said:
I agree with Shadowtickler...rap music is a reflection of society. It's not the music or the musicians fault for these crimes. I've always listened to hard core rap, and heavy metal, in fact the older I get, the harder I like my music. Guess what, I'm a white female accountant. I don't think I'll be turning to a life of crime any time soon! I'm dating an African-American man who grew up in West Philly listening to Public Enemy and other hard-core rappers--He's more conservative than I am! It's not the music, it's the home life.

My problem with all the role model comments is, kids shouldn't have to look to music stars, or athletes as role models. They should have people in their family and communities that they can look up to. There is the reason for crime. The kids have nobody to look up to, so they turn to anybody who gives them the attention. Sadly, the people who give them the attention have their own motives for doing so. Maybe if parents actually paid attention to their kids instead of pushing them out the door so they can get some piece and quiet, or sitting them down and using MTV for a babysitter, things like this wouldn't happen.

Oh, and here's a thought. How about instead of spending billions of dollars on a useless war, we spend some of that money at home to offer quality child care to single parents so they can improve their lives and keep their kids off the street!


**jumps off soap box**

tbbw

All I can say to this is AMEN!!
 
again, why blame the music? to some degree, people can get inspired by the lyrics and perhaps act out on them. but guess what? they were inclined to do something violent whether they listened to rap or not. like others have said, there were drive by shootings, rapes, calling women "bitches" and "ho's", senseless murders, pimping and all kinds of other stuff WAY BEFORE 1988, when NWA came out with the first type of "gangsta rap". you take away gangsta rap, the violence still continues.

all this stuff about kids looking up to these artists is true to a point. but again, look at the audience. most of these "kids" who you claim will emulate the lyrics literally, were going to do so anyway. they see these artists who are just like them. grew up poor and in the streets. these artists did not create the lifestyle they rap about. it is what they learned in life. get it right.

plus, all this talk about the violence that rap portrays. has anyone ever taken a look at the album covers of punk/ska music? heavy metal? those covers are not exactly "family oriented" either. where is all the ruckus about those covers? what is it about "black" music that people must get riled up about? dammit, if people are going to criticize rap music, then i want to see equal criticism of other type of music that promotes death and other "scary" images. will we see that? of course not.....let's be fair people, let's be fair.

basically it comes down to this. is it the music or is it the lifestyle of the person who listens to music to blame for senseless acts of violence? it is the lifestyle folks, not the music. anyone with a brain will realize the difference between what's right and what's wrong. the music does not MAKE someone do things. it comes down to personal responsibility.
 
primetime said:
again, why blame the music? to some degree, people can get inspired by the lyrics and perhaps act out on them. but guess what? they were inclined to do something violent whether they listened to rap or not. like others have said, there were drive by shootings, rapes, calling women "bitches" and "ho's", senseless murders, pimping and all kinds of other stuff WAY BEFORE 1988, when NWA came out with the first type of "gangsta rap". you take away gangsta rap, the violence still continues.

all this stuff about kids looking up to these artists is true to a point. but again, look at the audience. most of these "kids" who you claim will emulate the lyrics literally, were going to do so anyway. they see these artists who are just like them. grew up poor and in the streets. these artists did not create the lifestyle they rap about. it is what they learned in life. get it right.

plus, all this talk about the violence that rap portrays. has anyone ever taken a look at the album covers of punk/ska music? heavy metal? those covers are not exactly "family oriented" either. where is all the ruckus about those covers? what is it about "black" music that people must get riled up about? dammit, if people are going to criticize rap music, then i want to see equal criticism of other type of music that promotes death and other "scary" images. will we see that? of course not.....let's be fair people, let's be fair.

basically it comes down to this. is it the music or is it the lifestyle of the person who listens to music to blame for senseless acts of violence? it is the lifestyle folks, not the music. anyone with a brain will realize the difference between what's right and what's wrong. the music does not MAKE someone do things. it comes down to personal responsibility.


We can take gangsta rap (not all rap), metal, and any other music that covers the violence, disrespect, and other negative behavior and throw it into the same garbage can for all I care! Garbage lyrics aren't necessary to make good music-that is unless you can't or won't take the steps to produce a better quality product. It takes time to make lyrics that inspire and promote positive to the listener. It doesn't take much to put "bit**es" and "ho's" to music, does it?
 
i'm all for positive music. i am a very positive person. unfortunately though, a lot of people rather be negative than positive. it is human nature, humans are inherently evil. that is why it is easy to be "bad", but hard to be "good".

what i dont like, is people blasting rap music for the violence that takes place and it has no talent, no real beats. but yet, i look at other types of music, (punk/ska and heavy metal) and what they have on their covers, NO ONE ever throws a hissyfit. let's be real folks, do THOSE covers promote goodwill towards men? i doubt it. i havent listened to the lyrics, so i cant comment on that. i wont do what others do and ASSUME they are all about Satanic rituals and stuff. but, where is the criticism?
 
primetime said:
i'm all for positive music. i am a very positive person. unfortunately though, a lot of people rather be negative than positive. it is human nature, humans are inherently evil. that is why it is easy to be "bad", but hard to be "good".

what i dont like, is people blasting rap music for the violence that takes place and it has no talent, no real beats. but yet, i look at other types of music, (punk/ska and heavy metal) and what they have on their covers, NO ONE ever throws a hissyfit. let's be real folks, do THOSE covers promote goodwill towards men? i doubt it. i havent listened to the lyrics, so i cant comment on that. i wont do what others do and ASSUME they are all about Satanic rituals and stuff. but, where is the criticism?

For starters, I don't listen to or affiliate myself with those other genres so I don't have a ton to say about them. However, if they promote violence, disrespect towards women, drugs, or any other issue I previously addressed, they can be thrown in the garbage. And let's face it-rap gets more crossover attention than the others you mentioned so it's going to be more familiar.

The fact that people find it so much easier to do bad than good makes fertile soil or fertilizer to grow this stuff in. Nothing I say will stop people from listening to it or buying it. As long as people listen and buy, they will continue to churn it out! No need for talent, training, or tact-just churn and burn and they will come!
 
kis123 said:
And on the subject of idols, heros and rolemodels:

Why not expect some of these well-overpaid athetes and musicians (for lack of a better term) and others to be role models? They are whether they like it or not. Kids are looking at them everyday wanting to be just like them, not their mother who works three jobs to keep a roof over his head, or the father who may or may not be nearly as impressive looking as Shaq or Jay-Z. And that is if the father is even in the life of the child.

Why not--because they are entertainers, not meant to be role models. Are you telling me everyone who has money should be a role model just because they have it? Who, or what type of person or lifestyle a child looks up to is driven by the enviroment they are raised. If they are taught that celebrity and money is important and something to be admired, then that is who/what they will look up to. It still all comes back to the home enviroment. We learn who to admire, and what is important at home.

tbbw
 
SlaverTickler said:
The problem is the lack of male rolemodels in the black comunity. Then again there realy aren't that many male role modle's any comunity now.QUOTE]

Male role models!? Yeah, right. Have you been watching the sitcoms lately? Every father is portrayed a useless, lazy, bafoon that the mother has to put up with. Anytime a man open's his mouth on a sitcom, he is silenced by the snappy, intelligent wit of his female counterpart and heis sent back to watch the television. Maybe if we started showing the sacrifice men make for their family's every day and how much honor and noblility there is in being a father, we wouldn't have so many single mothers. Think about it - would YOU want to be that classified as that lazy, clueless, dickless father we see on the sitcoms? I wouldn't.
 
ticklishbbw said:
Why not--because they are entertainers, not meant to be role models. Are you telling me everyone who has money should be a role model just because they have it? Who, or what type of person or lifestyle a child looks up to is driven by the enviroment they are raised. If they are taught that celebrity and money is important and something to be admired, then that is who/what they will look up to. It still all comes back to the home enviroment. We learn who to admire, and what is important at home.

tbbw

Yes, I am saying if a person is rich, famous, always on the media, than they should consider their ways because millions of children are watching them. Whether they like it or not, that is the way it is.

You are absolutely right, morals, values, priniciples should be developed at home. How much of that his being done in poor neighborhoods where the 15yr old mom is working on her 2nd kid? She could use some guidance herself.

If I were in the position of some of these famous people, knowing that there are kids who would want to be just like me someday, I'd ask myself "is this an image I'd want someone else to emulate someday?" It's not a hard question, but it could produce some profound answers. Besides, many of them could benefit from some self-analysis and soul-searching judging by their public behavior.

Why are us "ordinary people" required to standards of behavior and these "entertainers" don't have to subscribe to? Why does society in general allow them to get away with their public antics, yet tell the rest of us right from wrong? Why can Snoop Dogg, other "entertainers" and so many athletes
literally get away with murder and I can't even negotiate my way around a traffic ticket? I wish judges had the "stones" to really start dealing with some of these folks! Maybe we wouldn't have so much trouble out of some of them.

Having money and fame shouldn't exempt you from responsibility for your behavior. It should call you to a higher standard, not a lower one.
 
OBM, hold onto your seat!!!

OBleedingMe said:
SlaverTickler said:
The problem is the lack of male rolemodels in the black comunity. Then again there realy aren't that many male role modle's any comunity now.QUOTE]

Male role models!? Yeah, right. Have you been watching the sitcoms lately? Every father is portrayed a useless, lazy, bafoon that the mother has to put up with. Anytime a man open's his mouth on a sitcom, he is silenced by the snappy, intelligent wit of his female counterpart and heis sent back to watch the television. Maybe if we started showing the sacrifice men make for their family's every day and how much honor and noblility there is in being a father, we wouldn't have so many single mothers. Think about it - would YOU want to be that classified as that lazy, clueless, dickless father we see on the sitcoms? I wouldn't.

This is probably why I don't watch sitcoms anymore! I actually couldn't agree more with this statement. No real, self-respecting woman (so I've already eliminated a group of folks) wants a milk-toast for a man. She wants someone who is strong, can think for himself and actually be the man he was designed to be. She does NOT want some autocratic dictator who has a "my way only and I rule this over here" attitude that many of the programs of old possessed.

Many women sacrifice for their families everyday as well, and are expected to still cook, clean, and service their men and their families. How about a program that shows how real families work? How about a show about families working together to stay families in today's society? How about the dad who works three jobs and the mom who works two jobs to keep food on the table?Because that wouldn't make good entertainment would it? How could that possibly be funny? Hell, even reality TV is scripted-hollywood doesn't ever want us to deal with reality. They'd rather continue to shape the system through people's tv habits.

The pendulm has swung way too far in the other direction for me. I have other methods of entertaining myself. I educate myself in my spare time on things that matter to me. I also hang around here and learn a lot about each of you and how you feel about the issues of life. Yeah, we're tickelphiles, but we have lives too.
 
SlaverTickler said:
Why is it then, at the JaRule concert her in Toronto there was a shooting. Because it brings out aggressive feelings. An aggressive Rock song can have the same effect, sometimes. But you don't see people in Rock band t-shirts driving up the middle of the street with a machine gun. Those kids see those guys on TV, and want to be like them. They see the flashy "Pimped out ride" and hot chicks, and dudes flashing big wads of cash. The Gangsta Rappers glamorise and promote that lifestyle.

If it's the art, then why is it ok for a black rapper to sing proudly about being a pimp, or about some woman he raped, but it's not ok for a white Klans man to do the same about lynchings and burning cross's. Becuase we know it would enguorage others to go out an do the same thing.

First, the JaRule shooting. People with a propensity for violent behavior will behave violently regardless of the venue in which the violence is committed. This propensity is cultivated over time, and influenced by environment, and social norms. It is not initiated by the words in a rap song. That shooting would have occurred if those guys were at a Carly Simon concert; probably not under the same conditions, or for the same reasons, but it would have happened. This isn’t a black rapper thing; this is a socioeconomic, educational, community thing.

Long before there was Rap, there was Superfly, Shaft, Three the Hard Way, Cleopatra Jones, and a host of other blaxploitation movies that “glorified” pimps, thugs, and gangs. These movies weren’t written and directed by black people. They were directed by white people who decided that black actors were only fit to portray such roles in the movies. Today, many black Rap artists are doing no more than white people have been doing to blacks for decades – creating and exploiting a persona for monetary gain. The only difference now is that black people control nearly every aspect of it.

Next, what kind of comparison is Rap music to the Klan? The reason someone might try and make such a comparison would be to cast a distinction between racisms, rather than musical influences. For example; Does Rap music promote killing white people, and burning their houses down? Does Rap music promote the segregation of blacks and whites? Does rap music glorify shooting “rednecks?” Does Rap music call white people an inferior race? Does Rap Music regard white people as animals? Does Rap music call for all white people to “go back where you came from?”

Making such a comparison demonstrates an attempt to vilify race, rather than musical influence. So, which is it that is really bothering you, Slaver; music, or race?

Consider this: you have afforded yourself an excuse to use words such as "Whitey," or "White boy" in several other posts to demonstrate your feeling of subjugation to what you may regard as an unfair social system that dismisses the behavior of black people for things that would otherwise condemn white people. Your inability to consider other areas of media and entertainment that glorify sex, violence, killing, drugs, abuse of women, gangs, and prison life, is telling.
 
primetime said:
like others have said, there were drive by shootings, rapes, calling women "bitches" and "ho's", senseless murders, pimping and all kinds of other stuff WAY BEFORE 1988, when NWA came out with the first type of "gangsta rap". you take away gangsta rap, the violence still continues.

That's why the thread is about the gansta lifestyle, not the rap alone. Again, it's the cultural shift - it's not the music, it's the subculture as a whole. Back in the old days, you had a lot of gang violence in the big cities, based on gang pride and money to be made from the drug trade. At that time, in the days of NWA, Public Enemy, Ice-T and so on, rappers were telling stories about what they saw in everyday life (just like a lot of CA punk bands did, such as The Dead Kennedys with "Moon Over Marin", "Police Truck", etc.) In it's time and place, American rap (and punk) was a sort of hybrid folk music and storytelling ballad.

What happened AFTER that, after the old days, was as the music and trappings of the subculture became more widespread, you now had people spraying the streets with gunfire in Peoria, Illinois. Rappers were no longer telling stories about what they saw; they manufactured images of themselves, and continued to propagate the violence and ugliness because it made them big men with their posse, a big man can have some pull, and with that pull you can become a star. OG rappers talked about what they knew, and it made them stars. Modern Gs want to be stars, so they make an effort to develop a violent, street cred rep. In other words, the past shootings, dealings and pimping was the landscape of where the gangsta rappers came from. These days, many rappers are posers who make the pose into a terrible reality, perpetuating that landscape, making it and manufacturing it, keeping it going, because that's how you make money and get big - only now it's been imported everywhere and not just kept in the overcrowded metropolitan areas as in the past. Their fans, who have seen even less of what the rappers have seen in their everyday lives, now act that out, just as little kids put on capes and try to be superheroes. Emulation does indeed occur.

primetime said:
all this stuff about kids looking up to these artists is true to a point. but again, look at the audience. most of these "kids" who you claim will emulate the lyrics literally, were going to do so anyway. they see these artists who are just like them. grew up poor and in the streets. these artists did not create the lifestyle they rap about. it is what they learned in life. get it right.

No one is complaining about the music - it is the lifestyle. The music is simply the most obvious aspect, and for better or worse, fair or unfair, the medium of conveyance of the lifestyle. If someone.... no, many people..... rap about where they go, what they do, what they are wearing and drinking while they do it, what they are playing on what specific type of stereo in what specific type of car as they fire this or that kind of gun... what you have is a repetitive blueprint to a lifestyle or subculture that a young male filled with his own hormones will absorb. Men and women looking for an identity will latch on to something and try to make it their own. Frankly, people who live this lifestyle know it! There was a trial in Houston, TX in 1994 where a young man shot a police officer, and HIS OWN DEFENSE was that he was listening to so much anti-cop rap that day, over and over, that he acted out on it. In other words, here was a violent hip-hopper saying, yeah, this music is a component in my lifestyle, and my lifestyle is pretty unpleasant. So.... gangsta rappers have not improved things for their own people in 10 years, while they make millions and continue to grow in legion - and it's the critics who are the bad guys? Shiz. The guy's defense was rejected of course, personal choice and responsibility being the biggest factors - just as in the cases where Ozzy and Judas Priest were sued in the 1980s when kids killed themselves while listing, repetitively while intoxicated, to their songs and killed themselves. Common sense won out and the musicians were cleared. But 2 things should be considered, two big factors:

1.) The music played SOME role in all of these acts, just not the major role; it was more about lifestyle. But it can't be completely discounted.

2.) unlike the gangsta rap/ gansta lifestyle, the heavy metal casualties are fewer, aren't as mainstream, and far less often involve random innocent victims on the street over things so ephemeral as pride or specific as drug money. You can shake your head and do the devil fingers in your mirror all day long and no one really gets hurt; someone starts swinging a blade or firing a gun to prove what they are, that blade or bullet has to land somewhere.

primetime said:
plus, all this talk about the violence that rap portrays. has anyone ever taken a look at the album covers of punk/ska music? heavy metal? those covers are not exactly "family oriented" either. where is all the ruckus about those covers? what is it about "black" music that people must get riled up about? dammit, if people are going to criticize rap music, then i want to see equal criticism of other type of music that promotes death and other "scary" images. will we see that? of course not.....let's be fair people, let's be fair.

There would be equal criticism if there was an equal real life, in-the-streets comparison. It's not 'let's be fair', it's 'let's be real'. There is violence on punk and ska albums.... but how mainstream is ska compared to 50 Cent? With ska, that's like comparing hip hop to klezmer music. You can read articles or watch interviews again and again from older, original gang members, the ones who got out and became successful and the ones who are in jail for life, and THEY are shocked with how violent & disrespectful the modern gangbanger is. And gangbangers generally aren't listening to Sarah McGlaughlin on their Blaupunkts cranked up to 10. Sidney Vish may have killed his girlfriend, but he didn't grab a 9 and bust caps into a crowd of people because he was told to leave a nightclub, which happens every weekend as opposed to a 30 year old event. And the reason Sid and Nancy ended up dead was because as a 19 year old male Sid started believing his image, began living out the press he was getting, and it lead to destruction. What is exactly what gangsta rappers are doing NOW, not whatever was happening in the 1

What happened AFTER that, after the old days, was as the music and trappings of the subculture became more widespread, you now had people spraying the streets with gunfire in Peoria, Illinois. Rappers were no longer telling stories about what they saw; they manufactured images of 980s. They are manufacturing creating an image and trying to live up to that image, meanwhile people who know even less, seen even less, than the rappers are buying into it. There's a reason the OGs like T and Kane are going back into the communities they rapped about and trying to improve things, give people more choices. Pac, 50, The Game etc. were and are just screwing up those efforts trying to be stars. About the worst thing that 'grunge' did was lead to self destruction of the people who got turned on to drug aspect. It didn't lead to people in entire housing projects having to sleep on the floor because of the bullets that flew nightly.
 
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