has your tickling fetish ever just packed up and left?

[scorpionldr]

hey guys,
for months now, I think I can say either I've had no sex drive, I've lost interest in tickling, and genuinely don't want/feel a need to date anymore...not so much i don't LIKE tickling anymore, just like, I don't want the porn (lol that collection is on way too many cd-rs) or to like make a move on anyone for it anymore. it's just been one of those odd times where I'm finally happy to be alone or something.
just for shits on the details: never really was too active (sexually or tickling), never really was too "out in the open" on the fetish, very much a "closet" tickle fetishist, etc. i have one ex (the only ironically) who claimed to be a tickling fetishist, but that was really it...

I don't know, lately I'm just really confused where my tickling fetish picked up and ran off to. I used to be "normal" about the whole deal.
what do you guys think?

 

[Sandrock74]

It's probably just a "phase" your going thru...happens to me from time to time. I wouldn't worry about it or anything.

 

[scorpionldr]

lol well, i had it since 12....recognized it around 17.....never actually happened tho till around now

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I certainly hope it never happenes to me. The only time I ever want my tickle and female foot fetish to leave me is when I take my very last breath

 

[Lord Doctor]

It's deserted me a few times, but it always comes back. But something you said up top there rings a bell, at least within me. Is everything else OK?

 

[tcklft]

See a doctor. Your testosterone levels might be screwy.

 

[scorpionldr]

It's deserted me a few times, but it always comes back. But something you said up top there rings a bell, at least within me. Is everything else OK?

i've been reworking through some motivational issues......that and I'm trying to "not play the game" w/ women lately....I donno, lately I have a lot of work to do as far as some self-maintenance, so I guess thats where I'm putting my energy....I do sorta have a case of insomnia too.

 

[taptoematt]

Relax my friend, it's perfectly normal for fetishes as well as sexual drive to come and go. You could just have something else on your mind, maybe stress related. It all comes back and you'll learn to appreciate it more when it does.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

you haven't mentioned you are now, that is significant

i would strongly recomend you go see your dr., and explain you don't have any sex drive for a couple months now. you can leave the tickling part out.
it sounds like you could have any number of illnesses, from hormone deficiences, to diabeates, to nerve disorders, and more.
get checked out.

steve

 

[RavenMoon]

i've been reworking through some motivational issues......that and I'm trying to "not play the game" w/ women lately....I donno, lately I have a lot of work to do as far as some self-maintenance, so I guess thats where I'm putting my energy....I do sorta have a case of insomnia too.

There you go! You have three stress inducers right there! One of the early things to be hit by stress is your sex drive. You say you are working on some self-maintenance. That effects your self confidence, even on the smallest scale. Insomnia attacks many aspects of your body including your sex drive and desires.

I would have a check up with your GP, even if it is not time for your normal exam yet. You want to rule out any other problems that may be occuring in your system. (Insomnia can cause other problems and it is also a symptom of other things). And if that is all clear, then I would give yourself some time to deal with your stress factors, finding some healthy outlet for the stress. See how you do after that.

Best wishes to you!

 

[tcklft]

You might also want to look into Kegel exercises, which makes everything down yah mo better.

 

[Stage Whisper]

Tickling's like any other sort of thing you enjoy doing. Sometimes you get worn out, need a break or refresher.

I get periods of time where I won't come onto the TMF or be interested in tickling for a month or more. But it always comes back.

Don't worry too much about it; if it comes back, it comes back. 😀 Relax and peruse other things you enjoy in the meantime.

 

[tickles]

My interest in tickling comes and goes. I never completely stop thinking about it.....Now this doesn't influence my sex drive at all. That is pretty consistent even if the tickling isn't foremost in my mind. Maybe there is something a bit more going on....

 

[method11236]

drink lots of fluids.

 

[ticklethisangel]

I think you should relax and not dwell on it then one night your going to be with a *lee* as bad as me and it will all come back to you.......She will rock your world!
And remember.......you can have fun tickling without the sex.

 

[scorpionldr]

well guys. great to see the response this thread's getting....thanks for all the help. Between workin as a "musician" and figurin out what i wanna do with my life once i'm out of uni, got a lot on my mind. I remember when I was a drunk I was much more inclined towards tickling and such, so I think i'm gonna get a start on that again.

 

[Coda]

The "thrill" of the tickling fetish for me has come from its repression. In a culture in which everyone defaultly acknowledged tickling as sexy, it probably wouldn't enjoy the ability to entice its subscribers so deeply as it does in ours. Sex itself probably wouldn't.

As I've grown up and realized the naturalness of all things sexual in people, the shyness that fueled the fetish's fire in me produced much less smoke. But still, when I have the opportunity to speak with someone new about it, or just decide to imagine the past or find a good erotic story, I find there's still plenty to explore or that it feels fresh and new to explore the same things again.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

has your tickling fetish ever just packed up and left?

no. but, once i tried kicking it out of the house. a few days later, it came back, kicked me in the junk, at all my Cheetos, and ran up the pay-per-view bill. we've been best buds since.

 

[tickles]

.............^^...LOL!.....you IS funny..