Frustrated

[Ovda]

Anyone know my frustration?

There is a gal at work that I so desperatly want to see her barefeet. She is a really nice person. Attractive, at lest I thing she is attractive. She walks around wearing brown slip-on shoes. I really want to see her barefeet. I've asked her if she is ticklish. She told me that she has very ticklish feet and can not stand to have her feet touched. That makes me want to see her feet even more. I get a small glimpes of her soles when she squats down. She drives me really nuts when she wears khaki capri. I want to ask her if I can see her feet, but that will never happen. I fantasize about tickling her, a lot.
I just need to get this off my chest.

 

[featherfingers]

I've seen similar threads like this pop up from time to time. I'll give you the same advice that I've given others in your predicament... treat the lady as a whole woman, not just a pair of feet with a body attached. When she sees that you value her as a person, she may decide to become your friend... but try to cool your engines or you may scare her away. You said that she is a nice person. That in itself is reason enough to befriend her. Whatever you decide to do, treat her with respect and be sincere when you talk to her. She sounds like a very special person, emphasis on the word PERSON.

By the way... you THINK she's attractive? She either is or isn't. What matters is how you feel about her anyway. Treat her nicely... she deserves it and please don't ask if you can see her feet! Would you ask a lady to show you her boobs if you had a breast fetish? Same thing only different body parts.

I've been where you are, so please remember that I'm only trying to help you learn from my mistakes.

 

[TummyDragon]

... Would you ask a lady to show you her boobs if you had a breast fetish? Same thing only different body parts.

No way I'd ask to see her breasts... don't need to.. I ordered those X-Ray vision glasses from the back page of a Superman comic about 30 years ago. 🙂

Seriously... I agree with the feathery fingered one... you obviously do respect her, so it should be a simple jump to become friends with her. The fact that you work with her makes it more difficult because almost anything in the workplace these days is considered some form of harassment or whatever. But, if you could become friends with her outside of work, then you'd probably see her feet in the course of simple everyday stuff.

I understand your situation though. There was an extremely cute girl in my seventh grade class.. I really wanted to see her feet. This fantasy continued for about four months until I finally saw them... oh my god.. the Evil Foot Beast!!! She was another with incredibly beautiful everything but feet... THAT fantasy was better left as fantasy in my case.. I still have nightmares.

 

[featherfingers]

The fact that you work with her makes it more difficult because almost anything in the workplace these days is considered some form of harassment or whatever. But, if you could become friends with her outside of work, then you'd probably see her feet in the course of simple everyday stuff.

Good point, Tummy Tum Tum! I forgot all about that issue. The quickest way to the unemployment line or a date with Clancy Cellmate is to harass a co-worker. You've got to proceed with caution at the workplace and be ever so respectful to her outside of the workplace, should she become your friend. I went through what you're going through with my ladyfriend... the only difference is that she loves to walk around barefoot and enjoys being tickled... but there was a time when I barely knew her. Time and a fondness for each other brought wonderful opportunities for the both of us... but we started off as strangers once. Doesn't everybody?

 

[Ovda]

Give me some credit. I don't follow her around the store staring at her feet. I treat her with respect and as a person. Trust me, I lost my last job because a freshman college student took my joking around the wrong way. I really do not want ot go through that again.
She and I are movie freaks. I've been tempted to ask her to the movies, but I doubt it will ever happen.

But thanks for your words of advise.

 

[Ovda]

I'm on burrowed time. She put her two-week notice in yesterday (2/11). I think I have a way of seeing her feet. I'll ask if I can juggle one or both of her shoes. I've done this before. Of course I'll do it with just us alone. Damn! I'm going to miss her. No just for the fantasy, but she is a really nice person. So pretty. At least I know that she has VERY ticklish feet. She can not stand to have her feet touched that are sooooo ticklish.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Buy her a gift certificate to get a pedicure telling her as you give it to her that you want to see the finished product.
Call it a going away present.

TTD

 

[Mitchell]

That's a good idea.
Unfortunately, it is a fact of life that us foot fetishists probably wont see many pairs of feet we would like to. There are dozens of women on TV, especially people like news reporters, weather girls, and such, whose feet Iam dying to see, because the rest of them is so hot, and I know it will never happen. Alas, that's life.
Back to your situation: The pedicure idea suggested may be a good one. For me personally, I'd be leery of buying a co worker a pedicure unless she was a really good friend, and I trusted her, but that's just me. Good Luck, though, I hope you get to see her feet before she leaves. Seeing a pretty pair of feet is always awesome for a guy into feet.

Mitch

 

[featherfingers]

Give me some credit... But thanks for your words of advise.

I replied to your thread in the first place because you sounded very intent on seeing that girl's feet, with respect to your fantasizing about her and all. I just wanted to make sure you took things slow and steady. You're probably a very level headed person, but on the Internet, do we really know who we're dealing with? I just wanted her... and you... to be safe, that's all.

I'm glad my words of advice were helpful, as were Tummy's. Like I said before, I once was in your shoes. I could've benefitted from someone else's experience back then. You're fortunate to have a place like TMF to talk things over with like-minded people. I didn't have that luxury when I was your age. Sorry to hear that the young lady is leaving.

 

[TheW]

Consideration

To consider an analogy, I might have a desire to sleep with a woman at work. But I would not necessarily try to make it happen. Trying to create a relationship with somebody so you can obtain a desired outcome (like sleeping with them or tickling their feet) just seems misguided to me. The answer is that you may not be able to satisfy your desires to do this or that when it involves another person. That's life.

 

[mart]

To me, there is little point in starting a relationship with anyone for some such specific purpose, especially if you are not really that interested in them as a person. And to get interested, you really only have to talk to them and listen to their story, in other words, make interesting conversation!! That is basically all one needs to do: be interested, be interesting, be outgoing and uninhibitted, and put your desires for her body on the back shelf until a realatioship of trust has been built up.

After that you can leave it or pursue it as you wish without anyone getting upset or hurt.

 

[chode]

Dont turn into the "creepy" guy at work. Or the guy "that used to work here."

 

[Oddjob0226]

I know how you feel, Ovda, getting it off your chest and all. No advice or lectures - sometimes it sucks to be "different". I know how you feel

 

[playgirl031383]

hey

I think you should just come on out and ask her if you could see her feet i mean she told you she had really ticklish feet so she seems like she is opened about anything especially if she told ya that so just ask her she might show you

 

[vegasfootboy]

idea

try reverse psychology,, bet her that her feet arent ticklish,, this is something you could have better sucess with if you would have done it when you were very first discussing it,, but if it ever comes up again,, bet her that her feet arent ticklish and no matter what she says,, keep saying " ill bet there not ticklish at all " just watch that shoe and sock come off lol!

 

[asutickler]

Dont turn into the "creepy" guy at work. Or the guy "that used to work here."

That's some pretty sound advice, and I agree completely. When you get labeled as the "office weirdo" or something of that nature, you hit the biggest, thickest glass ceiling of them all...

 

[stampstock]

So many good pieces of advice, but when you read each one down the line, we're almost all going in our separate directions. So what the hell's one more --- First, I think Tummy's got the yellow eyes from looking at the FootBeast. As for me, I look at shoes all day long. And I'm into feet AND upperbody. I'm half-baked when the women at work raise their arms while wearing something sleeveless or flip off a shoe. And the 99% of times when I miss it, I'll go out of my way to see it. It's amazing I get anywork done. I probably got fired 4 months ago and haven't noticed. But you with this girl, you have to feel your position. If you feel you can confront her before she leaves and try to start a relationship, then cool. But on the same note, if you feel you can confide in her about your love for feet, and think she'll entertain you, well...that's one of those real-life decisions.

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

I think you should tell her you like her. You would like to give her YOUR PHONE NUMBER so she can stay in touch with you. If she has any interest in you at all she will give you her number at the sametime. You might want to suggest a movie or an ice cream or something like that. You might be surprised by the response you get. Good Luck

 

[Ovda]

I think you should tell her you like her. You would like to give her YOUR PHONE NUMBER so she can stay in touch with you. If she has any interest in you at all she will give you her number at the sametime. You might want to suggest a movie or an ice cream or something like that. You might be surprised by the response you get. Good Luck

We exchanged e-mail address. I write her once and a while. I sent her a "Get to know" quiz. In it I asked 'On a scale of 1-10(10 being the highest) how ticklish are you and where? She replied '8-knees'. When I first asked her, in person, she gave the same answer, and I asked about her feet. She answered that she can ot stand to have her feet touched.
As for asking her to the movies, she is a single mom of two kids. So they take up her time.