girl advice

[thats me]

well i don't have a lot of time so ill get right to it. i like this girl whos in my class, but i never see her, except for in the hallways (we went out twice last summer). she's had a crush on this one guy for about 9 months now, and just recently he was bein mean to her and she was thinkin about just leaving him alone. anyways, with only about 10 days or so left of school, i need to know if there are any ways that i can get her to like me, or at least to be thinkin about me so it wouldnt seem weird if i were to call her and ask her if she wanted to hang out sometime. any help would be appreciated. thanks. bye.

 

[kurchatovium]

I don't know how qualified I am to give advice considering all the bad luck I've had with women. There was one woman who I adored and everyone was telling me you can't tell her how you feel she will think your weird, don't be to nice to her she will think your a wimp, and all sorts of other gems like that. In the long run I wish I had told her how much she really meant to me and if that meant losing her then and there I could have handled it. Rather than thinking if I had only been more honest I might be the one she would have loved.

I gather from your message that your still rather young so if this doesn't work out don't worry there is plenty of time to find someone. I think you should tell her how you feel and just ask her out for something simple like lunch or maybe lunch and a movie. Take your time and don't push things to fast and hopefully everything will work out. Like I said when it comes to women I am certainly not an expert but hopefully what I've said is helpful. Good luck my friend.

 

[shark]

Since you have been out with her twice already,the groundwork should have been set for another date,unless there was a problem.Also,since she is already thinking about leaving him,there should be no guilt problem on your part about seeing her again,unless you had something to do with her feelings about him.

If she likes you,you will know when you ask her out again.If not,you will know that too.

 

[Cyrano]

"Just one year of love is better than a lifetime alone." - Queen

You've got to grab this chance. If you don't want to rush off and tell her how you feel, at least tell her you had fun last summer and would enjoy spending time with her again this summer. Let your sentiment guide you, just don't miss the chance.

"Regrets, I have a few, but then again, too few to mention." - Sinatra

 

[thats me]

bad news guys, i found out the other day that this other guy likes her back. oh well, plenty of fish in the sea i guess. thanks for the help. see ya later.

 

[Biggles of 266]

'tis better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all 😉