Glad that Viper popped in for a comment. Honestly, dude, that's one of the reasons I really dig your vids. I know we've had a quick chat about this before, but you seem to enjoy gags for many of the same reasons as I do.
For those who mentioned it....yeah, they do make ball-type gags with holes in them (wiffle gags) and that's an option for ya.
Safewords when gagged.....hmmmm. Yeah, issue. Speaking
only for myself here, as you've gotta be
really careful when talkin' safety issues with others....(the last thing I wanna see two days from now is a new thread, "I Strangled My Girlfriend 'Cuz Dave Told Me It Was OK!")...
I'd suggest against the "shave and a haircut" thing mentioned earlier. You might be better off with a non-verbal signal, two snaps of the fingers, something like that. Or, at the very least...have the non-verbal signal as a "back-up" to the grunted verbal one. You get into a situation where a 'lee
needs to grunt a safe-signal, she might not be able to formulate it.
Again, and this has been said over and over in threads such as this, it's all about knowing your partner and paying attention.
That being said, I'd like to further add to Viper's comment. It goes back to a conversation I had with someone else here about primal instincts. Viper said...
"I just like the look of a gagged lee....either with duct tape or with a ballgag, I think it's fuckin sexy to watch them squirm and wiggle while squealing through the gag".
Absofuckinglutely. Again, not gonna speak for everyone, but let's face it. Men are visually stimulated. Not
only visually stimulated, but it's a big thing for us. We often spend so much time trying to figure out why we do what we do, why we like what we like and Dr. Phil'ing everything to death that we forget to be honest with ourselves. Like Viper said....it's just fuckin' hot. Simple. Kicks off a trigger in a lot of men's brains.
The classic ol' book "The Joy of Sex" briefly touched on gags and made an infamous quote "the sight of a bound woman trying to scream when she can only mew is irresistable to most men's rape instincts." Now, this caused a bit of a stir, and newer printings of the book edited that line. However, while maybe overstated, there's a point there. Those primal needs to "take" and "capture" are there, they haven't just disappeared because we built the Space Shuttle and the microwave. You don't have to be a "rapist" or unbalanced in order to enjoy the
representation of it. It just fuckin' looks hot! And that's WHY it looks hot. You're getting your primal instincts satiated in a safe, controlled way.
If you're really concerned about communication but still want the "look" of complete helplessness, just try a regular old cleave gag, tying a bandana around the mouth or something. You get the visual impact, but the reality is that communication is still very possible. Try it. In the privacy of your own bathroom, tool shed or subway terminal...just tie a bandana through your mouth and see how many words you can still say.
Take pictures......send 'em to me.
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Later!