hell man, dont know if you'll see this...but you need to kick that gal to the curb!!! it took me a long time to realise myself...but if someone cant accept you for who you are...then to hell with em. they aint worth your time, effort or emotions. be yourself, be proud of your sexual fetish interests...espessaly to your girlfriend! thats the one who should be most accepting. theres plenty of fish in the sea...and prob several that will like you for who you are and accept your fetish. fuck her! (not in the good way lol) thats what id say! it saddens me everytime i see posts like this from people. they dont deserve girlfriends/other halves like that.
Yeah. A girl who won't accept your swinging ways at first glance, pffft. So not worth it. That's just crazy. Like, a girl getting upset at a guy who goes and gets a lapdance every night. Seriously, that's messed up.
Ask her what she honestly expects? Monogamy? A reservation of anything sexual for her, and her alone?
A few minutes to come to grips with something different and unusual? Not to have sexually-related stuff hidden from her in the first place, like she -ought- to be upset about it? To, possibly, talk about this? Geeze. Get with the (first) millenium, chickie. Girls don't deserve fair standards and rational explanations, right? Their brains are full of noodles and motor oil, which haven't been discovered yet, so as a result they're full of nothing recognizable whatsoever.
'Long as she's cooking and cleaning and barefoot and pregnant, it's all good, right?
(this is sarcasm, by the way
🙂 Just in case you're unable to recognize that; I absolutely respect girls, in general, as lit... as much, as I respect other guys, in general)
All the guy said at first was his girlfriend saw this, and got upset, so -he- decided to leave the Site at that (does this really sound like someone who's adult, by the way..? At all? Does anything about this guy smack of being 18-or-older?) and this touched off an avalanche of a lot of people who, I'm pretty sure, don't have psychology degrees, telling him he's in a controlling relationship and he needs to kick his girlfriend's ass "to the curb" (which is probably not necessary as they're likely both 15 and not living together anyway), which strikes me as being very excessive with little information to go on.
