guys: ever get "excited" when you didn't want to?

[SadCuzNotTcklsh]

You know what I mean..."excited"...like down there... during a session. Especially when the setting and intentions of the ticklers (presumingly female) is everything but sexual/intimate. Ever happen to you? or ladies have you ever been in a situation like this? How does it get handled? Any way to prevent them from happening? Or is just a scientific fact that those things...down there... just have a min of their own.

😕

 

[StevePerry4Ever]

Isn't that the point?

 

[SadCuzNotTcklsh]

Isn't that the point?

I don't think so, not always I mean. Quick example being a small tickle fight with your friends...I don't think would be the point in that...

 

[rhiannon]

Quick example being a small tickle fight with your friends...I don't think would be the point in that...

I think if you know it excites you that much, you tend to avoid tickle fights. I certainly do. If tickling isn't supposed to be sexual, to me it feels like sexual harrassment and I put a quick stop to it.

 

[stockytickler]

Well, in that tickling is pretty much my "on" switch, there's no real question of volition. "Want" doesn't enter into it. Someone starts scrubbing away at my furry ticklish hide ... that's just "is." And that doesn't mean it's going to lead to sex. It simply means that it pretty much always could, if you're hearing me. 🙂

Also, I'm not certain there's been any time since high school that I've ever been "excited" and not wanted to be. Being unexpectedly "excited" occasionally is just ... nice. 😀

 

[Mike3355]

it's happened, but i don't avoid those situations most likely your friends either won't notice or won't say anything about it, and if they had a problem with it if they noticed they won't repeat...

 

[janiper]

That has definitely happened to me, since most of the tickling that's been done to me the tickler hasn't really had the intention of getting sexual. Most of the
time I will try to roll over onto my stomach and try to hide it the best I can. There has been one tickling friend of mine that I'm sure could not have helped but
notice the effect she had on me, but she has never said anything and she has continued to tickle me for most of her opportunities. It's probably about a 33/33/33/ split. 1/3 will be creeped out and not ever want to do it again, 1/3 will just think that it's one of those natural things and no big deal and 1/3 will actually
be kinda flattered that they can have that effect on you. I'm not a girl, though, so I'm really just talking out of my butt. 🙂

 

[Maestro1874]

This is why I avoid non erotic tickling encounters. 😉

 

[milagros317]

Yes, I have gotten excited from being tickled in a non-intimate situation.

I think it's up to the tickler to stop if she doesn't like that reaction.

 

[3xPIN]

Are you asking if I get aroused with out "wanting" to? I don't think I could get aroused if I wanted to, like sheer force of will. Nor do I believe i could make arousal go away. It is not a matter of 'want' any more than I want to get hungry or tired. It just happens. Lack of food=hunger; lack of sleep=tired; a girl stroking my stomach with her toes and making me laugh as I lay on the floor at the end of her bed=arousal. Those things don't have a mind of your own. But that part of the body is involuntary, at least to the best of my knowledge. I'm no doctor so, don't take my word for it.

 

[FreeHugsTickler]

Yeah I've been aroused by past few Girlfriends when they were tickling me and that certain area on my body got a ''rising'' up during the tickling. But they never said anything about it or even cared really I don't think or maybe just did notice and kept on with the tickling. But to each their own I'm sure some girls would feel that was harassment in a way and some wouldn't but it happens sometimes when as a guy you don't want it to or wish it wouldn't right then. That's the nature of it though. And if it happened with me with a girl that didn't like it or care for me getting that aroused during the tickling,then I would kindly tell her for who own wishes to end the tickling and we would go about our business and do something else if that offended her or made her uneasy. I wouldn't want to push things on another person.

 

[wolfman40]

You can always try to tie a knot in it!

Tickling is a turn on, tent poles will happen..

I'm sure most women lers would be flattered

 

[Volsung]

Isn't that what makes a fetish, a fetish?

 

[Mane'o]

My experience has been that guys get "excited" for the merest, flimsiest reasons in all sorts of situations and tickling is only one of those many, many reasons. The old joke "Is that a banaan in your pocket or are you just happy to see me" has been around for ages and has nothing to do with tickling. Tickling is only one of about a million reasons for a guy to get a bulge in his pants at just about any time and any place.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I've seen or had it happen a few times. It depends on the guy, but ultimately I've never thought much of it. As long as the guy isn't a creeper, and if I'm playing with him he isn't, then it's either funny or flattering or a little of both. I've never been skeeved out by it. If you're playing with someone you share a fetish with, these things are likely to happen.

The simple joys of being a girl 😀

 

[MaleTickleeDC]

But to each their own I'm sure some girls would feel that was harassment in a way and some wouldn't but it happens sometimes when as a guy you don't want it to or wish it wouldn't right then.

Um, considering that it's an involuntary bodily reaction, any girl who would consider this "harassment" needs to re-watch those videos that they made us all sit through during middle school about our changing bodies...

 

[tickled7]

I was at one of those "Holy Laughter" services and there was a scattering of laughter throughout the church. Then a woman with long blonde hair and wearing a white cotton safari styled dress with big shiny white buttons down the front and big shiny white buttons on the pockets started laughing hysterically a few pews in front of me making her long blonde hair whip back and forth across her face. She had such an infectious laugh that I started giggling and got such a boner that the three big shiny black buttons on the fly of my cargo denims started glistening in the light. A "friend" sitting next to me noticed and he started giggling as he ran his fingertips up and down my sides forcing me to frantically twist and turn in giggles and gasps. I started throbbing in such excitement that the three big shiny black buttons on my fly wiggled with devilish delight. A deacon noticed and came over and helped my "friend" tickle my waist and sides making me frantically clutch my arms to my sides and forcing me to laugh hysterically like the woman in helpless hysterics who was now bouncing up and down in her pew in contortions of helpless laughter like a woman possessed. Soon they had me laughing so much that my excitement subsided as I was overcome with breathless laughter and eye rolling panic. They tickled me to the brink of insanity as the congregation laughed on and on totally oblivious to my plight of desperate agonizingly pleasurable hysterical laughter. It was as if the Father had told the entire congregation an impossibly funny joke that reduced us all to the giggling, gasping, chortling, laughing, and helpless hysterics of little children.

Looking back on the experience I deserved to be tickled half to death for getting a boner in church; however, they did etch permanent laugh lines into my face.

After that, they asked me to wear cargo pants with big fly buttons so that they could more easily see if I was finding the service to exciting and then after the service I would be tickled to more agonizingly pleasurable hysterics. 😀