Have you ever given a guy blue balls during a tickling session?

[Aimee]

So last night I was playing with @c7 in our (very scary) motel room & of course he started being mr. Tickler and we started playing. Well when I play its just tickling .. you know nothin sexual...so he ended up getting blue balls (funny for me...not so funny for him lol)

He was a perfrct gentleman of course & suffered in silence while I peacefully slept.

We are just curious if this has ever happened to anyone else?

Hahahaha <3 you @c7!

 

[prestidigits]

I never assume that tickling necessarily leads to sex, though it inevitably turns me on. So, yes I have left a tickling session walking funny. And considered it well worth the price! (Speaking from the other side of that equation)

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

Unless I'm romantically involved with her, I would neither expect nor offer sex as dessert after a tickling. The only "compensation" I would suggest is to give her the opportunity for payback. 😀

 

[porcelaindoll2]

I am sure I have, but I honestly try not to think about it. Most of my private play normally ends with sex and my public usually doesn't(Fusion was my first time fucking/playing in public).

 

[robmic]

I've been a victim of "blue balls" from good tickling, but I'll accept it any time if I get to tickle! Of course, when I've tickled someone I'm intimate with, we will go farther and they usually enjoy the total experience, as do I. But, it's not necessary for me to get off to make the tickling worth leaving horny. 😛

 

[BellybTickler]

It's happened to me as a form of punishment or torture.

 

[knicks255]

I don't think it's set in stone that after a tickle session you are obligated to have sex or whatever, especially if it's just a playful session and there's no sexual or romantic element involved.

 

[JazzBouchard]

Sure thing tickling might lead to sex; but if you and your partner are in love. Otherwise, would be wierd (IMO) But, I've always thought you can enjoy a good tickling without end up in bed, if you don't want to.

 

[ISUmark]

Ahhh blue balls. Small price to pay for a great session

 

[Libertine]

I don't think it's set in stone that after a tickle session you are obligated to have sex or whatever, especially if it's just a playful session and there's no sexual or romantic element involved.

If there's nothing sexual about it, why the blue balls in the first place? If the lady's enjoyed herself, shouldn't a non-penetrative quid pro quo be in order as a thank you? Seems only fair to ask for a favour to be returned, unless the man's desperate enough to promise anything for a session, and women find male desperation the funniest thing on earth.

 

[chicago]

I figured the quid-pro-quo would be that he got to enjoy tickling her in exchange for her enjoying being tickled.

 

[rhiannon]

Not every tickling session leads to sex. I haven't asked explicitly, but it could have happened.

 

[Druidici]

I've been a victim of "blue balls" from good tickling, but I'll accept it any time if I get to tickle! Of course, when I've tickled someone I'm intimate with, we will go farther and they usually enjoy the total experience, as do I. But, it's not necessary for me to get off to make the tickling worth leaving horny. 😛

I agree with you rob and like Annie said..the quid pro quo on the tickle ssession should be satisfactory.

 

[c7_assassin]

Okay, since we're all here talking about my balls I had better weigh in...

I don't generally get blue balls, even when tickling doesn't lead to sex (though it often tends to, doesn't it?). This was like blue balls and the Incredible Hulk had a baby who was throwing a tantrum in my scrotum and had booted my testicles up into my lungs. There's sweet little Aimee snoring blissfully beside me, all tuckered out and happy as I'm doing my best not to openly weep... Eventually I retreated to the other bed and just lay on my back, trying to let everything drain back to where it was supposed to. I got very little sleep that night.

And after all that suffering, I merely said to myself, "This is the life we have chosen."

I figured the quid-pro-quo would be that he got to enjoy tickling her in exchange for her enjoying being tickled.

^This, of course. Although I must add that the level of 'enjoyment' during the session was skewed slightly in her favour. As a gentleman I cannot say more. 😉

Ahhh blue balls. Small price to pay for a great session

^At the end of the day, this. 😀 😀 😀

<3 you too Aimee! 😀

 

[ISUmark]

Okay, since we're all here talking about my balls I had better weigh in...

I don't generally get blue balls, even when tickling doesn't lead to sex (though it often tends to, doesn't it?). This was like blue balls and the Incredible Hulk had a baby who was throwing a tantrum in my scrotum and had booted my testicles up into my lungs. There's sweet little Aimee snoring blissfully beside me, all tuckered out and happy as I'm doing my best not to openly weep... Eventually I retreated to the other bed and just lay on my back, trying to let everything drain back to where it was supposed to. I got very little sleep that night.

And after all that suffering, I merely said to myself, "This is the life we have chosen."



^This, of course. Although I must add that the level of 'enjoyment' during the session was skewed slightly in her favour. As a gentleman I cannot say more. 😉



^At the end of the day, this. 😀 😀 😀

<3 you too Aimee! 😀

Kudos for being a gentleman, and an upstanding human being. I had a girl in college(a twin mind you) who was just a friend. We had an agreement where I got to have a 10-15 minute session of tickling the crap outta her in exchange for me giving her a 10-15 minute massage. I realized I had a great thing going there because I got to satisfy my fetish without the constraints of a relationship. Needless to say Ive had blue balls many times and like I said before, a small price to pay my friend. Id imagine that any gentleman here on TMF has to deal with blue balls if they want any chance of having a consensual session with a woman from the forums. Small price to pay for a chance to tickle one of the many enthralling women that frequent these parts.

 

[Darkknight]

Kudos for being a gentleman, and an upstanding human being. I had a girl in college(a twin mind you) who was just a friend. We had an agreement where I got to have a 10-15 minute session of tickling the crap outta her in exchange for me giving her a 10-15 minute massage. I realized I had a great thing going there because I got to satisfy my fetish without the constraints of a relationship. Needless to say Ive had blue balls many times and like I said before, a small price to pay my friend. Id imagine that any gentleman here on TMF has to deal with blue balls if they want any chance of having a consensual session with a woman from the forums. Small price to pay for a chance to tickle one of the many enthralling women that frequent these parts.

Yes sir, I have been there.

DK

 

[porcelaindoll2]

Hey C7 I am kind of curious as to why you didn't you go masturbate in the bathroom. Although my boyfriend just told me self masturbation in the shower sucks. Did you think that would have been ungentlemanly? If I was ever in a situation like this I'd probably go finger myself in the bathroom(lol I doubt this would rarely happen unless I had set up just play with a woman and got super horny).

 

[c7_assassin]

Hey C7 I am kind of curious as to why you didn't you go masturbate in the bathroom. Although my boyfriend just told me self masturbation in the shower sucks. Did you think that would have been ungentlemanly? If I was ever in a situation like this I'd probably go finger myself in the bathroom.

Just a comedy of errors, really. Aimers needed aftercare, which turned into snuggling, which turned into sleeping (for her). And since I don't tend to have this problem, I failed to plan ahead. Trust me, I've made a mental note for the future: Never take the balls for granted.

 

[mustang]

I once had a date with an extremely pretty girl and I couldn't take her to my apartment, because my roommate was there. So, I took her to a drive-in with the hope of getting to tickle her feet while we watched the movies. She sat next to me with her right foot curled up under her and she was wearing slip-on sandals. I nonchalantly stroked the exposed arch of her foot with my forefinger and to my great surprise she pulled off her sandals and put both of her sexy bare feet in my lap. I tickled and massaged her feet and toes during two movies which lasted close to four hours. I loved the way that her toes would curl and slowly spread apart when I ran my nails up and down her the middle of her soles. That's all there was to it, but I had the worse case of blueballs in my life. When I got home I had to walk spread-legged to the bathroom. The pain was excruciating. I relieved myself standing up at the toilet and thought that I would never stop cumming. Talk about power ejaculations. I made a real mess, but I had to get some relief. Interestingly, the girl never said a thing about my tickling her feet. She acted as though it was the most normal thing in the world.

 

[ChicagoDavid]

Mustang, nice story. "A" date? Sounds like there should have been at least one more!

c7, I don't need the details, but I admit I don't understand what planning was needed. If the concern was, "I don't want to get up if that will wake her," well, the self-sacrifice is admirable but perhaps more than needed.

 

[Antarion]

This thread... I really don't like this thread...

There's something not right about going onto a group of peers just to tell us that you denied a man sex. Even if C7 Doesn't mind, that's not cool. If I were in this situation of being denied a request I most certainly would hope that it would be kept between me and the person. I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if c7 is just playing this off like it doesn't matter to hide the fact of how insulted he is.

I don't mind whatever topics we talk about, but this feels like you're using c7 as a scapegoat to brag.

 

[Libertine]

Since it's not her fetish, if you're playing privately with a woman who's 'not one of us', but is kindly indulging you, I suppose she doesn't owe you anything further. On the other hand it's also very possible to convert a situation like that into something considerably more intimate with a few well-chosen words and appropriate, gentle actions. Call it salesmanship or call it seduction, sometimes it works.

However, should a TMF-type woman/girl request/encourage someone to cater to her specific desire at a pre-arranged and private meetup I think it's extremely unpleasant of her to expect her playmate to "take matters in hand" afterwards while she herself happily basks in the afterglow and falls asleep. She could at least offer a hand (or foot...) of friendship.

Otherwise it's thoughtlessness at best, and at worst an exhibition of extreme selfishness.

 

[chicago]

Shit just got real.

 

[mustang]

ChicagoDavid, I would have asked her out again, but at about that time I began a serious relationship with a girl who had gorgeous feet...I'd say a solid '9'. The drive-in girl had cute feet, but not like this girl. The relationship was so foot tickle oriented that I never had sex with her. Her feet turned me on so badly that sex would have paled by comparison. Like the date at the drive-in, this girl never said a thing about my mania for tickling her feet. As a matter of fact, only one girl whose feet I have tickled (and there have been a lot), questioned me about why I tickled her feet so much. I just shrugged and said that I liked it for some reason and she never mentioned it again. Her feet looked a lot like Marilyn Reese's feet of the Footsie Tootsie clip store. Check that out and see why I couldn't resist tickling her feet. The drive-in girl gave me the worst case ever of blueballs, but that was because of the sexual tension of tickling her feet for almost four hours. That is my personal record and I never came close to beating it.

 

[Antarion]

Since it's not her fetish, if you're playing privately with a woman who's 'not one of us', but is kindly indulging you, I suppose she doesn't owe you anything further. On the other hand it's also very possible to convert a situation like that into something considerably more intimate with a few well-chosen words and appropriate, gentle actions. Call it salesmanship or call it seduction, sometimes it works.

However, should a TMF-type woman/girl request/encourage someone to cater to her specific desire at a pre-arranged and private meetup I think it's extremely unpleasant of her to expect her playmate to "take matters in hand" afterwards while she herself happily basks in the afterglow and falls asleep. She could at least offer a hand (or foot...) of friendship.

Otherwise it's thoughtlessness at best, and at worst an exhibition of extreme selfishness.

I'm not saying that sex is owed in this occasion... But I completely understand what you're saying.