Fun or Torture

[confessor]

I've dated several girls with various reactions to tickling. Some have seen tickling as fun and some have seen tickling as torture. The girls who saw it as fun would put up with a lot more tickling than those who saw it as torture. However, I found myself much more sexually aroused by those who saw it as torture, even though the tickling was very limited (I couldn't bring myself to really torture them).

Another thing that really turned me on about the girls who saw it as torture was their stories of being tickled in the past. With two of the girls I dated, all it took was a quick stroke to the soles of their feet to get them talking. One would talk about how her brothers would pin her down and tickle her feet until she screamed so much her mom would come rescue her. The other would talk about how her dad would tickle her feet until she peed her pants and how he never seemed to realize that it was pure torture.

These little anecdotes really got me excited, even though I knew I could only tickle these girls very briefly without overdoing it. The girls who saw tickling as fun would let me tickle them all day long, but I never really got as excited as I did by those desperately ticklish girls who just couldn't stand it.

So my question is, which would you rather have? A girl who saw it as fun and would let you tickle them all the time? Or a girl who saw it as torture and would only let you tickle them briefly? I would rather have a girl who saw it as torture. Just knowing the girl is horribly ticklish is enough to turn me on without the need for very much actual tickling. What do you think?

 

[FAIS]

I agree

A girl who deems it as torture is preferrable

 

[GuldenVleugel]

Fun and torture in one. The eternal dilemma is a must. She must like at herself of course, that's why torture alone is not my dada.

 

[BorisandNatasha]

Tickle Torture is Fun!

All tickling is fun.

Boris

 

[Coda]

That's very interesting. I would think that in real life, there would be no point to tickling someone else if they didn't, on some level, like it (the same way that when you do anything with a partner-- play a video game, or see a movie, or throw a frisbee-- it's sort of a drag if both people involved aren't up for it).

At the same time, I know a certain type of fantasy is dependent on the idea that someone finds themselves in a situation that they don't want to be in, or is made to do something they don't want to do but can't help, and that can manifest itself in various ways; not just tickling. It seems universal.

Normally, that sort of idea keeps itself contained within my fantasy realm, but occasionally, I hear some story about some embodiment of this in real life, and it's deeply fascinating and sometimes equally exciting. It seems dark-- especially talking about it to others-- but I think it's worth exploring and understanding better.

 

[taptoematt]

The answer is, are you into tickling or are you into torture ?

 

[tcklft]

If she's not having fun, neither am I.

 

[theticklefan]

I agree. If she is not having fun, neither am I, so i have more fun if the girl likes tickling too.

 

[911]

Torture!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[jaba]

somebody needs their ass kicked....

If she is not having fun, neither am I, so i have more fun if the girl likes tickling too.

Yep.......

and I'm greedy for a lotta giggles, and ladies who love tickling last longer....

Oh....and that father who tickles his daughter until she pees?....he needs a serious ass kicking.....and if he hasn't gotten one yet, I hope he gets one.....soon.....

 

[minerva]

Fun and torture in one. The eternal dilemma is a must. She must like at herself of course, that's why torture alone is not my dada.

That's it! For some girls it's torture, but still fun. They can't stand it, but still can't get enough. I know at least one of them 😉

Btw, i totally agree with Jaba. I found this father tickling his daughter until she peed quite disturbing as well

 

[ViperGTS]

I prefer the girls who see it as torture, but when forced to endure prolonged tickling, start to like it. :-D

 

[SlaverTickler]

I prefer the girls who see it as torture, but when forced to endure prolonged tickling, start to like it. :-D

Your a sick man Viper, and here I thought we had nothing in common. Tho' I preffer it when it's a torture they want to endure. They beg for it to stop, and then after a little rest the dare you to do it some more.

 

[ViperGTS]

Your a sick man Viper

You haven't got a clue.

I just haven't had the opportunity to demonstrate just how truly sick I am.

 

[daddy]

I prefer the girls who see it as torture, but when forced to endure prolonged tickling, start to like it. :-D

Pretty much how I think. I however don't think I could enjoy tickling someone if it made them ill or caused severe pain to them.

peace out,
daddy

 

[E-Dawg]

For me............

For me, I love it when a woman is enjoying it. I prefer it to be fun. In some cases, torture is ok if it's "torture in a good way" (not coming down to anyone getting hurt).

 

[Bugman]

I agree. If she is not having fun, neither am I, so i have more fun if the girl likes tickling too.

Same here....and i want her to enjoy it more then i do.😀

 

[Edge]

I've never thought anyone being tied up and tickled could ever be "only" having fun...if the person is really honestly ticklish than it is automatically some form of TORTURE for that person to not be able to get away or fight back being tickled nonstop.

 

[Bugman]

I've never thought anyone being tied up and tickled could ever be "only" having fun...if the person is really honestly ticklish than it is automatically some form of TORTURE for that person to not be able to get away or fight back being tickled nonstop.

I have not found that to be true at all.There just need to be limits set and respected.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

Tickle Torture is Fun!

All tickling is fun.

Boris

Well said

 

[NavelTickler75]

I could never bring myelf to torture a girl. It seems wrong to me, and I'd feel horrid, as I've been tortured as a child by it.

So tickling for fun would be my cup of tea. I am not a sadist

 

[Ace Riley]

Tickling is rarely something people enjoy. You're hurting yourself if you're looking for someone that "likes" being tickled.

Nobody "likes" to be tickled. I may enjoy being a lee, but it's not a normal thing that I "like" it. My body will still shy away from it, and escape involuntarily. It's a normal thing to want it to stop when prolonged, that's just the natural responce.

For one to like tickling, is for one to like markless torture at a masochistic or sadistic level. Even if you're gentle about it, you're trying to illicit involuntary responce in the form of laughter, it's a thing you're trying to, even if gently, force out of someone.

If you wanted to do something fun that you were sure they would enjoy, why not have a "back massage" fetish. Most people find that enjoyable. Tickling, not so much. Tickling is fun, but it was meant to not be. To love tickling is to love the torment of what the mind is telling you, and what the body is telling you. It's the conflict that truly binds us before cuffs are ever involved.

 

[tklgal226]

Tickling is rarely something people enjoy. You're hurting yourself if you're looking for someone that "likes" being tickled.

Nobody "likes" to be tickled. I may enjoy being a lee, but it's not a normal thing that I "like" it. My body will still shy away from it, and escape involuntarily. It's a normal thing to want it to stop when prolonged, that's just the natural responce.

For one to like tickling, is for one to like markless torture at a masochistic or sadistic level. Even if you're gentle about it, you're trying to illicit involuntary responce in the form of laughter, it's a thing you're trying to, even if gently, force out of someone.

If you wanted to do something fun that you were sure they would enjoy, why not have a "back massage" fetish. Most people find that enjoyable. Tickling, not so much. Tickling is fun, but it was meant to not be. To love tickling is to love the torment of what the mind is telling you, and what the body is telling you. It's the conflict that truly binds us before cuffs are ever involved.

Well said Ace...

 

[NavelTickler75]

Tickling is rarely something people enjoy. You're hurting yourself if you're looking for someone that "likes" being tickled.

Nobody "likes" to be tickled. I may enjoy being a lee, but it's not a normal thing that I "like" it. My body will still shy away from it, and escape involuntarily. It's a normal thing to want it to stop when prolonged, that's just the natural responce.

For one to like tickling, is for one to like markless torture at a masochistic or sadistic level. Even if you're gentle about it, you're trying to illicit involuntary responce in the form of laughter, it's a thing you're trying to, even if gently, force out of someone.

If you wanted to do something fun that you were sure they would enjoy, why not have a "back massage" fetish. Most people find that enjoyable. Tickling, not so much. Tickling is fun, but it was meant to not be. To love tickling is to love the torment of what the mind is telling you, and what the body is telling you. It's the conflict that truly binds us before cuffs are ever involved.

Good points, save for the fact that one can not simply "have" a fetish, an interest yes, but one is "born" with a fetish. Or at least a true fetish anyway. Oir it is implimented in the mind as one is still an infant. And I think there are those who do "like" it, without the S&M aspect to it. As there are people not even into that kind of thing, yet like tickling.

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

Nobody "likes" to be tickled.....

Ummmm.... I think there are quite a few 'lees around here that would whole-heartedly object to that statement - myself included. Just because it's my body's knee-jerk reaction to pull back from someone who is ticklilng me, doesn't mean that I'm not LOVING every single minute of it. That reaction is just reflexive, it doesn't accurately reflect what's going on in my head (or anywhere else on my body for that matter) at the time I'm being tickled. There are plenty of OTHER physical reactions my body has when a guy tickles me that better depict how I REALLY feel about being tickled.... but that's a different story all together 😉

It's like when I ride a rollercoaster - while I'm on the ride, I'm screaming my head off and by any observer, scared to death. But you'd better believe that when it's all over, my body will be coursing with adrenaline and I'll have a HUGE grin on my face. I experience such a "high" from the ride that I can't wait to do it all over again. The same goes for just about every tickle experience I've ever had. If I didn't fear looking like a total weirdo, I'd tell the guy who just tickled me "More please!" after he stopped.

As far as the topic of the thread goes, I don't like to tickle people who hate being tickled. I happen to be married to such a guy, and because of this, I almost always play the 'lee rather than the 'ler. Non-consensual tickling is a HUGE fantasy for me (mostly with me as the 'lee), but in reality, I think it would be a totally different story.... at least if I'm the one doing the tickling. When I tickle someone, I like to hear laughter not tears. You can fight me and beg all you want, but if I ever get the sense that you REALLY aren't enjoying yourself, I'll stop. There is a world of difference between someone who is "play" fighting and someone who is in serious distress... and a good 'ler always knows the difference.

Maggie